Why do you like when someone else gives you an enema?

All of the advantages seem to have been well covered. I love the ability to totally focus on the physical and psychological effects, as well as those wonderful sensations, as the process is undertaken.

For me, I love having someone, male or female, give me enemas because they will know how much I love the feeling when they see the erection they have caused. While it once was embarrassing being totally naked on my elbows and knees, butt in the air with my erection clearly visible, the person giving me the enema coaches me through any discomfort I might feel and will not make me feel ashamed for enjoying the sexual arousal that some might be consider as not masculine.

I only actively love when my partner is giving me enemas. As discussed in other threads, I’ve had doctors and nurses and other healthcare providers give me their fair share and, while I’ve come to accept that it’s something necessary to manage the various conditions I have, and I don’t really feel embarrassed anymore, it’s not what I would call fun.

My partner gives the best enemas and knows exactly how to take care of all my needs -discipline, submission, attitude adjustment, but also intimacy and tenderness, incredible arousal and just pure pleasure and fun. I like to think that I do the same for him. The anticipation is always intense and the state of post-enema chill and relief is breathtaking. To quote @debgurl, what’s not to like?

Willingly surrendering that much power over you requires a huge amount of trust. To present my bare ass for probing and insertion is both an act of trust, and an act of surrender. It obviously relates to the enemas I received growing up. Warm, gentle, but thorough, enemas that produced feelings of helplessness, but being very well cared-for at the same time. (Not to mention those rock-hard erections!) I miss those days and those feelings.

(Thanks a lot Mom, for fostering this proclivity I now have! If you only knew!)

My brother and i learned to give each other enemas and watch what the other did with it running in.

But now when my wife gives it to me,,,, i feel like she is the water spreading and filling, cooling or warming, relaxing or stressing. When she puts it in, i really get taken.

I know that I will have no choice in receiving my enema from my girlfriend just like I received many from my mom and high school girlfriend and then college girlfriend. What I don't know is whether it will be given by an enema bulb syringe or a douche bulb syringe or a Higgenson or fountain syringe or maybe from a plastic can. I also don't know which nozzle will enter my lubed anus or maybe a colon tube will invade my rectum and colon starting the enema deep inside to fill me up. Same got for the enema recipe. Will it fill me with gas or soapy water or be a soothing enema. I just know that I will enjoy it whether it's crampy or not. Whether I need the enema or not, the lubricated nozzle will be slowly inserted into my anus and the liquid will start to be injected. I will feel it flow into my rectum and then the colon unless she decides to use a long colon tube, in which case my rectum will be last to fill. Next comes the required retention. The time varies according to the different enemas. If I get a small m and m six or eight ounce enema from a bulb syringe, I have to hold it in for thirty minutes as my colon fills up with gas and I struggle through the painful cramps during the last ten minutes. Finally comes relief by an uncontrollable gush as I squat over a pail or sit on the toilet.

@Vicki_V

don’t keep us in suspense, how do we clean windows without streaking?

It is the difference between sticking your own finger in your butt, than as with a friend's finger. Playing cards with a friend or just solitaire cards. Remember, a friend in need, is a friend indeedy. Every sensation along the entire trip is particularly heightened and soaked in as well. The neighbor lady called me to repair a small plumbing problem. She was a widow, i am happily married. As i was completing repairs in her bathroom, she touched the back edge of her hanging red bag with her middle finger. To this day our enema friendship is meaningful though only in the past. I come from a happy enema family. As kids, on Saturdays we played outside till called in for lunch. The three of us knew no sports and the farm was it. We often played house and made soups out of weeds and mud. Inevitably someone was going to need an enema. Getting clean was important and the ritual was happily kept. One of them was dying and reminiscing saying in the company of others, how he often recalled our home games together with longing fondness for his family. The power of shared enemas with family and friends is for keeps. Perhaps you too could make a lasting friendship with enema skills. Learn your personal practice as if you are serving someone else.

Who wouldn’t like to receive an enema from someone else? If someone else is giving the enema, you can spend you time enjoy the feelings of the whole process.

The mere thought of a woman giving me an enema causes me to be arroused, it also gives me the freedom to be me (a horny little devil) I have enjoyed anal play all of my life and even though I am older now (do not look it nor do I show it) I am still turned on by by the mere mention of an enema. I could enjoy all types of play Giving receiving dominant woman, or submisive it all works for me. (Any one LI< NY interested)

I enjoy the intimacy and exposing my personal reaction to the enema in moaning and groaning as I am filled. Just the total inhibited act and exposure to my personal being as I take the enema. I love taking the enema in a private environment.

Love to relax and have a girl in control. Giving my butt up to her is hot to me. If she says, reach back and spread your cheeks, Im going to lube you up. Oh my! Plus, Im very happy to return the favor!

Being a true switch, I prefer giver is always female. But there is a shortage of women really into the scene. Guys are more likely to be available. The mood and excitement is heavy on the side of the lady.

Come on ladies, guys appreciate you and perform well for you. Guys, a warmed up lady can be your best friend. Be a lover to claim the rewards.

I believe for me it's the most intimate act allowing someone to take complete control while you surrender your most private areas. It's so much more than sexual. The surrender is so complete and comes with such raw sensations. Knowing what the end result will be, but still giving up control requires a level of trust that transcends the trust shared during sex. The sensations, the fireworks, the discomfort, the surrender, the experience from start to finish is just the ultimate in trust, surrender and control. The experience is total escape. Being give enemas is just a totally immersive experience and creates a totally different bond, not necessarily love, but a trust on a par with love.

I have an out-of-town friend who visits every few months and he gives me enemas. What I like about it is that I lie on his massage table, and he takes over from there. All I have to do is lie there in a totally relaxed state and receive the enemas (usually at least 2) and enjoy all the sensations. He gently massages my abdomen and then slowly works his way down to my cock and massages that till I am hard. On the last enema while I am totally full (3qts baking soda) he finishes me off with an intense BJ. So, I go from a state of total relaxation to sexual arousal to an explosive orgasm over the course of the final enema.

It really doesn't get any better than that.

Begs the deeper question of why do I like others playing with my ass😄😈

I like to just relax and let it happen

Well this all hit me very early in my life. In childhood when I was given enemas to help me go to the bathroom. At first I was terrified. What were they doing to me? My first thoughts were. They are sticking something in my butt. Oh this feels funny I remember thinking. Then felt like I was getting full and had to poop badly. Of course my reaction was to cry and scream. Kind of a default reaction to this all. The vivid memories stay with me. These unusual sensations mainly. The being totally under the control of someone else my mom and dad in my case. The most basic bodily function was in another's hands. All of which was overwhelming at age 5 of course. A rush of feelings and emotions which I had no way of making any since of. At the same time having it all imprinted in my mind. All of it and the feelings. Which I wanted to try to recreate. I took to doing that on my own soon after I was given enemas. This all hooked me for life. Decades later I still want helpless feelings. An out of control feeling I guess I might say. Some would say hey these were signs I was abused as a boy. I see it differently. No it was not done as abuse. It was done to help me go to the bathroom. Then some will say it is the same as you did not know the difference. OK true but I now realize this made me how I am now. I have had great pleasure most guys have no idea about. I started very young as well. Only age 5. Yes a lifetime now of this all that I am so thankful for…

Having someone else in control in a turn-on.

It harks back to childhood when my mom was in total control. She chose the enema solution, the volume of the enema, how high the bag was hung, how long I had to hold the enema, etc.

Now, when someone else assumes the “mom” role, I appreciate the take-charge approach. It reminds me of the good old days although they didn't seem so good at the time. I like a realistic scenario with a healthy dose of nostalgia thrown in.

I have not received an enema in a long time. I think what does intrigue me the most is the insertion of the nozzle along with the anticipation of the flow of water.

It's sort of like having sex - it's more fun with a partner!! 😃

Enema play is the most fulfilling and erotic activity that can happen, especially when two or three ladies are doing the honors and knowing lots of good fucking and orgasms are going to be happening. Can’t remember an enema party without great sex.

I love it no choice in volume used or solution as well as volume hold times or nozzle , male or female doesn’t matter having no choice is paramount.

Many years ago, a year after my wife and I were married, we stayed with her best friend in Washington, DC for a week during our first summer vacation together. On the second day of our stay, the girls approached me about having a threesome. Needless to say, I was floored by my prim and proper wife suggesting such a thing, let alone with her best friend. I listened to the girls reasons and after we discussed them, I agreed. Mainly, because it gave me the opportunity to have sexual intercourse with her best friend. Something I’d wanted to do for a long time, because of her bubbly personality. That evening, after my wife gave her friend a two-quart enema, we had sexual intercourse as she held it. Watching this, got my wife so horny, she finally wanted to try it. Something she’d being refusing to do at home. I think, seeing her best friend having sexual intercourse with me while holding an enema and the resulting orgasms, did the trick.

For the remainder of our visit, the three of us had a lot of great sex together, which included sexual intercourse and the use of enemas by all involved. We learned a good bit, watching each other, doing enemas and having sexual intercourse. For example: It really turned my wife on watching me have sexual intercourse with her friend and I got turned on watching the girls pleasure each other in the sixth nine position. Neither of us dreamed we’d get turn on watching each other engage in sexual activities with someone else. That opened the door enough, that we both agreed, if we got another invitation. We’d seriously entertain accepting it, depending on the circumstances.

Three or four weeks after returning home, friends that married the same summer we did, invited us to spend a weekend with them in their new home. We met them at a local restaurant on Friday evening to discuss our plans for the weekend. After a good meal and conversation, we return home with them, beginning our weekend visit. At breakfast Saturday morning, my wife happened to mention she’d forgotten to pack her douche bag. That started a question-and-answer session about douching and enemas. The conversation ended with our friends inviting us to join them in their master bedroom that evening. After a private conversation, my wife and I agreed to join them, especially after our experience earlier that summer with my wife's best friend. We joined them that evening for enemas and sexual intercourse for our first foursome. Something that was repeated may times over the next three or four years. Lasting until all involved, decided it was time to have children, ending the foursomes.

Griffin is correct. To totally surrender control of your entire body to someone else requires a trust and intimacy far beyond sex. I once had a lover explain while I was giving her an enema, that “she had had sex with several men, but NO MAN had ever given her an enema before. This is MUCH more intimate than sex!”. I agree completely!

Because I can lie back, relax, and enjoy. 😜😉

Why do you like when someone else gives you a handjob?

Jonormal

A friend asked if I ever masturbated with my left hand?(I‘m right handed) Nope. Try it he said. It feels like you’re cheating on yourself.