Why do you like when someone else gives you an enema?

Why do you like when someone else gives you an enema? ?

Just seeing their reaction. Knowing that I might not have any control. The surprise that they might bring to table.

The feeling of giving up control and being submissive to their commands

Having someone give me an enema helps to put me back into the “good little enema boy” mental space from many years ago as an emotional rush of feelings, expectations, apprehensions, and breathless anticipation. ….michael https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/236834

Getting that tingiling feeling,the embarresment of being seen naked with a hardon,& being submissive & not being able to see exactly when they are going to stick it in! Sometimes i would get teased by holding it just a little behind my hole & i would hump myself back onto the nozzle!

I like to receive an enema from a woman because it’s so embarrassing! Exposing your anus to someone else who’s going penetrate it with a nozzle is so delicious. Feeling the warm soapy water fill you and distend your abdomen is just the best. The ever present possibility of an accident or disaster compounds the delight. Plus my girlfriend strokes my inner thigh to comfort me and make me take more. What’s not to like!

I think those of us that take, know exactly how we like it, position, solution, etc, we likely have some pretty good solo enemas.

For me it is a bit about being pampered, spoiled if you will……………….

It's sort of like the difference between masturbating and having someone masturbate you (or having sex). It's very arousing and sexual. Plus the connection with the other party is extremely intimate with a partner. Both can be physically satisfying but sharing with someone is more emotionally satisfying.

Heh, that I don’t have to be concerned with flow and bag height. Wifey holds the combo bag for me and raises or lowers it as I need.

It's sort of like the difference between masturbating and having someone masturbate you (or having sex). It's very arousing and sexual. Plus the connection with the other party is extremely intimate with a partner. Both can be physically satisfying but sharing with someone is more emotionally satisfying.

Yes, I agree with all of this nice description @Rigel posted, but also with the others who enjoyed embarrassment and submissive feelings as the enema receiver or sub. My exes, at least one wife and one GF - and I were Switches and loved being Dom(me) or sub taking enemas from each other. Since we trusted each other completely and knew it was confidential, the addition of the Dom or sub feelings was a whole new level of experience and enjoyment of the enemas (also mixed with our other fetishes, even better). Most times I was her sub, by choice, but being Dom when she wanted to receive was excellent too.

Eric

I like being submissive so when someone else gives me an enema they have control over me plus its such intimate connection between two people 🍑💦

I like being submissive so when someone else gives me an enema they have control over me plus its such intimate connection between two people 🍑💦

@chelle300,

Is your double emoji here a new way of describing an enema? “Peach (Derriére) + Water = Enema?“ Good one!

Eric

@ericmacson yes it is! Plus the thought of receiving an enema makes me wet too

I think it is a cute one!

@ericmacson yes it is! Plus the thought of receiving an enema makes me wet too

@chelle300, Ahh, yes, of course - I should have thought of that one too! BTW, if you missed my earlier comment to you recently, somewhere on Zity. I look forward to your posts, too.

Eric

Basically, the difference between (a) self-administered and (b) getting the enema from someone else is the unknown factor. When you give yourself an enema, you know how much solution Is in the bag, you know the solution, you know when the nozzle is going in, you know when the clamp is going to open, etc. When someone gives you an enema THEY are in control. You don’t know, unless they tell you, when that cool greased nozzle is going in you. You don’t know when the clamp is opening and you can ask them to stop the flow but…will they? I prefer the latter. It takes me back in time.

There are several things I like about having another person give me an enema. First, all the people who have given me enemas are women and I just enjoyed being with them. Some of them were nude like I was and I enjoyed that. Some kept their clothes on. When receiving from a woman, I don't have to deal with filling the bag, hanging the bag, inserting the nozzle, etc. The woman usually massages my stomach while I am receiving the enema to help keep the cramps mild. Usually at the end of the enema session she would give me a hand job. It is just a better experience with a lovely lady giving the enema to me.

Well, I had my first and only as a child when I was nine. Then years later I had a girlfriend who showed up to stay with me and she was into enemas and anal but was a lesbian. She asked if I would give to her and I agreed. After weeks of watching her have great orgasms, I got brave enough to try. After weeks of trying finally had an orgasm. For me non-clinical having a lover give to me is awesome. I mean you can play with your clit or have her do that and more.

For me it’s the anticipation of what coming next so I would say I like being a submissive, when my wife gives me an enema or a paddling, I just present my bare bottom and don’t try to watch and I eagerly wait and know when I feel her finger lubing my bottom that very soon a nozzle will be inserted slowly. Getting paddled, the anticipation and or fear is a little more exciting because in know the first few swats are going to burn and sting.

Giving or receiving enemas requires unconditional mutual trust and devotion. It is an intimate act that predates the sexual act.

If I turn my bottom to my wife to receive an enema from her, I surrender myself to her without a will; vice versa as well. I then can drop.

This is exactly what I love and what makes our enemas so special and unique.

I go along with those who say it’s giving up control to another, being bared in front of another, allowing them to dictate the proceeding. Plus intimacy and possible nurturing.

I’m finding I’m not that embarrassed as time passes. Guess because of medical treatments. Rectal exam at urologist(twice by females for physical)biopsies for prostate cancer, having camera catheter inserted to check bladder. Getting so being exposed is no longer much of an embarrassment.

But I do love the contact and verbal exchange that you do not get going solo. An attractive lady makes it way better.

Honestly I think I just get better results. It seems like if its just me, I dont push myself to take much more, or hold longer. But with my girl, she offers encouragement, runs her hands along me, and tries to learn my limits to really extend the benefits and the foreplay. In fact, I told her awhile back I dont mind being woken up with one…when she finally tried, I almost didnt wake up at all until I had 3qrts inside me. She also loves them for health, general well being, and we both use them as ‘punishments’ but rarely…just those sometimes come with a big wooden Ikea spoon lol

Just finished annual migration from North east to South west for winter , Have wonderful Health aide out here . I am very much a senior , she is bout 10 years younger , I can FULLY RELAX ! Don't have to worry bout holding nozzle in place , or finding valve , arms , shoulder don't work that good any more . We communicate verbally , she listens and does just what I say , stop is STOP !! Usually do a small volume , Larger for # 2 Then finally full 2 qt bag for #3 !! Feel like a million bucks when she is done , certainly helps keep my IBS under control . Has for close to 70 years , so have idea what am talkin about .

I want to enjoy the interaction with a woman watching her facial response as she watches me. She can be clothed or in panties and bra and can have her way with me.

Yes, most definitely! I just mentioned in another thread how all my enemas were from a bulb, by dad, till I was graduated to the bag and then stopped getting them. Perhaps I was beginning to show signs of liking too much. Perhaps looking to continue where that had stopped, as an adult I craved getting them from a man.

I dearly love it when hubby gives me an enema! All I have to do is concentrate on how the enema is making me feel while lying back and enjoying the ride. And when hubby is the giver, I can always count on some extra benefits such as having my toes sucked and my “special spot” receiving some much needed attention both digitally and orally.

What's not to like?

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

I’ve taught my husband many wonderful things to help me during our 40 years of marriage, like how to clean windows without streaking, mop the kitchen floor, get stains out of the carpet. He does pretty well at these chores now, when I nag him. Lol

He is also very good at giving me enemas during times when I’ve been feeling too down to do them myself. In fact, there have been a few times when I have needed his gentle discipline more than if I were doing the enema alone. He has a nice way of getting me to breathe through the discomfort and retain — even times when I was having chronic pain and taking medication that was stopping me up.

I must admit that lying there and letting him give the enema and not having to do anything except experience the sensations — that can be really nice.

All of the advantages seem to have been well covered. I love the ability to totally focus on the physical and psychological effects, as well as those wonderful sensations, as the process is undertaken.

For me, I love having someone, male or female, give me enemas because they will know how much I love the feeling when they see the erection they have caused. While it once was embarrassing being totally naked on my elbows and knees, butt in the air with my erection clearly visible, the person giving me the enema coaches me through any discomfort I might feel and will not make me feel ashamed for enjoying the sexual arousal that some might be consider as not masculine.

I only actively love when my partner is giving me enemas. As discussed in other threads, I’ve had doctors and nurses and other healthcare providers give me their fair share and, while I’ve come to accept that it’s something necessary to manage the various conditions I have, and I don’t really feel embarrassed anymore, it’s not what I would call fun.

My partner gives the best enemas and knows exactly how to take care of all my needs -discipline, submission, attitude adjustment, but also intimacy and tenderness, incredible arousal and just pure pleasure and fun. I like to think that I do the same for him. The anticipation is always intense and the state of post-enema chill and relief is breathtaking. To quote @debgurl, what’s not to like?