If we are allowed to fantasize, I would put down an aunt who, in real life, at times took care of me with bathing and giving suppositories and checking out my foreskin. This along with her son, who was a bit younger than me.
In real life, she never spanked me at all, nor my cousin either that I know of. In fact she was more prone to spoiling us kids in minor ways than anything else. I can't remember her but being friendly and caring, with never a harsh word.
But, I can and do fantasize about her spanking me and/or my cousin separately or together. And then in unrealistic ways, like being caught fiddling with myself or rifling through her undergarments and being punished for doing so alone, instead of asking permission and letting her help or watch me. Or of doing so with my cousin without either of us asking permission. In my fantasies my aunt is actually a very liberal thinking lady when it comes to sex, being something of an obsessed older lady herself. But she does require it to be a non-solo activity under adult supervision and advice, not a furtive, solo activity done alone or in private. Her attitude would be one of ‘spreading the joy’ when it came to sex.
And when being caught acting like an asocial, sexually obsessed little sneak, punishment of some sort ensues, spankings, anal pluggings, clysters, forced cross-dressing (shown to others or in public) or whatever, followed by instructions and hands-on training in the proper way to relieve sexual tension while letting other people in on the fun, by allowing them to watch, help or participate as a properly brought up little sex obsessed gentleman that I secretly was.