Are there any adult men that get spanked by their mum or aunt

Are there any adult men that get spanked by their mum or aunt if not is it something you fantasize about.?

Somewhere I mentioned fantasizing about being spanked as a teen by then then older cousin who like my aunt was into strict discipline…

ETA I've found that post I mentioned :: as teen I became aware that my adult cousin had an unusual interest in discipline and whippings, as she called it. This all came to a head one afternoon while I was at her estate for a party. I went off to remote part of the grounds thinking I wouldn't be bothering anyone if I set set off some firecrackers. To my surprise, my cousin managed to find me and mentioned how I shouldn't be doing what I was doing and that I needed to be disciplined, and that good whipping would correct my behavior! All the while she's talking to me she touching the belt she's wearing. She said I should best follow to her basement. I said "no way!" and took off back to the rest of party... Nothing more happened then or ever after it. I never forgot that, and in horny moments I fantasize about having followed her, made to strip, and of course getting the biggest erection I'd ever had, as she takes off her belt…

If we are allowed to fantasize, I would put down an aunt who, in real life, at times took care of me with bathing and giving suppositories and checking out my foreskin. This along with her son, who was a bit younger than me.

In real life, she never spanked me at all, nor my cousin either that I know of. In fact she was more prone to spoiling us kids in minor ways than anything else. I can't remember her but being friendly and caring, with never a harsh word.

But, I can and do fantasize about her spanking me and/or my cousin separately or together. And then in unrealistic ways, like being caught fiddling with myself or rifling through her undergarments and being punished for doing so alone, instead of asking permission and letting her help or watch me. Or of doing so with my cousin without either of us asking permission. In my fantasies my aunt is actually a very liberal thinking lady when it comes to sex, being something of an obsessed older lady herself. But she does require it to be a non-solo activity under adult supervision and advice, not a furtive, solo activity done alone or in private. Her attitude would be one of ‘spreading the joy’ when it came to sex.

And when being caught acting like an asocial, sexually obsessed little sneak, punishment of some sort ensues, spankings, anal pluggings, clysters, forced cross-dressing (shown to others or in public) or whatever, followed by instructions and hands-on training in the proper way to relieve sexual tension while letting other people in on the fun, by allowing them to watch, help or participate as a properly brought up little sex obsessed gentleman that I secretly was.

My mum spanked me upto the day before I git married. She even showed my wife to be how to spank me. About 6 months into the marriage my wife found out that my mum really missed not spanking me. So it was agreed that I would call round once a month for my mum to spank me.

I did this for quite a few years until sadly she died. There was an ocassion where when I arrived my aunt was also visiting. Yes they both spanked me.

My mum spanked me upto the day before I git married. She even showed my wife to be how to spank me. About 6 months into the marriage my wife found out that my mum really missed not spanking me. So it was agreed that I would call round once a month for my mum to spank me.

I did this for quite a few years until sadly she died. There was an ocassion where when I arrived my aunt was also visiting. Yes they both spanked me.

That sounds amazing how old was you when mum and aunt spanked you ?

My mum spanked me upto the day before I git married. She even showed my wife to be how to spank me. About 6 months into the marriage my wife found out that my mum really missed not spanking me. So it was agreed that I would call round once a month for my mum to spank me.

There was an ocassion where when I arrived my aunt was also visiting. Yes they both spanked me.

Obvious confirmation that spankings are not always given because of transgressions, but because the spankers themselves have a compulsion to do so. It would be interesting to have an inkling of what the percentages are. Obviously it would be a minority but I wonder what percentage? It cannot be negligible either, given some of the accounts here on Zity.

I wonder if there is a term for such a personality quirk?

@agracier not always given because of transgressions, but because the spankers themselves have a compulsion to do so…

Oh yes, back in the blue-collar town where I lived in the early 1950's there were a few families in which the parents looked for any and all reasons to spank.

Obvious confirmation that spankings are not always given because of transgressions, but because the spankers themselves have a compulsion to do so. It would be interesting to have an inkling of what the percentages are. Obviously it would be a minority but I wonder what percentage? It cannot be negligible either, given some of the accounts here on Zity.

I wonder if there is a term for such a personality quirk?

Child abuser?

Child abuser?

I wouldn't always go that far, since some members here tell how they came to like the spankings, despite not having done much, if anything wrong in the way of transgressions. And how they crave spankings still.

Maybe it was a way of unintentionally passing along the urge …

My mother never spanked me. She would say wait until your father gets home. There was nothing sexual about getting the living shit beat out of me. (Of course I was the one that always ****up.)

@Rigel: Child abuser?

I agree with you about labeling those who were over-spanking their kids. Even at a young age I realized there was something wrong with these people. I'm not talking about the occasional spanking we all got, as that was common back then. But these poor kids were getting it every day!

My mother certainly enjoyed not just spanking me, but all parental duties that required me to be undressed.

Child abuser? Nah. Just a peccadillo that, for me, is extremely easy to forgive.

My mother certainly enjoyed not just spanking me, but all parental duties that required me to be undressed.

Child abuser? Nah. Just a peccadillo that, for me, is extremely easy to forgive.

How long did this last? Into your teenage years?

And for what duties particularly? Things like giving a bath or hygiene matters are obvious, but what others? I can't really come up with others and I am curious, to find themes to use in stories I write.

I remember that an aunt of mine also seemed to like having my cousin/her son and I undressed. Certainly more than i was used to at home. But this happened only occasionally to me and moreover, she never spanked or hit us. The undressing was for washing and such. I still have no real notion why she did it like that. I doubt very much it was sexual, more like her liking to mother us and treat us like young children.

My mother certainly enjoyed not just spanking me, but all parental duties that required me to be undressed.

Also my mother too… She always find that an old fashion spanking was a better chose than any other punishment or being grounded, and also insisted to be “delivered” on my bare bottom even if the whole spanking was just about two or three spanks with the switch …

If wasn't any reason for a spanking, many times as a child, till I was 10/11 years old, I was many times let to run around naked or wearing JUST a T-shirt in the backyard, in the countryside at my grandparents farm and also the same if we were on the beach on the seaside…

At home, except for the winter season, many times my usual pajamas was also just an old a bit oversized T-shirt

How long did this last? Into your teenage years?

Yes, I got my last spanking a month before I turned 15 but it was an option after that.

And for what duties particularly? Things like giving a bath or hygiene matters are obvious, but what others?

One other example is changing clothes, when I got home from school or the sitter's she'd have me strip all the way down in front of her and change into my "house" clothes…she'd smell all my clothes (even socks and underpants) to see if they could be worn another day. (We didn't have a washer or dryer or a lot of money to go to the laundromat.) Or bring me my pajamas and observe while I changed--snd yes that did go into my teens.

The bathing and wiping my butt and such things are normal but were prolonged for many years beyond when I could successfully do those things myself.

I have been by my mom and I’ve had the fantasy. Had a love/hate thing without it for awhile.

Spanking; as in pants down, over the knee…no.

A smack on the butt… as in an affectionate or corrective swat; yes, into my 30s until marriage.

Depends on your definition of adult ig but I’m 18 in hs and my mom still spanks me, same as the rest of my life.

Depends on your definition of adult ig but I’m 18 in hs and my mom still spanks me, same as the rest of my life.

Welcome to the club ha

I've sometimes fantasised about moving back home, not even just for spankings but my mum setting out the rules for me and being expected to follow them.