Hands behind back

Several times I have experienced that the hands had to be taken backwards on the back when taking the temperature in the buttocks. The first time at the pediatrician, when the nurse demanded it because I was fidgeting. It also happened that way in the hospital. My mother then did it the same way, but delicately stroked my bottom and back while taking my temperature. Is there anyone else who felt the same way I did?

Am I really alone with my experiences?

I was never asked to put my hands behind my back when taking the temperature, but I was told every time that I was absolutely forbidden to touch the thermometer and that if I touched it, I would hold it longer to punishment

1. no, never.

2. why would that help control you fidgeting or touching the thermometer? DId they hold your hands back there?

Eric

No that never happened to me. and was never ask to.

I never experienced that, however, my partner tied my hands behind my back spread my .. 🤭 and then gave me a suppository! I got angry becaus he didn't tell me beforehand, it was supposed to be some usual foreplay but to be honest I loved it ! I had to act angry to draw some boundaries that's all🤭

Few weeks later, it became a normal thing, it might feel wrong, but I really love to feel not in control and receive things with resistance(I really hate someone forcing something on me, but when it comes to suppositories I can't help myself ..). I don't know if I managed to explain it but it feels so good when it's done with someone you trust..

No! This never happened to me.

2. why would that help control you fidgeting or touching the thermometer? DId they hold your hands back there?

Yes, that was at least partly the case when I was little. It was probably that I fidgeted and then I had to take my hands backwards and yes, they were also held.

I don't know if I managed to explain it but it feels so good when it's done with someone you trust..

That is precisely my experience. It feels very strange, but at that moment the complete relinquishment of control was associated with the feeling that someone cares about me. And I still love that today.

This never happened to me.

Never happened in real exam but very appreciated in play exam, I like strict Doctors that humiliate you during exams with this kind of action that emphasize the patient submission and the difference between the roles.

No. i remember early pediatric visits where I was on all fours But in the hospital they just had us lie on our sides and pull our legs up. I think around 12 or 13 they started taking it by mouth. Idk if it was our age or their preferenice? In the hospital as a teen the nurses still did rectal temps which were a little embarrassing.