When retaining your enema.

When you retain your enema, do you do it with the nozzle or tube still inserted or removed?

When using one of our inflatable nozzles always in when using a feminine douche nozzle I will pull it out

I have replaced the “normal” douche nozzle on my bag with a larger one from a bulb. It is about 5/8" diameter with a 1" bulge on the tip. It tends to remain “plugged in” as I roll side to side, stand up and move around. It usually stays in place long enough for me to sit on the toilet and expel it along with everything else. Or I just step into the shower and expel there. Someday I might get an inflatable or balloon nozzle. Years ago I saw reference online to rubber “enema pants”.. apparently these have built-in nozzle in just the right place. Sounds interesting haha!!

I leave the nozzle in, because after about five minutes, I always want more water. This way, I can work up to the gallon level and hold it for an hour or so.

I usually take out the douche nozzle and insert a butt plug. I have two that I love. One is the flared master series plug thar expands once in and seats itself nicely. The other is a gold colored plug that is medium sized and is soft and malleable. It also seats itself nicely and forms a good seal. Both are excellent for retention.

Whether I leave the nozzle in or remove it has more to do with the nozzle itself than anything.

A straight nozzle, especially a short one is going to get blown out by the muscle contractions anyway, so I take it out.

If it's a flared nozzle, especially a longer one, it makes a good retention device, and so I usually leave it in.

Once and only once, I have had one 3-inch nozzle with a half-inch flair blow out when the bisacodyl kicked in while I was retaining the third round.

I WAS able to prevent leakage.

Fortunately there was no “giver” it was self-administered, because they would have gotten bonked by the nozzle

One and only one time I had a flexible flared nozzle detach from the bag during injection, and get pulled up inside me. This was during injection of the 4th enema of the session. I called for my husband and got into knee-chest position. My husband could feel it with his hand, but could not get enough fingers around it.

Just as we were planning to go to the Emergency room, the bisacodyl kicked in. I felt it blow out! It was brown water, but it WAS my own poop, so I was the one who had to reach into the toilet and fish it out!

So I am reluctant to give specific advice, but I hope that sharing my experience will help you decide!

My wife liked doing a warm two quart enema using a curved douche nozzle in the knee chest position. Then, with the nozzle still imbedded in her anus she’d have me mount her from behind and we’d have sexual intercourse. Then one day after a couple of enemas, we were doing just that, as she started to orgasm and lost the douche nozzle. Needless to say, there was a mess to clean up, then we both had to get in the shower. Afterwards, we got a couple of butt plugs an once the enema was in, we replaced the douche nozzle with a butt plug and never had that issue again. Sometimes, only one of us would hold a two quart enema while having sex intercourse, other times we’d both hold a two quart enema while having sexual intercourse.

Like LisaK said, if depends on the nozzle. If I am using a typical enema or douche nozzle I usually remove it as soon as the bag is empty. But my favorite nozzle is shaped kinda like a butt plug and I often leave it in until after the first round of urges have subsided because it helps me hold the enema for a while. Especially if I am doing something while holding the enema.

I always leave in a DBC, Inflatable plug or wide Delrin nozzle. For a very narrow douche nozzle or simple enema pipe, I remove it because if it’s that narrow, it might actually be harder to retain the enema, and I like long retentions.

Eric

Inserted, while I change positions lying on my right and left side, on my tummy, on my back with legs elevated and doggy style.

Many great responses. Thank you all. I prefer nozzle if not an inflatable one to remain in. With the inflatable, no real issue. Inflate it, very likely not coming out until deflated. Again thanks for Your responses.

I love to keep any of my Silicone Nozzles inserted to the hilt as I retain my enema. Part of the erotic nature of taking an enema is feeling the nozzle penetrating my anus even after I’m finished injecting the enema solution.

So count me in for retaining the nozzle while my enema does it’s work!

Deb

I keep the nozzle in because once I start to pull it out a lot of times I just have to let it out right then.

When I'm retaining, the nozzle remains firmly ensconced. Taking it out early has resulted in a ‘mishap’ on a few occasions. When I'm comfortably seated, I reach between my legs and remove it from its moorings. Works every time.

@debgurl said,

I love to keep any of my Silicone Nozzles inserted to the hilt as I retain my enema.

Like Deb, I like using the nozzles from Silicone Nozzles, preferring them in the softer silicone. I find the softer nozzles with at least a 1 ½ inch flare at the base work best. For example: Like a traditional butt plug molded from soft silicone. I’ve found them comfortable, don’t leak, and easy to hold a 2 ½ to 3 quart enema with for ten to twenty minutes.

Like others if using a nozzle or plug style I will leave it in, if a standard one I will remove it.

Fun topic…

I often still use an old Silver bullet that I've had for many years. As many of you have heard, I almost always do a series, even my mini-series is a 3qt SSE then followed by a 3.5+qt saline rinse, then a final fill of 4qts saline or tea taken with a colon tube. I typically do not leave the colon tube in. As for the beginning enemas the noz is always removed on enema completion.

As Deb mentioned leaving the silicone noz in, I can't wait to get one of those to do exactly that. A long one 😃

BJ

So fortunate to have a wonderful collection of SN retention nozzles. Always leave the nozzle in until I am ready to release. I like to take herbal enemas, so want to be able to relax knowing that I won't leak. The same applies to colonics. My wonderful therapist thoroughly approves of the speculum enhancement nozzle. No more puddles on her treatment couch!!

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When I do an enema to clean me out, meaning it is preferred to hold it five to ten minutes before expelling it, I leave the nozzle in. My favorite is a nozzle shaped like a medium sized butt plug which is good to clench on when the cramps come.

When retaining a coffee enema, I only take a quart, so after the initial round of urges I can hold it with nothing in my ass. Then I can walk around, or check messages on the computer. Like now.

Removed. All I have now is an eight ounce bulb. I don’t know what I would do if I had a bag and tube. Probably still have it removed. I may need something in its place to he me retain the water, depending on how much I take and the length of time I have to hold it.