J I'm sorry I asked the question? 😉😉
NO, @joe_thom, no need to be sorry!👍🏻😉 It’s a good bordering on great question. I can understand some people who want or need to not reveal some of their sexual secrets. A former prominent longtime Zity member used to reply to this by saying she couldn’t reveal all her secrets because at least one was illegal! My ex-wife revealed to me alone a few weeks after our wedding that her deepest sexual fantasy or secret was that she wanted her husband (me at that time) to give her erotic enemas. And that was even after months of knowing and enjoying all my 5-6 fetishes and her giving me many sexual enemas! She could never bring herself to reveal it to her late first husband who was a Christian minister.
I essentially have 3 such secret sexual fantasies, in no order.
1) go to a colonic clinic and during the first several sessions of normal closed system colonics I tell them how much I enjoy their treatments but can they make them larger and longer? They tell me that for additional cost as well as a non disclosure agreement they can make them as big and as long as I can stand them. Eventually they finally reveal that with even further confidentiality agreements they can actually offer me colonics while my invited GF or wife helps me engage in any of my fetishes. This would include rubber clothing and accessories, sneakers, bondage and D/s roles and also at least one trial of an overnight colonic hold.
2) my wife/GF invites me to go SCUBA diving for several days and nights on an oceangoing charter boat (which I’ve done IRL many times) but with a very sexual twist. In real life we’re both Switches, mostly with her being Domme to give me sexual enemas. The sexual twist on the dive charter boat cruise would be that she’s invited several of her trusted Switch or Domme GF’s along and once I board the boat I serve her and her friends as their submissive for the duration of the cruise. We all still enjoy frequent bona fide real life SCUBA dives, but in between I’m 24/7 under the control of my Domme GF and friends who understand, approve, and enjoy all my 5-6 fetishes. Each Domme woman alone or together use me as their sub, including rubber clothing, sneakers, enemas, D/s and whatever else they dream up within my stated hard limits.
3) similar to 2), but adding in arranging for my GF and I to dive to and make sexual use of an underwater habitat.
More detail on request.
So, you see, @joe_thom, it really is a great thread opening question! Thank you.