Strict Moms when doing enemas

I suppose my mother was strict in giving me enemas in the sense that she was determined to get good results. I recall an incident of getting the bulb enemas around 4 or 5 and after getting up from the toilet or potty chair, my mother saying “is that all you can do?” I know that about this time was when I was transitioned to the enema bag. My grandfather was a physician and I believe he had a lot to do with my being switched to the enema bag. Right from the beginning of the enema bags appearance, the volume went up, and my enemas were always given in the tub. My mothers objective was to make certain that I was cleaned out no matter the protesting or complaining. At times it was more like an irrigation, as I could not hold the water. I don't believe she ever had to do a follow up enema, and at the time that was a huge relief for me.

OH, how well I remember my mom giving me the weekly enema! She sincerely believed that a “good cleansing” was necessary for my health and overall, well-being. At the same time Mom was always very gentle giving me an enema and while I was across her lap, I also knew better than to fuss or carry-on with complaining & such. That was because she would not hesitate to spank me and since mom played tennis on a regular basis, she could really SWAT! I recall how she would first fill a syringe with warm mineral oil and then ever so gently lubricate me before slowly inserting the bulb syringe and slowly squeezing it. She would then read a magazine while the oil “did it's work”, and after about 10 to 15 minutes she would have me stand up and she would depart while I used the potty. When she returned to check on me, I would be back across her lap and be given several fillings of warm water the famous “Red Bag.” Personally, I am inclined to believe that during a young person's upbringing this process of a weekly enema from a parent is conducive to developing an in-depth closeness between the parental & the sibling,,,,,,,,,,,,,just my opinion,,,,,,,,,,and the same applies between two significant others too

My mother was pretty firm when we got enemas she did not tolerate any back talk or fussing. However, it was often our step dad who decided when we were going to get an enema. If one of us were even a little ‘out of sorts’ he would tell her to give us an enema to straighten us out. They would both often be presented for the enema and any non cooperation was met with one warning to stop and then spanks

I'm not sure I'd call my mom's approach to giving enemas “strict,” but she was no-nonsense and firm. There was no getting out of the enema. She expected cooperation. She also expected us to take the whole enema and hold it for a minimum of 5 minutes. If we failed to hold it long enough, she repeated it.

I had a loving Mother who encouraged me and helped me through my enemas! She made each experience very special except once when I ruined a neighbor’s floor by scratching into the tile “Mom, I would love for you to give me a large, hot enema!” That time she wasn’t so loving.. but she encouraged (demanded) me to take it all!