When my siblings an I were growing up, if we got a spanking from mom or dad, we were never given or offered an enema afterwards. Primary because, we were spanked in private in our bedroom or the bathroom. There was one exception that happened when I was around ten years old.
We got in trouble with mom one afternoon when she was giving us enemas together in the bathroom. She had given each of us a soapy enema and was started our rinse enemas, when we realized she had increased the amount we were to receive and bitched about it. That earned each of us a spanking in front of each other, before she continued with our rinse enemas. Afterwards, we were sent to our bedroom to standing in our corners with a bare bottom, which meant another spanking when dad got home. What we didn’t realize at the time, mom was going to repeating the rinse enemas. Only this time, it would be one on one in the bathroom after getting another spanking from dad and being returned to our corners to wait again, this time for mom. That was the only time I can recall growing up, we got a spanking an a enema as punishment.
Whenever we were at grandmas, if we got a spanking from her or one of our aunts, we were always offered a rinse enema to help us clam down. The spanking was our punishment, the enema wasn’t, we could accept the enema or refuse it. For the most part, we accepted the enema after getting a spanking from them, however, we did occasionally refuse.