When do I really need an enema? (sexual stimulation does not count)

• When I haven't pooped for more than a couple of days.
• When my poop is hard and dry.
• When I wipe more than 3 times and the toilet paper is still very dirty.

• When I wipe more than 3 times and the toilet paper is still very dirty.

Try changing the TP versus using the same TP over again 3 times. 😄

@Rigel LOL!

If I wake up in the morning with an erection, I go to the bathroom, fix myself a 2 quart hot, soapy enema, then go back to my bedroom, hang the bag a bedpost, and slowly take the enema. When I'm done, I release the enema into the toilet, shower, and get dressed, and I'm ready to take on the world.

@Ebbie_Anne

I know when I need, as opposed to want, an enema when my rectum feels ‘packed’ with poo and sitting on the toilet seat and relaxing, and even bearing down gently, doesn't start the poo coming out. I learned to never stain to poo as that can cause or aggravate hemmis.

I also know I really need help if those symptoms are combined with difficulty in starting to pee while sitting because, in a guy, a rectum full of poo can press against the prostate gland which narrows or even occludes the urethra.

This is especially true in hospital, if one is confined to bed and has to pee in a urinal and poo into a bedpan. In fact, despite my conversations with the doctor tying to convince him to order a bag enema to empty out the poo, I've wound up having the nurse insert a Foley catheter to empty my bladder two or three times. While that makes me pee uncontrollably, it does nothing to relieve the discomfort of rectal fullness.

IMO, any time the poo doesn't start promptly and easily when I sit on the toilet seat, it's time for some water. That doesn't mean a full bag of warm, soapy water. I've found that an 8 Oz Adult bulb syringe full of plain warm water, given and held while sitting for a few minutes, is often enough to get an easy poo started

Why doesn't “sexual stimulation” count? Goes with the territory, doesn't it?

@duhwizzard “Need” and “Want” are 2 different things.

@Ebbie_Anne

As I said.

@Sean Yup!

• When I haven't pooped for more than a couple of days.

That's one for me too. I need to do a bowel movement at least once, every day. If not, usually just by day two I am pretty packed. Even my daily stools tend to be large, even though I'm a smaller guy.

IMO, any time the poo doesn't start promptly and easily when I sit on the toilet seat, it's time for some water.

Mine rarely start easily or promptly. My usual toilet time can be 20-30 minutes just to get started and up to 45 minutes to finish.

I also know I really need help if those symptoms are combined with difficulty in starting to pee while sitting because, in a guy, a rectum full of poo can press against the prostate gland which narrows or even occludes the urethra.

I definitely can relate with that. My best, most complete feeling pee of the day is usually directly after a bowel movement. After a post-constipation bm I always pee a strong stream, pretty much immediately after.

That doesn't mean a full bag of warm, soapy water. I've found that an 8 Oz Adult bulb syringe full of plain warm water, given and held while sitting for a few minutes, is often enough to get an easy poo started

I agree with that too. If it's only been a day or so since last going to the bathroom and I feel like I need to go but having trouble, I always have disposable enemas on hand. I have a bulb somewhere, but I primarily use the disposables when I need the convenience factor.

Fortunately, I do not suffer from constipation. So, I really don't need enemas to address a constipation problem.

Enemas for me are for sexual pleasure or just the erotic feelings they produce- it's for pure physical pleasure. I squarely fall into the category of wanting enemas not needing them. And for that reason I could easily over do it and partake too often causing a dependence on enemas to have BMs, which I am careful not to let that happen.

To answer the OP's question- “when do I really need an enema excluding sexual stimulation?” The answer is actually never. But how often do I give myself enemas- weekly with shower shots in between enema sessions.

As you might have guessed, I really like enemas.

My needs and my wants get intertwined with the same result. The red bag gets filled and I get satisfaction. It is just that simple.

Uncomplicated.

After a night of kinky enema dreams, then I need an enema series, analplay included. My bags are quite sexual. ❤😛🚀😈

When I want plain and simple.

When I really have an inordinate desire for some shits and giggles. What a simple procedure and pleasure!

During the last 30 years a would need an enema because of constipation problem just may be a dozen time.

I have an addditional question.

Who need an enema for sexual stimulation which cause a very hard erection? I recognize most of the time I got a very strong erection just in combination with masturbation.

I also think about enemas when I masturbate without taken enema I try to solve the problem because I am looking for a female partner.

One to two hours after after having swallowed ½ oz (= 15 ml) castor oil the bowel movement will begin. So two hours after after having swallowed this dosage castor oil it is the time for a high volume soapy enema in order to wash out all the toxins liberated in the liver by swallowing castor oil - afterwards you will have your rest.

When all else fails to get you going, especially if you are on pain or anti-nausea meds that slow and stop up your system. My limit is 48 hours. Any longer with me and an enema can be uncomfortably painful since I have a long time IBS-C history. If you’re sick, keep pushing fluids. Above all, don’t get dehydrated.

The naturopath who I have been seeing for the past three years or so, and who has helped me immeasurably with my G.I. issues, sometimes takes a page out of the vintage medical books when she advises her patients having a bad cold or flu, to hydrate as much as possible and take a warm water enema in the morning as a way to keep the bowels active. Not all patients are receptive and enthusiastic doing that, she says, but once they try it and become comfortable, enemas can help elimination and hydrating the body during an illness. Sounds to me like the old time medicine reborn, and it works.

If go one day without going. I don't like that uncomfortable feeling that I get and I want immediate relief. I will also take an enema once every one or two weeks just to have that clean feeling. When I was young I was told by an older woman (I am the older woman now..lol) that a woman's body had to be cleaned inside and out.

I try to maintain my weight and follow a Keto diet. Some mornings I find that if my fiber intake is off I get very constipated, so I jump in the shower and attach the enema nozzle that replaces the hand held shower head and fill my bottom up. Now I’m not going to lie that sometimes after the nozzle is inserted I do masturbate but the main intent for the enema was to relieve the constipation.

I don't think I ever “needed” an enema. I don't get constipated so they aren't for that relief. I don't do enemas as much as I used to, but I do get a colonics about once every 6 weeks - strictly for relaxation, not for medical or erotic reasons.

Every morning, and most nights before going to bed, I need to use my shower-shot enema for a quick bit of a clean out. I get very backed up and cannot go without it. Not sure if it's because of what call pre-Parkenson's or all the meds I take. I'd like to get out my open top Davol and get some soapy water into me, but with my large hernia (another cause for constipation) I'm too afraid..

I have previously commented that sometimes my want becomes my need. I don’t need to be constipated to need an enema. Sometimes out of the blue the thought of an enema flashes through my mind and won’t go away. If I happen to have the time and opportunity to have an enema, the want soon becomes a burning need.

When do I really need an enema? (sexual stimulation does not count)

I've only had enemas because I was constipated while pregnant. I've not found the sexual pleasure that others have while taking an enema. But understand the interest and desire.

Is it the enema or the loss of control that tweaks our sexual deviance? I would also wonder if it was the submission to the control of a superior or dominant player? The thought of being strapped down and given an enema totally against my will does excite me. My only experiences stem from my diaper fetish and my years of narcotic induced constipation.

Hi Again Everyone, often I will just feel the cravings for the solution to be rocketing deep into me, and then this craving becomes an overwhelming desire or lust if you will for an enema or a series of them….This is when I let my fingers do the walking and I am on the phone looking for a friend or someone close to help me…. I dont mind going solo for my enemas, but I always prefer to be given them by someone who will force me to take and hold every last drop, and also make me keep going with a series of them….I have had days where I just could not taken enough enemas and , and on those days I have been given as many as 7 or 8 very large volume enemas….And if it happens to be a weekend, I will take that many or ask to be given that many and start again the following morning… Maybe this all stems from seeing my mother get multiple enemas when I was in my early to mid teens and I always thought it was quite erotic back then and this sort of just stuck with me ?? There were many occassions when I was growing older my mother would come to me and tell me she had a friend coming over to help her with a much needed series of enemas and she wanted to make me aware of this in case I needed to use the bathroom…. Too many times I was a witness to her being led to the bathroom, with her tummy bulging so big she appeared to be at least 6 or 7 months pregnant , and the hose and nozzle trailing out of her quivering bottom…. Her friends were quite stern and firm with her during her enema sessions and more than once, I heard mother enduring a very sound spanking during her enemas for not doing this or that quite just right and as she came out of her bedroom you could visibly and easily see a myriad of hand prints all over her ass from the spanking she received during her enema…I'm pretty much the same way, and want to be spanked if I am not taking my enemas to the givers satisfaction…But when the thought of an enema pops into my head , which is often, the desire kicks in and I have to be a part of getting my bottom getting filled to capacity and beyond….. Anyone else here ever get those cravings to this sort of intensity ??

I was told by an older woman (I am the older woman now..lol) that a woman's body had to be cleaned inside and out.

@Annab Hearing this type of thing is so arousing and motivates me to do a good job of staying clean. I really like to use this type of phrasing when playing with a sub and I like to hear it from dommes when I’m being topped. Does it also elicit erotic feelings for you?

Sometimes you need an enema because you want to feel clean. Sometimes you need an enena because yiu need sexual stimulation and satisfaction. Sometimes you need an enema because you feel submissive and just want to surrender control. Sometimes you need an enema because you want relieve from the stress. Sometimes you need an enema because you need an enema because you need your attitude adjusted. And sometimes you need an enena because your ass twitches and you just know and don’t care the reason

When it has been 3 or more days since my last bowel movement. Or, when I am preparing for anal sex. In that case, it is just a quick rinse with a buld syringe.