Parents deliberately display you to others during spanking

During a spanking, were you ever deliberately displayed to other people? Callers at the door or neighbours coming in while you were bare?

Yes. Lots of times neighbours used to come in and stay and watch. Mum would also deliberately spank me in front of the bay window for anyone to see too.

Yes I was deliberately put on display to others during a spanking. When I think back on it, I always remember my Aunt, Uncle, and sometimes my cousin coming over just before I was going to be spanked. The doorbell would ring and they would come in. My mother announced that she was about to spank my naughty bare bottom because I gave her attitude about one thing or another. Everyone was called to the living room. My mother sat in the middle of the sofa and I stood in front of her. She proceeded to unbuckle my belt, unzip my zipper, unsnap my snap, then put her fingers in the waistbands of my pants and undies and pull them down together to my ankles, bareing my bottom. She guided me over her lap, picked up her oval oak hair brush and proceeded to smack my naughty bare bottom till it was bright red and I was crying my eyes out promising to behave better. She stopped and invited my aunt and uncle to come closer to look at my bright red tushie. I was crying to hard to notice them coming closer . That situation repeated itself all throughout my childhood and teenage years.

Yes, my sadistic sister-in-law did it all the time, especially when her side of the family were around. She once spanked me on the porch too for all to see. It was extremely embarrassing.

@Aura1 Yes, my sadistic sister-in-law did it all the time, especially when her side of the family were around. She once spanked me on the porch too for all to see. It was extremely embarrassing.

If you're like me, something like that experience becomes one never forgotten and actually desired for to happen again, if only in your fantasies.

Yes. I would say this was certainly part of many punishments growing up. The idea that despite evidence to the contrary you were a child and so covering the bottom and private parts was of no importance in front of other adults - next door neighbour, parents (in in my case my Aunt) friends etc. Extremely embarrassing when linked with a good spanking on the bare bottom. It was often said that nobody cared, or was looking at your nudity but this really wasn't the case, everyone took a very good look at what was exposed.

It was often said that nobody cared, or was looking at your nudity but this really wasn't the case, everyone took a very good look at what was exposed.

As if parents and older people were never young themselves and don't remember being embarrassed in similar situations. I simply cannot conceive of them not knowing how embarrassed a youngster can be.

Older people can be very disingenuous at times to say it politely. I have the suspicion that they are just getting back for being subjected to such treatment themselves when young. Being adults, you'd think they ought to know better than visit their past embarrassment on their kids. But I suppose emotions and resentments can be strong feelings not easily overcome by reason alone.

Being adults, you'd think they ought to know better than visit their past embarrassment on their kids.

Those types of “embarrassments” made them who they are. If it was good enough for them, why would it not be good enough for their own kids? Whip them, literally, into being a better person.

Spankings came while all of the family was in attendance to observe my punishment. I would be marched out in just diapers that would be pulled down to my knees and then over Mom's knee. A ping pong paddle served up large welts on my butt before being rediapered and sent to the corner. My sisters would be rolling on the floor with laughter at my predicament, while Mom would replace my diapers. You do know Elf if you were a woman you would be long out of diapers, but you are just a diaper boy.

Oh, yes. Dad spanked me to remind me of his rules. His friends could never understand why I never got into trouble, so when I was in my late teens he would invite them over to watch him spank me. They praised him on how well he trained and cared for me, which led for me to be displayed more often.

Mine were deliberately invited in before my enema was to be given. Generally my uncle and Aunt who would visit often. I would be just getting ready for my enema when there was a knock on the door. Mom or Dad would say come on in we are about to give Judy an enema and you are welcomed to watch.

This sounds like my worst fear , so humiliating

Dad spanked me to remind me of his rules. His friends could never understand why I never got into trouble, so when I was in my late teens he would invite them over to watch him spank me. They praised him on how well he trained and cared for me, which led for me to be displayed more often.

If you never got into trouble, why would you be spanked to prove your good behavior by being spanked in front of others?

There seems to be a wacky sort of reasoning here that I don't understand. My take is that your dad just liked to spank and display you to friends. Any reason would do.

I think that reading through the various comments that even the gentlest parents did not avoid giving in to a tiny cruel moment and place their child in an embarrassing situation.

I do think that many of these punishments are initiated by women (mothers) who delighted in seeing their brothers, cousins, and others being spanked naked whilst growing up but not having experienced this themselves. My Aunt who bought me up told me about male cousins she had seen spanked naked and seemed to take delight in recounting how embarrassed they were and how amusing it was for those watching. She also used childish names when I was older which dismissed the embarrassment whilst drawing attention to it! ‘Mrs Wilson isn’t interested in your winky young man', when it was clear Mrs Wilson, who had just been shown into the living room, was interested in viewing a well developed and deeply embarrassed teenage male with his underpants round his ankles. Even if my pants were taken down facing my Aunt and I spent some time in the corner, there would be an apology afterwards in front of her friends or neighbours who had arrived after the spanking, deliberately showing everyone a view of everything I wanted to keep hidden and allowing them to see the embarrassment on my tearstained face or my tears. I know I have posted twice on this topic but it has touched a nerve and stirred up deep memories. Looking back I find it exciting, at the time I did not!

@barry My Aunt who bought me up told me about male cousins she had seen spanked naked and seemed to take delight in recounting how embarrassed they were and how amusing it was for those watching. She also used childish names when I was older which dismissed the embarrassment whilst drawing attention to it! ‘Mrs Wilson isn’t interested in your winky young man',

Sounds like your aunt was looking for an opportunity to play a role in ‘a Nanny Experience’ … 😃

Yes once.

I was fooling around with a freezbie and I smashed the neighbors‘s garage window. The neighbor came to my house and told my dad who had warned me about doing stupid things like that. My dad got really angry and told the neighbor that I would pay for the glass and that I was getting a spanking! The neighbor said that he hoped I would learn my lesson and my dad said “why don’t you just watch and see”

the neighbor watched

Sounds like your aunt was looking for an opportunity to play a role in ‘a Nanny Experience’ … 😃

Indeed! She ran a kindergarten, as explained elsewhere in my posts!

We were never spanked. My older brother was a plump little cherub and constantly drew oohs and aahs from mum's friends because he was so pretty. Mum often stripped him naked to show him off to them saying look how cute he is and turn him over to show his pale little bottom. She did this in front of her friends and their kids until he was 6 or seven years old. He hated it and would cry and everybody made more of a fuss.

Oh yes many times. My mum always spanked me whenever I needed to be. At home it always seemed to be in front of someone. Freinds, neighbours, aunts, grandma. And I grew to enjoy it being spanked and exhibited.

I can say it happened but not frequently like some. If I acted in a certain way, said something inappropriate, did something I knew was worthy of spanking then I got it no matter who was there. It’s even happened when I had friends over for a sleepover . A few times in front of family especially one time at a July 4th picnic. One time in the dressing room of a clothing store in the mall. Long stories but you get the idea.

Do you feel it drove the point home and changed your behavior over time, @Baileybird, or such displays continued from time to time?

I never looked for those times. It definitely changed my attitudes at the moment but like all kids you forget and have a repeat.

Oh yes many times. My mum always spanked me whenever I needed to be. At home it always seemed to be in front of someone. Freinds, neighbours, aunts, grandma. And I grew to enjoy it being spanked and exhibited.

So, since you ended up enjoying them, the spankings actually sort of missed their intended purpose. The joke was on your mum. Good for you turning the tables … ha ha ha

I wouldn't say I was deliberately displayed. Like “hey! Look at his naked ass and penis!” LOL

But I did get my pants pulled down and spanked in front of family and friends sometimes. It happened. And I'm sure they saw my parts. Embarrassing but now it excites me lol

Sometimes I think Mom would wait until my Aunt and Uncle were coming over before starting me. She would have the bag and equipment out on the kitchen countertop just to get them to ask questions as to why it was out.

Red are you talking an enema or a spanking plus enema?

My Aunt had no second thoughts disciplining anyone in her care right there and then, no matter who was around. Her friends saw both male and female cousins many a time…

On occasion I was spanked in front of friends or relatives, or anyone who happened to be around at the time. That didn’t occur much, but it happened. My dad just didn’t care who was there, and cared even less about my modesty. There were other times that if I was acting up in a store, he would announce in front of everyone that he would be taking the strap to me as soon as we got home. This was every bit as embarrassing as being spanked in front of people.

Only happened to me once. I was not allowed to play baseball in the back yard to many houses around. Sure enough my best friend and I were out one day and broke the neighbor ladies window. Tm my horror she was invited over to witness my spanking to show i was “properly disciplined” I was always stripped for my spankings and had to stand in front of my mother before i went over her knee, she would scold me and tell me what a naughty boy i was. Made an impression on me