Receiving or expelling enemas, which is more erotic?

I'm pretty new to the enema scene and I've only done a few enemas. The first was intended for relief of a week's constipation, but I found it to be very erotic. Personally, I find that the expulsion is a lot more erotic, because I'm relaxed. What adds to the experience is the unexpected waves, cramps and the sudden urge to go. The best is when the big solids explode out and that sudden sense of relief. Looking at my results is very erotic as well. I'm finding out that receiving can be erotic, because I'm anticipating my time on the potty. :-)

I think it's different for each person, depending on what specific parts of the enema experience pushes their erotic buttons.

Me, personally, I find the whole thing erotic, but I'm sure you realize that many people find the expelling excessively embarrassing, and then mentally have trouble getting by that to find the eroticism in that part of the enema.

Enematically Steve

Host 2022 Florida E-Fest

@SteveEEE The expulsion definitely pushes my erotic buttons :-) BTW, what is efest?

@Ebbie_Anne Efests are gatherings of Enema fetishists that were first started in Las Vegas as the internet grew and enema lovers wanted to get together face to face ( or face to butt as the case might be ). The event itself is like a weekend long cocktail party where everyone in attendance has some strong interests in the enema fetish ( as well as other fetishes ). At the party people meet, discuss something and then typically go back to their private hotel rooms to check things out Theres demos in the party room by braver attendees and all levels of experience w enemas do attend. ( while the earliest Efests we're only the most experienced players, beginners to the point of enema virgins have come to realize what better place to learn than the experts.So that's what Efests are.

Now, the Florida Efest has been run successfully for 18 previous years. Its held in the Tampa area the first weekend in November. The website that was linked to hasn't been used in a number of years as nobody was using it as a source of information, and the controller if the page refuses to keep it updated. Because if the way that FetLife handles event listings better than here at Zity. I choose FetLife as my main information and listing source. Its listed over there as “the Florida Efest” and there's also a discussion group dedicated to it, the Tyler Reunion group.

I've attended been part of 22 Efests and have been the main host for the last 5 here in Florida.

From now til November, I'll be monitoring here and FetLife to answer any questions, and help people attend.

It's amazing to be in a room full of people where you can say the word enema, and everyone is interested, and doesn't think you're weird.

Enematically Steve

Host 2022 Florida E-Fest

For me it was the whole thing. Getting undressed, bathroom, rectal fingering, nozzle insertion, filling up. Then…….after 5 minutes sweet release!!!!!

@Baileybird has describe my thoughts about me and enemas exactly!

I would love to get my ass to an e-fest, i l almost went to the last one in Philly in 05 or 06 whenever it was, which would have been a lot easier to get to than the Clearwater ones.

The expulsion is NOTAT ALL erotic.

It is just the end of a round!

I think all of it is.

Do you mean being told that an enema was coming, and submitting to over your givers lap or being placed into their preferred position ? Then the filling that “ they decide on ” with NO CHOICE by you ? Feeling the nozzle being inserted up your backsides, only to accept what is given? You may cry and plead, but the enema continues.

Then being allowed to expel as they watched their work come out.

More erotic is having the giver supervise your expulsion, then decide that you need another.

For me it's receiving. The anticipation from the moment I'm told I'm getting an enema and going through the steps leading up to it. Having to undress and assume a vulnerable position. Or even better, the occasions I've been undressed and forced into a vulnerable position. Next being lubed with a gloved finger, knowing I won't be able to stop the slippery digit from entering me; which in turn will prevent me from stopping a nozzle from entering me. Then when that nozzle slides home and starts inflating, one of my most intimate functions are now under the control of another person, and boy are they ready to take control. Finally when the clamp opens and the warm water floods my rectum and rushes into me, I feel both totally helpless and totally turned on.

For me it is the receiving. Most erotic is when my wife is the giver.

Kind of a toss up.. But while it does feel so good going in, coming back out feels so good too, especially when had been constipated and passing a lot of solid large stools.

Expelling…

Although not an form of foreplay, more the necessity to be clean for anal play, is the “erotic” feeling i like.

It's also a feeling of what is coming ahead: the play.

So I guess it is sort of a foreplay, because it does turn me on into needing sex

@edwasss Yes, definitely expelling the water with the the large hard poops, smaller poops and farts, especially when it's explosive and under a lot of pressure. Looking at the result in the toilet and the smell turns me on too :-)

I'm perturbed by these continued “Which is better” threads. In my enema adventures it's a rich ride from the anticipation of the repeated fillings and expulsions to the delightful anal play that follows. The preparing of the enema, the steaming water and the smell of soap. The sights and textures of the bag I'm using. The lubrication of my nozzles and bottom. The feeling of insertion (the pop), the click and the slow (and sometimes fast with my inline pump) warm filling that even now makes me tingle. The pulsing of squeezing that bulb. Pausing for moments and riding the cramps. The initial burn of an alcohol enema but then the tingling warmth and waves of pleasure that follow. Watching the bag empty and hearing “the gurgle” knowing I've taken it all. All the wonderful physical sensations and emotional feelings that are part of enema play. And yes, expelling a soapy enema with the sound of plops and poots but with the scents of Dr. Bonner's peppermint, almond and lavender Castile or J&J baby shampoo wafting in the air is a naughty treat. The relief of letting go of all I took in and the sense of “feeling clean inside and out” is sublime That is all part of my enema experiences ❤🚀😜

I agree with many of the previous posts, but miss the mention of the joy of holding the enema which almost is the best part for me. Fighting the urge, being told to keep it longer (or telling the recipient so when I am the giver), the constant increase of the urge, in particular when the enema contained dulcolax or glycerin - all are so enjoyable!

In my case, clearly receiving! Especially the nozzle inserstion followed by flow of water

Definitely the receiving part. Expelling for me is not unpleasant, but its kind of repayment for all the enjoyment getting it in there in the first place.

What my sister, girlfriend, and wife did while giving me enemas using a long-curved douche nozzle was fantastic. So, for me, receiving enemas was more erotic than expelling. Then came the next best thing. Afterwards, I got to reciprocated for the girls.

My sub would say receiving is more erotic. It used to be he'd get filled while fucking me. He'd orgasm then trot off to expel. Now it is more a good snuggle and cuddle while he fills. Though occasionally a hand job for pleasure does happen.

Receiving is more erotic, but at times repeated good strong expulsions can be just as erotic.

Receiving definetely. I hate the expulsion haha mine or anyone elses.

The erotic anticipation, the insertion, etc all of that can be very appealing to me.

The eternal question is “to get an enema or to give a result”. Depends on which end of the enema you're looking at. If you're looking at the recipient end, I think the answer is obvious. Of course the recipient is more pleasant, especially at the moment of getting the water out of the body. Seeing the face my husband walks out of the bathroom with after he's emptied himself... it's an absolute pleasure. On the other hand, the giving side is not lacking in sensual eroticism either. After all, if you think about it and look at the huge number of pictures of women or men with good enema equipment.... they evoke a great storm of emotions of a positive nature. Take as an example the watercolor works of Julie Delcourt, a French artist living in Berlin. I am delighted with his works. The details of eroticism of the procedure of receiving an enema are finely worked out. A kind of care for the neighbor. A kind of fetishization of maternal care for the child... as strange as it may sound. Few people, of course, like the very process of expelling fluids with waste products. But, the very act of relief, when you are free and you feel good is not without a certain amount of eroticism.

But, I will return to the fact that it all depends on what a person likes. Of course, there are people like my husband. He likes everything, and how I am dressed, which enema device we have jointly chosen and the result of emptying the bowels he also likes. I will add my subjective. If you do not think about the process of emptying (return) that I admit the sight is not for everyone and not for everyone, for me, there is more eroticism in the process of giving an enema to your partner or yourself. You are still in anticipation of filling yourself or your partner, a slight shiver through the body, goosebumps from excitement.... latex gloves pleasantly encircle your hand, you feel a heavy enema bag filled with warm water, gently lubricate the anus with lubricant and gently insert the tip into it.... what of this is not the height of eroticism?

As always, thanks for reading to the end. I tried my best to bring my point of view to you my dear forum members.

With respect Elena

@Rick6981 Were you being cared for by these 3 ladies at the same time period or at different times in your life

Call me selfish. I like being on the receiving end. All the prep is done by someone else. All I have to do is squirm, make cute sounds and poop. So, so pampered. If I am giving it I am so envious I may just not empty all the air from the bag. Just sayin.

@Bad_Princess Oh, air, really bad :-) I've thought about doing this as well, but never had the guts, because the punishment I have to endure afterwards would be more worse.

@ronniewater said,

Were you being cared for by these 3 ladies at the same time period or at different times in your life

My sister and girlfriend activities took place when we were teenagers, and my activities with my wife took place a number of years later.

I enjoy all the preparation work, sliding in the nozzle and opening the clamp when being the giver. I also enjoy all the sounds of another person preparing an enema to give to me and the sensation of the nozzle insertion and clamp opening. I enjoy the relief of the first release. l just wish the total release process didn't take so long. Just when I think I'm done another wave demands to be expelled. I was told I have a redundant colon and perhaps that makes the release process more difficult.

For me it mostly receiving but my current nurse always visit me in the bathroom

Preparing the next bag ordering me to kiss her ass then ordering me to get up and stretch sometimes she will then hold my hard cock and pull on it adding to the experience