Receiving or expelling enemas, which is more erotic?

I'm pretty new to the enema scene and I've only done a few enemas. The first was intended for relief of a week's constipation, but I found it to be very erotic. Personally, I find that the expulsion is a lot more erotic, because I'm relaxed. What adds to the experience is the unexpected waves, cramps and the sudden urge to go. The best is when the big solids explode out and that sudden sense of relief. Looking at my results is very erotic as well. I'm finding out that receiving can be erotic, because I'm anticipating my time on the potty. :-)

I think it's different for each person, depending on what specific parts of the enema experience pushes their erotic buttons.

Me, personally, I find the whole thing erotic, but I'm sure you realize that many people find the expelling excessively embarrassing, and then mentally have trouble getting by that to find the eroticism in that part of the enema.

Enematically Steve

Host 2022 Florida E-Fest

@SteveEEE The expulsion definitely pushes my erotic buttons :-) BTW, what is efest?

BTW, what is efest?

@Ebbie_Anne “E-Fest (Enema Festival) E-Fest is an annual gathering of folks from all over the USA, plus a few from other countries. We share many common interests, fetish and other wise, but in particular an enema fetish. It is a social gathering spanning 3 days and 2 nights. Attendees enjoy lots of social fun, entertainment and activities, both group as well as one to one. New friendships develop at every E-Fest and everyone leaves with a big smile on their face.”

There are held at various locations (Chicago, Florida ….)

Here's a link to the Florida E-Fest - but it's not dated so I'm not sure if that's this November or a past gathering. I'm sure @SteveEEE can provide more specifics.

http://www.floridaefest.org/main-information-page-intrest.html

@Ebbie_Anne Efests are gatherings of Enema fetishists that were first started in Las Vegas as the internet grew and enema lovers wanted to get together face to face ( or face to butt as the case might be ). The event itself is like a weekend long cocktail party where everyone in attendance has some strong interests in the enema fetish ( as well as other fetishes ). At the party people meet, discuss something and then typically go back to their private hotel rooms to check things out Theres demos in the party room by braver attendees and all levels of experience w enemas do attend. ( while the earliest Efests we're only the most experienced players, beginners to the point of enema virgins have come to realize what better place to learn than the experts.So that's what Efests are.

Now, the Florida Efest has been run successfully for 18 previous years. Its held in the Tampa area the first weekend in November. The website that was linked to hasn't been used in a number of years as nobody was using it as a source of information, and the controller if the page refuses to keep it updated. Because if the way that FetLife handles event listings better than here at Zity. I choose FetLife as my main information and listing source. Its listed over there as “the Florida Efest” and there's also a discussion group dedicated to it, the Tyler Reunion group.

I've attended been part of 22 Efests and have been the main host for the last 5 here in Florida.

From now til November, I'll be monitoring here and FetLife to answer any questions, and help people attend.

It's amazing to be in a room full of people where you can say the word enema, and everyone is interested, and doesn't think you're weird.

Enematically Steve

Host 2022 Florida E-Fest

For me it was the whole thing. Getting undressed, bathroom, rectal fingering, nozzle insertion, filling up. Then…….after 5 minutes sweet release!!!!!

@Baileybird has describe my thoughts about me and enemas exactly!

I would love to get my ass to an e-fest, i l almost went to the last one in Philly in 05 or 06 whenever it was, which would have been a lot easier to get to than the Clearwater ones.

The expulsion is NOTAT ALL erotic.

It is just the end of a round!

I think all of it is.

Do you mean being told that an enema was coming, and submitting to over your givers lap or being placed into their preferred position ? Then the filling that “ they decide on ” with NO CHOICE by you ? Feeling the nozzle being inserted up your backsides, only to accept what is given? You may cry and plead, but the enema continues.

Then being allowed to expel as they watched their work come out.

More erotic is having the giver supervise your expulsion, then decide that you need another.

For me it's receiving. The anticipation from the moment I'm told I'm getting an enema and going through the steps leading up to it. Having to undress and assume a vulnerable position. Or even better, the occasions I've been undressed and forced into a vulnerable position. Next being lubed with a gloved finger, knowing I won't be able to stop the slippery digit from entering me; which in turn will prevent me from stopping a nozzle from entering me. Then when that nozzle slides home and starts inflating, one of my most intimate functions are now under the control of another person, and boy are they ready to take control. Finally when the clamp opens and the warm water floods my rectum and rushes into me, I feel both totally helpless and totally turned on.

For me it is the receiving. Most erotic is when my wife is the giver.

Kind of a toss up.. But while it does feel so good going in, coming back out feels so good too, especially when had been constipated and passing a lot of solid large stools.

Expelling…

Although not an form of foreplay, more the necessity to be clean for anal play, is the “erotic” feeling i like.

It's also a feeling of what is coming ahead: the play.

So I guess it is sort of a foreplay, because it does turn me on into needing sex

@edwasss Yes, definitely expelling the water with the the large hard poops, smaller poops and farts, especially when it's explosive and under a lot of pressure. Looking at the result in the toilet and the smell turns me on too :-)

I'm perturbed by these continued “Which is better” threads. In my enema adventures it's a rich ride from the anticipation of the repeated fillings and expulsions to the delightful anal play that follows. The preparing of the enema, the steaming water and the smell of soap. The sights and textures of the bag I'm using. The lubrication of my nozzles and bottom. The feeling of insertion (the pop), the click and the slow (and sometimes fast with my inline pump) warm filling that even now makes me tingle. The pulsing of squeezing that bulb. Pausing for moments and riding the cramps. The initial burn of an alcohol enema but then the tingling warmth and waves of pleasure that follow. Watching the bag empty and hearing “the gurgle” knowing I've taken it all. All the wonderful physical sensations and emotional feelings that are part of enema play. And yes, expelling a soapy enema with the sound of plops and poots but with the scents of Dr. Bonner's peppermint, almond and lavender Castile or J&J baby shampoo wafting in the air is a naughty treat. The relief of letting go of all I took in and the sense of “feeling clean inside and out” is sublime That is all part of my enema experiences ❤🚀😜

I agree with many of the previous posts, but miss the mention of the joy of holding the enema which almost is the best part for me. Fighting the urge, being told to keep it longer (or telling the recipient so when I am the giver), the constant increase of the urge, in particular when the enema contained dulcolax or glycerin - all are so enjoyable!