Do you ejaculate IN your girlfriend or outside?

Guys, when you reach orgasm, do you ejaculate ''in'' your girlfriend, or do you withdraw and jerk off on her belly, her breasts or her face ? Is it different if you have anal sex ?

Girls, when your partner is cuming, do you ask him to ejaculate inside of you or to withdraw and jerk off on you ? How do you fell when the sperm is spilling inside your body ? Is it different if you have anal sex ?

Inside for vaginal and anal - pulled out for oral.

If the stimulation involved penetrating me then he cums inside. If it’s my mouth I may or may not swallow.

This sounds odd but I hate feeling messy so I always prefer it inside of me.

In or on, mostly in.

Have done both inside and outside vagina as well as between breasts with last girlfriend. She wanted to feel cum on her breasts and nipples!

It's different. Vaginal most time inside, but when she climax long before me, she want me pull out and make me cum in her mouth, Anally only inside.

If having PIV or anal sex, I have always cum inside the woman or condom, never an exception. For oral sex, every girlfriend I've had sucked me to completion and then swallowed. My wife however, usually spits me out or stops prior to ejaculation. For hand jobs, who knows where it might end up. I have tittie fucked a couple of girlfriends in the past. Those are the only times I have purposely ejaculated onto a woman. Gotta love the pearl necklace!

Always inside. the only time I pulled out was as a teen and it didn’t prevent pregnancy

It always depends on what we are doing and where she wants it

Always inside

Almost always in, unless they request otherwise, always discuss first with new partners

Always inside.

Back when I was young and not married, even though my girlfriend was using contraception, I was always very hesitant to ejaculate inside her. It was a residing and enduring fear of getting her pregnant, despite the contraception she used.

I think the only sex ed my father gave me was, never get anyone pregnant cause then you're well and truly fucked over but good. It must have been a lesson I retained and internalized very well.

I did of course do so on occasion and more later after we married, but even so, I suppose because of early conditioning it was not really my favored method. I preferred manually induced orgasms, to put a technical, impersonal term to it.

That didn't preclude PIV at all. It just didn't include PIV orgasms being a favorite method for me …

I have always ejaculated inside both wearing a condom and not wearing when partner was on birth control.

Always in.

Girls, when your partner is cuming, do you ask him to ejaculate inside of you or to withdraw and jerk off on you ? How do you fell when the sperm is spilling inside your body? Is it different if you have anal sex?

I've never asked to have his cum on me. It seems a bit messy and has no attraction for me. Now that I have gone through menopause he is required to cum inside me, no condom required. Skin on skin is best. I feel satisfied that I have emptied him.

I’ve ejaculated on a woman’s breasts, back, and butt cheeks, when I was much younger. Of course, letting go inside of a hot vagina, or rectum, was preferable. Sometimes I did it to break up the monotony, and at other times, it was because they didn’t want to lose their virginity.

It depends where she wants it, it could be anywhere in or on her

Almost always IN. When we were younger and experimenting with different things, she would sometimes jack me off and let me cum on her tits, because she saw a picture and thought I would like that. I did, but her not so much. Doing it on her face or hair was strictly a no-no. She wanted me to plant it deep in her and she said she could feel it when I shot my load, and she liked that.

Excluding hand jobs, where I ejaculated onto my stomach, the vast majority of the time, inside. Did titty sex occasionally and came on her breasts but it was not in the sex position rotation. I was fortunate enough to have all my oral, including 69, orgasms swallowed.

Was always inside except for maybe 6-8 times when they wanted to be titty fucked. 😉

My husband always squirts in my vagina and I like that best because I always feel him doing it, or he does it in my mouth if I am giving him a blow job. I think doing it inside has got to be more satisfying for men so I do not get why they would want to just do it outside when they could do it inside. I thought it was just a stupid porn thing though and not what anybody really did.

I thought it was just a stupid porn thing though and not what anybody really did.

I always preferred a manually induced ejaculation when having sex with my gf/wife.

Maybe because of conditioning via masturbation when on my own, maybe because I find that a hand is a more versatile organ to apply pressure and friction with than the inside of a vagina and probably also because of residual fear of getting a partner pregnant. None of this precludes piv sex of course, but for my grand finale I still prefer outside.

I suppose that the versatility of a hand trumps the other explanations or is certainly the main reason.

Almost always inside, and every woman I’ve dated was pretty into or extremely into creampies. The ex who cuckolded me would need to be filled with sperm at all times, and she would take multiple loads per day, sometimes from different guys. She also loved sloppy seconds and me cleaning her up.

@Amethyst : In porn people want to see male ejaculation, so it must be outside. But porn isn't real sex, so most lovers - include me and wife - enjoy the orgasm deep in each other.

My husband always squirts in my vagina and I like that best because I always feel him doing it, or he does it in my mouth if I am giving him a blow job. I think doing it inside has got to be more satisfying for men so I do not get why they would want to just do it outside when they could do it inside. I thought it was just a stupid porn thing though and not what anybody really did.

You are spot on … for me anyway. It is far more satisfying for me to cum into my girlfriend's mouth, vagina or anus … and the deeper the better too. I never pull out to spray up her back or into her face. It's not as visible as a climax for the porn producers, though they could try harder … I actually think there's nothing sexier in a porn video that seeing a large erect penis spasming while fully deep inside his partner, and clearly ejaculating hard. You can tell when he's cumming from the tightening of his balls, the pulsing of his urethra as his cum surges down his length and into her, the holding of breath, the tightening of butt cheeks and generally tensing up. Plus I think the partner loves that moment of receiving.

To add to this view that ejaculating into your partner is more satisfying, consider how rewarding it is to see your girlfriend swallow your semen. I know it might be deluded for a man to think that his cum might be a treasured treat for a woman to swallow, but her spitting it out does tend to come across as a form of rejection. Of course if she really hates it, spit, but so much better if its guzzled with a face that looks super content for having done so!?

It has been a long, long time since I have ejaculated outside of my partner as part of intercourse. In my younger years there were one or two occasions that was done for birth control purposes. Since then ejaculating on her has been more in the realm of masturbation and not intercourse. I will occasionally kneel beside her and rub the head of my penis on her nipple while I masturbate and generally wind up ejaculating on her nipple and breast. I must admit to frequently fantasizing about pulling out of her when doing it doggie style and ejaculating on her anus. I think to myself about the possibility of placing my penis firmly on her anus and the force of the ejaculation pushing the semen into her rectum without actually penetrating it. She doesn't care for my penis in her anus, I am thinking this would be an interesting alternative. In either scenario, I look forward to licking up the ejaculate followed by giving her a deep, sensuous and appreciative kiss.

Since then ejaculating on her has been more in the realm of masturbation and not intercourse.

I don't see the real difference. Both are sexual acts, sex play or whatever.

I always ejaculate in the vagina of my wife / girl friend. While petting only outside. Both is satisfying, but during PIV ejaculating inside seems to me more natural (for both parties).