Present during an adult's (Mother, father, aunt etc.) intimate exam like Gyno or prostate.

Have you ever been present at your fathers prostate exam or mother's/aunt's gyno exam? If so how did you feel?

Yes at my mother’s gyno appointment. I think I was 16 or 17. She had carpal tunnel surgery a few days prior so she basically only had one useable hand and it was not her dominant one that was useable either. I was really shy and embarrassed especially when we got in the exam room. But she kept reassuring me on the way there that everything would be ok. That made it a little better but I was still shy because she had explained to me that she would be getting undressed and I’d be helping her with various things. The looks we got in the waiting room didn’t make things better especially when we both got up when her name was called. Everyone was looking at us like we were crazy. I was the only male in the waiting room also the youngest person it appeared too so I kind of felt surrounded by older people haha. People probably would not have given us as many looks if I was younger because that’s not all that weird a mom bringing her younger kids with her.

I definitely think the most embarrassing parts at the time was everything I had to help her with which was helping her undress, put on the gown, holding the pee cup between her legs, removing the pad from her underwear when we were there and helping get another one in place. And probably helping her dress too. And maybe helping her wipe the lube off too. These are things she asked me to do. When I was helping her dress I kind of embarrassed myself a little bit because when I was helping with her bra I couldn’t think of a good way to hold it up and snap it at the same time so I laid my arm across her breasts to hold it up while I fastened the back. She was holding it a little bit but not enough to really do anything. Her breasts are c cups but they were too heavy to try and hold up with just the bra supporting them. It was also embarrassing for me because I couldn’t stop staring at any of her but especially her area down there because she had tons of hair which I really like. She noticed I was staring but didn’t really say anything until after the exam when we were talking about it. Before we went she didn’t tell me everything I’d have to assist with I was thinking probably just helping her undress and dress but as you see it was a lot more. I honestly don’t think she could of done this stuff alone with one arm and hand especially not her left one.

I think I got pretty embarrassed at the time too because the nurse and doctor both asked my mom if I needed to leave and that I could come back in when it’s time for her to dress again and she said no he needs to stay because I’m going to need his help and he needs to learn this. At this office (at least at the time, I guess it’s still the same) the nurse leaves and doesn’t come back. They do what they need and ask the patient to undress and then you don’t see them again. At least that was the case for this exam not sure if it was because I was there and count as a chaperone or because it’s their standard practice. She never has gone alone so she didn’t know the answer when I asked her as she said the nurse always leaves. It would of been akward I feel if the nurse had stayed because she probably would of kept her eyes on me to see if I was looking or not as she did when she was taking all my moms vitals and everything. The doctor looked at me a few times saying he delivered me and when he was telling me if I felt the need to step out I could. Other than that he didn’t say a word or bat an eye at me. He was looking at my mom only when he asked if I needed to leave. The whole thing was embarrassing at the time but afterwards I thought about how much I enjoyed the whole watching and everything then it was no longer embarrassing and by then we were both pretty comfortable and close with each other haha. So embarrassed at the time is how I felt. Now I feel so turned on by it that I can’t help but wonder if I’ll ever go again with her or with any women lol.

I believe I may have went with her once or twice when I was a small child too as I remember her getting naked and into a gown for something. Of course I was asking questions then but I don’t remember much about the exam or questions lol.