Real examination with fake partner observing

I was offered an interesting idea recently on a local kink site. A man asked if I would be okay with him escorting me to my annual gyn exam, amd even pay for private appointments to be able to witness more than one examination, acting like my partner, so he can be in the room with me, not even necessarily watch “the action” explicitly, just standing on the side. To be honest it appeals to me as the exhibitionist I am, but I am not sure if it is okay ethically. It would expose the unknowing and nonconsenting doctor to our kink - at the same time he would be exposed to my kink anyway if I'd go alone, I'm the type who would get aroused by a perfectly normal and boring real examination anyway, still without the doctors knowledge or consent. So, what do you think?

Would this be any different from having a chaperone accompanying you? A chaperone needn't necessarily be related to you and few would think it odd if one did accompany you.

So, as long as the man requesting would be able to comport himself properly, as if he were a chaperone, then it is really none of the doctor's business if either or both of you experience some pleasurable arousal on the sly in your minds.

Would this be any different from having a chaperone accompanying you? A chaperone needn't necessarily be related to you and few would think it odd if one did accompany you.

So, as long as the man requesting would be able to comport himself properly, as if he were a chaperone, then it is really none of the doctor's business if either or both of you experience some pleasurable arousal on the sly in your minds.

Thank you! You are right. I might consider saying yes to the offer.

Thank you! You are right. I might consider saying yes to the offer.

Interesting concept. I like it. Let us know if it happens!

@BigFatGreek – i completely agree with agracier. no different than an advocate. does not need to be your relative. and the doctor does not need to know what excites you and him.

completely acceptable.

and sooo hot sounding. how can i get a stranger into one of my wife's exams, but me still be there to see?

Interesting concept. I like it. Let us know if it happens!

I will, for sure! Getting really excited about it. I wasn't too motivated to go to my exams on the regular, as it always turns out to be a disappointment (pun not intended), but this gives it a new twist.

Interesting concept, and a rather exciting one. It isn't like you are expecting the doctor to do anything outside of his or her normal examination. I think it is perfectly fine.

Absolutely that’s ok, your Doctor is

No moral issues in that proposal, so just go for it and enjoy!

I never witnessed a gyn exam until my future ex said she needed a check-up. I booked her an appointment, picked her up (we were living apart already) and drove her there. Pretty impressive, but seeing for the first time a transvaginal exam made my mind blow like a nuclear bomb!

Of course I paid for it with greatest pleasure :-)

Excuse me?!?! One appointment as your annual with your ”chaperone” is perfectly fine. HOWEVER, having additional appointments just to satisfy your kink is wrong! It’s a waste of the time of the doctor, their staff and is not fair to legitimate patients. Go find a playdoc to satisfy your kinky fetish vs wasting the valuable time of real medical professionals.

Yes, this is the type of concern I was raising the question for. Don't imagine it like 235 exams in a row for weeks though.