My wife is not interested in rectal Temperatures

I am so turned on by rectal temps taking and receiving. My wife will not let me near her butt-in anyway. When I work out at the gym and see all the young, beautiful butts I get so turned on. What should I do if there is just NO GO-EVER. I am again glad to know that so many enjoy kinky stuff.

As far as I am concerned USA women were brought up in the Puritan era.

When we were trying to get my wife pregnant, I took her temperature every morning and charted it to see when we would have sex.

I don’t know that women today are against having their ass played with, unless you’re referring to someone who’s been indoctrinated to believe that the anus is dirty ,and that only perverts would dare to venture into what I consider to be one of the most erogenous and sexy parts of a woman’s body. A woman who refuses to let you enjoy her ass, may be sweet, and wonderful, as a wife or girlfriend, but they’re sexually unimaginative and predictable. Years ago, I dated a woman who was an evangelical Christian, and she told me that anyone who considers the ass to be seen in a sexual manner, is sick and evil. If I were to return to the dating scene , a stop sign on anal, would be a definite dealbreaker.

You just picked the wrong woman.

I am so turned on by rectal temps taking and receiving. My wife will not let me near her butt-in anyway. When I work out at the gym and see all the young, beautiful butts I get so turned on. What should I do if there is just NO GO-EVER. I am again glad to know that so many enjoy kinky stuff.

Some girls are turned on by having their bottoms played with and some aren't. When I got married that was a question that wasn't asked. In retrospect should it have been? In my case 100% because I'm sure I am married to your wife's twin.

You know why divorces are expensive?

They are WORTH IT!!

I have been having a strong rectal temperature fetish thoughout my life.

As a teenager, I was very shy and I spent hours masturbating, thinking of all the girls I did not dare to speak to, often with a thermometer up my butt.

Eventually, at 21, I found a girl ( or she found me).Christine made me discover sex, and it was wonderfull. After a few days of hot sex, I brough a thermometer with me, hoping it would spice up our relation.

To my surprise, Christine was shocked and we allmost broke out on that day. She declared rectal temperature was something disgusting and she felt my taste for it was a proof of hidden gay tendancies.

So, during the four years, we were ''together'', we had a lot of good sex, including anal, but she allways refused to take my temperature or to have hers taken.

Christine spent a lot of time studying abroad during this period of time.I remember telling her that, when we were separated, I masturbated thinking about her with a thermometer in my ass.She was shocked again and she made me promise to stop, not to masturbate, but to do it with a thermometer in my butt.

Fortunatly, Maria, my second girlfriend was just the opposite to Christine. She was very much into medfet. So, every time we were to have sex, she imposed a comprehensive medical exam on me, allways ending with a rectal temperature taking on her lap. I was in Heaven….

From experience as a mom having two grown daughters, I wouldn’t find this unusual. Older daughter growing up not thrilled with anything to be inserted in her bottom but quietly accepted. Younger daughter, we had our moments — let’s just say, she wasn’t so quiet!

@Browser I am so turned on by rectal temps taking and receiving. My wife will not let me near her butt-in anyway.

So sad to read. Reminds me of my often mentioned 1st wife who was like that - anything I wanted to do butt-wise she consider perverted.

She can’t stop you from taking other womens’ rectal temperatures. Taking someone else’s temp isn’t really cheating, is it?

It's the sex afterwards that might just be a grey area.. 😆😆😆

She can’t stop you from taking other womens’ rectal temperatures. Taking someone else’s temp isn’t really cheating, is it?

It doesn't have to be PIV to be cheating. Having someone OTK spreading their cheeks is cheating.

@Moppys_jalopy remarks

It doesn't have to be PIV to be cheating. Having someone OTK spreading their cheeks is cheating.

Right on the button . . so to speak 😁 & so true

Then there's this :

She can’t stop you from taking other womens’ rectal temperatures.

The word D-I-V-O-R-C-E as its known in some circles springs to mind.

Right on the button . . so to speak 😁 & so true

Button might be the appropriate description!

I sit here and laugh, because I can't find someone into what I like, who is single.

It appears most men like vanilla women.

It really is complicated, because you have to find someone with like world views and goals and values, or they won't be a partner.

You can't have someone who does drugs, drinks, or lies, or lives for sports bars, and then enjoy butt play.

So it's better to be alone, than to throw away your sanity. My biggest love in life is science, so I stick with that.

My mom was probably brought up in the Puritan area. She taught me that you didn’t mess with the butt area. I never got enemas growing up or rectal temperatures that I can remember growing up. Even though I was taught never to play with my butt, I still played with my butt solo growing up using the eraser end of a pencil. I would insert the eraser end of pencil in my butt because it felt so good.

In my teens and early to mid-twenties, I could not get a guy to play with my butt. Just as some girls don‘t like playing with butt - there are some guys who also don’t like playing with butts as well.

I read all about all these guys here and the occasional woman complain about their significant other won’t do this or that.

I knew when I met my husband that I had to leave the door open on my kinky. I told him that I would be willing to do anything at least once as long as it was not illegal or harm anyone. I asked him if he was willing to do the same and he agreed. I went one step further and i said what if we did something and I liked it but you didn’t like would you still help me indulge in it? He said yes because we do things for each other even though we might not like them but we have to be supported.

Then we talked about anal play and I found out he was into it so this opened a whole door for us. I really never had an enema until one time that I was constipated. I did know he was into enemas until he offered to cure my constipation.

Later, I asked if he ever played doctor as a kid. He told me that he did. Then he asked me if I would ever consider playing doctor as an adult. I said of course and I knew that I found my future husband.

I still felt weird about it all until we joined Zity realized that a lot of people do anal play and play doctor.

My husband and I have had wonderful time together explore our kink together.

I guess none of you out there never took the time to really get to know your future significant other.

Rectal temperature was not my thing until recently but I let my husband take my rectal temperature over the years and I took his because it made him happy.

Happy husband happy home! Happy wife happy home! Sorry, but I don’t get why you would not want a happy home!

I have stage 4 rectal cancer and my mom just passed away from cancer a few weeks ago. But I have had a great life exploring a lot of my kink! Yes, there are still some kink things that I would love to do and maybe I will be given the opportunity to do them.

@Moppys_jalopy remarksRight on the button . . so to speak 😁 & so true

Then there's this :The word D-I-V-O-R-C-E as its known in some circles springs to mind.

I really like certain things, but I couldn't imagine being married, and divorcing someone over kink, when the BIG picture is how hard it would be to find someone compatible. As someone single, it's like looking for life on Pluto (or Uranus).

I would rather have a trusted friend and partner, than just someone who did the kinky things I like, because the latter one is much, much harder to find.

I hate to say it but trust goes with kink too! You have to trust someone enough to share your deepest fantasies without being ridiculed for it. You have to trust someone that they stop when you use your safe word.

I will go back to my very first post. You picked the wrong person.

#arttemp

She can’t stop you from taking other womens’ rectal temperatures. Taking someone else’s temp isn’t really cheating, is it?

It most certainly is a form of cheating, since rectal temp taking for no medical reason is just a different kind of sex play.

What if someone had a penchant for fondling other women's breasts. Would anyone really believe it if he said he was only checking for potential cancer nodules and there was nothing really sexual about it?

Or here is another benchmark to compare it by: how do you think a judge or jury would feel about such episodes being heard in divorce proceedings? Would the rec temp taker be judged as being innocent of having some form of intimate/sexual relationship? I'm going to guess that person would rather such things never be brought up at all.

Come to think of it.

It is considered abusive to stop your spouse from, say, playing tennis (I don't mean doing it all the time, or spending the household's income on it) because you don't like tennis. Same with preventing the said spouse from seeing friends (this is actually considered very alarming behavior).

So why should all sexual behavior be restricted to the spouse? I can understand it for penetration, due to the risk of sexual transmitted diseases and pregnancies, but rectal temperature taking does not pose a risk.

What is the matter of just accepting the fact, that she doesn't like or want it?

What is the matter of just accepting the fact, that she doesn't like or want it?

This. Because if someone picks someone as their mate, friend, lover, etc., they should stand by that commitment. It's not their fault that it wasn't brought up on bended knee at the proposal.

The other side, where one wants someone to pleasure them, is a fine line, too. I don't think it's all on one side, but I can't see someone divorcing someone over just one thing.

I hate to say it but trust goes with kink too! You have to trust someone enough to share your deepest fantasies without being ridiculed for it. You have to trust someone that they stop when you use your safe word.

I will go back to my very first post. You picked the wrong person.

But also realize that he may have married at a time when this stuff wasn't discussed, ever. There was no internet. No one talked about butt sex or butt play, it was viewed as something that only gay men did.

Everyone wants to appear “normal”, and somethings were deemed abnormal long ago. There was a time when anal sex was illegal in some states.