@mboyd77,
I’m a 70 y/o retired US physician and had the usual multiple pediatrician and then after 18 changed to adult internist medical visits as a child and young adult. My personal docs until many years later as an adult were all men. In all that time, I’ve never heard of a pediatrician physically taking sperm samples from a patient or a pedi patient having orgasms because of the doc doing a prostate exam. Yes, I had my male Urologist, not pediatrician, exude a prostatic fluid sample from me at age 22-23 by prostate massage because I had prostatitis. But it was not an orgasm, intentionally or otherwise. What sort of “growth and development exam program” do think you were in, and/or why was the pediatrician doing so many genital exams and giving you orgasms and taking sperm samples from a (presumably healthy - correct me if I’m wrong here) child and adolescent, meaning YOU? Thanks,
Eric, MD
Its best to go to my profile and read about me. But to sum it up. My mother had mental issues. She took me to a pediatrician that was a pedophile (although he was married and had kids of his own). My exams always included a genital exam. He would speak to my mother privately and she was in the exam room especially during my teen years. My penis is and was very sensitive so I got erections all the time every time he would examine me. My mother watched him examine me, my erection and my orgasms. I would get many colds and would get lots of soar throats mostly during the winter months so she took me to him at least 3X per year.
In one of there private talks, he convinced my mother to give me home inspection and gave her brochures about male puberty and boys growth & development. At that point in time in my life, I was reaching puberty…I was about 12.5-13 years old and at that time, she made me wear just my white hanes undies around the house and a t-shirt. My parents were divorced, never knew my father and had a younger sister. If friends came over, I wore my clothes but private at home…I would have to wear my hanes undies and/or t-shirt. As I mentioned, she had mental issues and it got worse so that is when the sexual abuse started and she would inspect my penis at home.
At first the inspection was checking my undies for sperm stains from wet dreams and my sheets, then it lead to her inspecting me after I took a shower or bath time. Her excuse was that she had to make sure I cleaned properly. She would have me stand in front of her and she would check my pubic hair growth and feel my balls. Then during the early morning hours she would come into my room remove my blanket and she would remove my undies and feel my penis and balls until I ejaculated. She always wore a house coat that had pockets so she had a tissue and she would wipe up my cum.
Then she took me to the doctor again but this time I didn't have a cold so I didn't understand why she was taking me as she told me, the doctor wanted to see me to see how I am developing and it seems I had to go to him every 90-days for this type of exam.
This exam he would ask my mother about the home inspection and show her how to perform a penis exam on me he would take measurements of my penis, use the tanner stages….the nurse would take my weight, height and measurements of me. A few times I had my prostate checked. He would examined my penis and balls feeling around, then he would place his hand at the base and with his other hand he would slowly feel upwards and when he would get to the head of my penis he would rub my frenulum and play with that, he would open and pinch my urethra open and with some light thing, look down my urethra, no insertions…and by then I was ejaculating. Most of the time he would just clean me up but a at times he would take a sperm sample from me. He had a dish that he would hold up to my penis when I ejaculated, one time the nurse held a larger beaker to my penis as he felt my penis as I ejaculated into the beaker.
Now if your going to ask why? I have no clue…as I got older I would ask and I was told a few things…a growth and development study he was doing on teenage boys, I was told that my penis was very sensitive and needed to be examined but that is all I know.
What my gut is telling me is that he picked up on the fact my mother had mental issues and he was a pedophile and he took advantage my mother and spoke to her in private so I can only imagine what they spoke about but each time my exam was over, he would talk privately to her and this continued up until I was 18 years old, moved away and got a lot of therapy.
How did this effect me? I hated going to doctors for the longest time, I developed medfet kink & incest…I am gay but I am into mother son and brother sister incest and I have a porn addiction, eating addiction which I have worked through with self help, talking to others and lots of therapy. So that is my story…..
I have had this conversation with lots on this website and if your a MD, please don't tell me that doctors don't abuse there patients…there have been lots of incidents that priest, school teachers and doctors have been sexually abusive.