Intrusive psychological questioning and physical examination

Anyone like the idea of psychological questioning from a psychologist type character about deep feelings admitting fantasies as well as the physical examination ?

What's not to like about such a scenario? Sounds like a lot of fun for sure!

Yes, possibilities do exist in such a scene!

What makes medplay so unique and thrilling is that the patient has to reveal private, intimate things that are normally hidden. That applies to the physical side as well as to the psychological. A scenario with an interview that goes a lot further and deeper than just taking the patient's medical history prior to an exam is definitely interesting. The pretext could be a study, involving detailed questions about fantasies and habits, as well as a physical check up. Nice.

Yes. I think it’s the being made to reveal Things that would usually stay hidden.

Absolutely!

If you are asking if this were done by a real, actual psychologist, then I would never ever consent or wish to participate. Heavens knows what kind of normative notions they have on less ordinary sexual fantasies and practices.

But if you are asking this about a pretend, play-examination setup, then yes, it should be immensely interesting and fun. But then, you'd need a ‘play psychologist’ with the necessary verbal and questioning skills. I doubt they easy to find.

Purely in a play situation.

Hi to @agracier (post #7 )! Would you care to modify the last sentence of your post to remove the ambiguity? I think l share your doubt about not everyone having the skills required.

But yes, this is a formidable thread, and enlightening.

- Ken

I fantasize about this all the time. Of course I'm not embarrassed to spill any secrets, I love it, but this would only be fun if the therapist was super supportive of and okay with everything (as is typically the case, to a frankly unhealthy degree). I can imagine all kinds of fun therapeutic responses to my fantasies, suggesting acting them out in therapy, pointing me to where medical students are doing practice exams, etc…

Very embarrassing to verbalize your deepest, darkest, perverted secrets. I have written/posted some fantasies here in comments. A bit Easier to write that say out loud.

Not sure if it would be an embarrassing, shameful turn on or just humiliating.

I’m not a fan of psychologists, and find them to be sorely out of touch. They don’t have critical thinking skills. The play scenario described, might work for some. I would find it to be a negative distraction, from an otherwise good experience.

Why thinking so negatively about psychologists? Let's try to elaborate such a questionnaire. Do you have examples of possible items?

In the USA psychologists are not licensed to do any kind of physical exam and would face lawsuits. Psychiatrists on the other hand are fully licensed doctors that can do hands on medical care as well as prescribe medications for psychiatric or physical medical problems.

@GregB in most jurisdictions they would be criminally responsible and subject to arrest, trial and all the rest. Make a good Law and Order episode

It's exactly the same in Australia, GregB (post #14 ). Understandably so! Still, l was close to a very wise man, psychologist and author Ron Conway, who had a weekly news commentary page in the Catholic newspaper The Advovate. If there is indeed such a thing as wisdom, then Ron had it. I already had an interest in Psychology. Once l met Ron, l looked no further.

- Ken

@Somebody glad I’m not alone with this slant on the theme. I’m not sure I totally understand what you mean about the therapist being supportive to unhealthy degree - do you mean in real life and they don’t challenge you enough? Or in fantasy scenario where they encourage you / help you act it out - which obvs wouldn’t happen in real life! I would love to know

@Turkey1 Yep, there’s something appealing to me about the therapist finding an effective route of questioning so my character /I have to reveal and admit to all the deepest darkest secrets. I‘ll check out your other postings 😏

@JJM

Interesting to hear your view. Yep, I imagine if not had good experiences with psychologists this would not be a fun idea.

I suppose I just like the idea of the danger and revealing because I probably wouldn’t go there on my own… It might also be because I’m kind of new to this side of things, so it’s a way to work out how/ why the hell I got this genre of fantasy.

But I’m sure theres a balance to find between talk and action.

@SpiritAndBody I did find a questionnaire online about origins of erotic fantasies - I’ll find the link. I suppose being asked about earliest fantasies - being made to describe them in detail and saying out loud how you felt could be fun/ interesting place to start … what do you think?

@Somebody glad I’m not alone with this slant on the theme. I’m not sure I totally understand what you mean about the therapist being supportive to unhealthy degree -

Well I just mean modern tolerant attitudes that don't jive with my beliefs, that's all. Hardly unusual to expect from a therapist that sees a wide variety of people with different viewpoints, it's just they seem far too eager to support certain things.

Love it. Being quizzed about my fantasies. Masturbation habits. Things that would make my face flush pink. Very hot. Great question too😃

TV here just showed a one-hour programme on ‘catfishing’ - the use of a false identity online to mislead others and to lead another party on, and to get an online relationship going (or multiple relationships), and for both parties in such an ongoing conversation to become deeply involved, despite one of the parties knowing that it may never become realised. For example, the catfisher may be female but pose as male, perhaps because she herself is lesbian, and the female she's deceiving may tell her many things, including intimate sexual ones. The possible permutations in catfishing seem endless.

In Australia there is no actual crime of catfishing that can be prosecuted - although there may be related ones like fraud or deception. Several experts in the studio audience felt that the law needs to sharpen its focus in this respect.

Hmm. No doubt there are catfisher-like identities /posers being used here on Zity! I've seen some admissions to that effect. Certainly none of us on Zity reveal our real-life identities here, and may pose as someone we're not, or hold back facts about ourselves, taking advantage of the anonymity of Zity. Any harm done?

Comments?

- Ken

Interesting idea. I'm admittedly not quite onboard with the exam thing, but then my medfet is simply a mask fetish. And it's not the wearing of masks that I like, so I would never, say, submit to a medfet fit-testing of masks.

Honestly, I think I divulge quite a bit on here, and in some sense it's exhilarating. But it would be interesting if I could just walk up to one of the cheerleaders at my local university at a game and start divulging my fetish, but my pragmatic mind knows that wouldn't go too well. I do give “likes” on their pics, though. Incredible competitive cheer team that has embraced masks as part of their uniform.

But it would be interesting if I could just walk up to one of the cheerleaders at my local university at a game and start divulging my fetish,

Not a good idea for most of us

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImIziJZKTVs

@JTMac Yep. Definitely a time and place for everything!

I've done this with a couple patients before, and the important part is to correctly assess boundaries at the start, and have honest communication/switch word while doing the interview as well.

@canadianMD sounds interesting- how did it go for you? Was it fun/ more edgy/ tense/ long winded etc…? Did it add to the overall event - did the patients enjoy it - and you?

@canadianMD sounds interesting- how did it go for you? Was it fun/ more edgy/ tense/ long winded etc…? Did it add to the overall event - did the patients enjoy it - and you?

It was fun and edgy, as much as can be over online, snapchat, etc. The patient was in an unfulfilling relationship, so I took a sexual history and gave her recommendations for a sexual plan. She's submissive and exhibitionist so all of these factors tied in nicely. We had fun for a month or so then lost contact.

@canadianMD that does sound like fun!

I understand some of the points, but just to reiterate, it seems like revealing a fantasy to your partner, would provide sufficient information to get the ball rolling… unless they’re completely turned off by it. What is the point of belaboring the what, when, how, where, why, and “ to whom it may concern,“of this process? Sometimes, less is more.