What to say and do to be taken seriously by my Enocrinologist?

I've been seeing an endocrinologist for a few years to deal with Low Testosterone. Because my wife and I wanted to keep trying to have another kid (my low T was part of the problem but she had hers too), she wouldn't give me testosterone shots. She gave me chlomid three times a week instead. It kept my T within normal range but on the low end of the normal range.

For a while when my wife was hurting too much with infertility she told me to get on the shots, which kills sperm, and my T got a little higher, but nothing crazy high within the normal range.

My endo is leaving her practice and starting her own and not taking insurance so she's ruled out. My PCP said that she can work with me, and if needed send me to an endo, but recommended me not to go to a place called Low T Center. So I'm looking to schedule some time with my PCP to talk about my Testosterone and I'll have to bring up my erections too. She knows I have ED due to taking Tadalafil for blood pressure and she prescribes me a daily dose of Cialis, but I want to change my goal from fertility to high Testosterone levels and better erections.

Feels awkward to talk to a female PCP about it but at the same time I feel I need to advocate for myself. Does anyone have any ideas on what to say and do to be taken seriously?

Have you seen a urologist about this??? I asked my PCP for a prescription due to tiredness and I want to jump-start my workouts, but she said insurance won't approve Testosterone unless your T is blow the minimum level. A urologist might (or might not) have more flexibility based on other issues (just guessing - I'm medically illiterate!)

I have heard the testosterone gel works better for low T but you will become infertile as well.

Getting an endocrinologist to take you seriously is extremely difficult. It took me like 6 years just to get clomid. Whatever you get prescribed though, keep taking the clomid, it's supposed to at least mitigate the nads-shrinking effect of taking testosterone.