Are enjoyable anal sex and anal fisting mutually exclusive?

Hi everyone,

this may seem like a dumb question, but I've been wondering about this a lot lately:

My girlfriend and I have enjoyed anal sex over the last few years. Now we've both decided that fisting is something we want to try. Of course, fisting means a lot of stretching and practice so that, eventually, she'll be able to loosen up enough to receive my hand.

I've been wondering though.. with her anus becoming more “loose” in general, will this decrease the pleasure she'll get from anal sex?

It would be great to hear from personal experience, but everyone is welcome to chip in 😃

Kind regards,

BringSomeWine

If you gradually stretch the muscles out you won't have any “loosening”. There are some folks on here who have done some incredible insertions without any damage or loss of muscle tension. Like a gymnast learning to do the splits — the muscles will stretch if you go slow. I doubt you would even notice less tightness during anal sex. ENJOY!!!!v😄

Thanks for the input, gwhap!

PS: Also thanks to whoever corrected my spelling in the subject. I noticed it afterwards but didn't figure out where to change it!

@gwhap @BringSomeWine who me?

Take it slowly, take your time. I can do 3.2 inch diameter, and when I'm not playing, my butthole is tight, even a coffee stir won't fit. 😊

Just take it slow and easy. Don't rush things. Think of it as stretching out before doing athletics. If you rush and tear something, you'll have problems. Let your body adapt to the new toys, and you'll be fine. I've been playing butt games for over 50 years – toys, fisting, – and everything still performs as advertised. Look on the bright side. The slower you go, the more time you'll have to enjoy the sensations.