Scoping out the waiting room

More than 40 years ago, I sat in a waiting room, dropped off by my parents, awaiting a physical for school sports participation (by a male doctor, unfortunately, and he was an asshole, but that's beside the point). This was 2-3 years before I learned of what a gyn exam consisted of, but I even then, as a 14-year-old, I suspected females were required to undress. I'll never forget the look of apprehension from a pair of ladies who appeared to be in their early 20s and there together. One was a striking brunette wearing jeans, the other a blonde in a dress, looking like she just got off from her office job. Being the horny young bastard I was (as opposed to the horny old bastard I am now), I wondered if they were about to get naked in the exam room and were nervous about it. I envied the doctor (they were all males at this family practice) who got to examine the dark-haired beauty. The blonde wasn't quite as attractive but I kept picturing her having to take her pantyhose off in the exam room. Pretty sure I rubbed out a few loads back in the day letting my imagination run wild over this scene.

Ever since that day, every time I'm in a doctor's office waiting room, I discretely check out the other women and fantasize about the more attractive ones, whether they'll need to disrobe completely and have their breasts and vaginas examined (Man, if I ever admitted this to anyone who doesn't have a med-fetish, they'd surely try to have me committed to a mental institution).

I've never accompanied a lady to her gynecological check-up. If I did, I'm not sure how I'd be able to hide the erection in my pants while sitting in the waiting room. It would be pup-tent city.

A friend, who I don't believe has a med-fetish, and he certainly is not aware of mine, once complained about taking his wife for her annual gynecological visit. He sat in the waiting room and said he couldn't understand the nasty looks he got from the women. He told his wife about this afterward and said she told him something to the effect of the women must have been embarrassed that a man was there and that he'd know they'd soon be naked and spread-eagled on an exam table while a strange man probed their vaginas and rectums. I burst out laughing. But it made sense.

Had a initial first visit to a new physician after my primary care provider became a specialist and ceased his primary practice. My new care giver was female and being a new patient was told a full work up would be conducted with me as such and it had been nearly a year since my last yearly exam with my aforementioned physician.

Upon entering the office door for my appointment I was rather taken aback when I immediately noticed only three other people to also be seen they all being females myself the only male present.

Once checked in I sat down in wait and could sense a bit of amazement and trepidation from the others seated with me as I gazed upon them across from me.

I recall thinking to myself that I am here to see a primary care provider and not a specified female physician such as a gynecologist.

After a few moments I observed a slight wry look and grin from two of the three across from me making me feel a bit uneasy with the proceedings of the moment. Upon the door I did notice that this was a two physician office and yes one was a gynecological specialist.

Turned out two of the three were there together and once one was called back they went together leaving only the other lady and myself waiting.

Soon a patient exited earlier unseen in the waiting room and I was summoned back for my appointment now feeling very apprehensive from the earlier encounter.

My exam was very through to say the least Inc. a genital and rectal with a nurse present acting as chaperone apparently. At the end of the genital portion I was told to turn around and lean over on table end with my feet spread and even after I offered I was willing to abstain from it she replied it was very important and needed at least once yearly.

Sudden loss of control encircled myself and a bit of emasculated nature ensued within me. I remember the practitioner once replacing a glove for the rectal having the nurse squeeze the lube onto her finger tips for use on and in me. Very humiliating.

A physical I`'ll never forget. Fretter.

I think that this must be a universal given, that is, scan the waiting room and, if possible, attempt to peak into an exam room. I am absolutely positive that we all do it, male or female, and also seek to overhear anything coming from the other side of the paper thin walls! For me it all adds up and is compounded by being undressed and sitting on the exam table.

On the other hand, I might reconsider sitting in the waiting area of a GYN doc's office in general. The exceptions might be due to a serious health issue or OB/GYN consult where it's supportive and important to attend.

I also think that going for a colonoscopy would allow for mixed sexes to sit in the waiting area; one because you will need to be screened or waiting for a partner or spouse. In the latter case, it's something that could add to one's fantasy life!

@cm110365 Being the horny young bastard I was (as opposed to the horny old bastard I am now)

You and me both - Thanks for making me laugh 😁

When I drive by hospitals and clinics I do wonder if someone is being opened right now by a speculum and think about how many different ones they have stored inside. I would feel bad to watch the waiting room cause I know most woman dread and hate the encounter with the gyn.

A doctor that I go to regularly for a back problem is next door to an obstetrician - gynecologist office. This is in a large medical building, and each entrance is a glass door. As I walk past that OB-GYN office, I sneak a quick glance to get an idea who is there waiting to be examined.

I would feel bad to watch the waiting room cause I know most woman dread and hate the encounter with the gyn.

But that's why it's thrilling to some degree, because the women might be apprehensive and dreading what is about to happen to them. This is why I enjoy the gyno-fetish videos where the lady appears embarrassed; some of the best I've seen are when she tries to cover her breasts and vagina while standing naked in front of the male doc. The humiliation aspect is quite a turn on.

I have a part time job that takes me into several doctor's waiting rooms and reception areas. One practice happens to be an ob/gyn clinic at a hospital. I love checking out the patients and layout in every waiting room that I walk into, especially at the gyn office. 100% of the time I get one of two reactions from the women in the gyn waiting room. Either they glare at me, wondering how I dare have the gall to be there. Or they look away and refuse to make eye contact with me, looking nervous or embarrassed to be there and have a male see them.

Given my age, I have been in doctors' waiting rooms for many years. I always look around and if I seem someone who catches my eye I try to smile. Sometimes my smile is returned; other times it is not. The reason I am in a particular waiting room is dependent on the nature of the medical practice, so women are not always there for a GYN exam and I am not usually picturing them on the exam table. I do, however, pay close attention to what the nurse says when they call someone back, and to patients when they return to the waiting room from the exam room. Both of those can tell you a lot of what will / did go on behind the closed doors.

Most of the people I see in the Doctors waiting areas are old, decrepit, shells of life that I want nothing to do with. So I don't fantasize - nor want to know - what goes on during their exams. Just hope they walk out rather than go out in a body bag!!!

I work in admin in a Doctor's Office (multi-specialty practice) with 5 different doctors, and I am behind the glass but I can see out from my office and I often wonder to myself what the patients will be getting and hoping it's some of the things I like myself. I admit I'm at the very least a “mental voyeur” and also I sometimes just have to help out and because everyone is so busy bring something into an exam room. Oooops!

Nope, never fantasized about anyone in a medical practice. Not medical or clerical staff, patients, doctors, nurses, or even the 4'10" cute blonde receptionist. Oh, wait, that's Melissa from Two and a Half Men series. Her I've fantasized about. 😍

Guess I'm too busy fuming because they want me there 15 minutes before my appointment, but don't kick things off until 15 minutes after the scheduled start time. Damn, I better not get me started.

Guess I'm too busy fuming because they want me there 15 minutes before my appointment, but don't kick things off until 15 minutes after the scheduled start time. Damn, I better not get me started.

Don't forget about the 15 to 30 minute wait in the room after you get settled in for your appointment.

Gwhap

Most of the people I see in the Doctors waiting areas are old, decrepit, shells of life that I want nothing to do with.”

I'm 75 and far from a shell of life. What are you going to do at 65? euthanasia?

I'm 75 and far from a shell of life. What are you going to do at 65? euthanasia?

@chamed I'm approaching mid-seventies and healthy and active. I live in a retirement area and see a lot of people on oxygen tanks, bent over on walkers etc. who are older than dirt. Euthanasia should be an option if one decides not to live that way! My comment was meant to convey that I'm not interested in why they - or anyone other than family - has to see a doctor.