Where does it stem from? - Anal Play

Excellent thread and very interesting reading all the different perspectives of those who shared their views.

Personally I do not have a definite answer but would like to share something not sexual in nature. When I was a kid my dad liked listening to records of classical music that back then I found boring. However there wasa notable exception: every time he played some music of Bach I immediately loved it. There’s no explanation I can give. My feeling was that that music somehow chose me, rather than the other way around.

Coming to anal sex, something similar could be happening. It is nothing that we choose to love, it just happens.

Bach was a very religious man so he would probably disapprove the comparison, but in a way I like putting his music and my being anal erotic together, as both have provided me with lots of fantastic moments in my life.

@ enemaRoma -- on the religion and Bach question, my best guess is that God finds issue with a whole lot less than some religious folks do. After all, God created both you and your sexuality. I think there may be some folks very surprised to find God's list of offensive things is quite different than their own. Beyond that observation I appreciate your answer very much. There need not be any specific "cause" for that which speaks to our spirits. It is enough to know that it does.

I've posted before concerning orgasmic sensations that originated in my anal area as a young boy. I was having these dry orgasms from the age of 5 or 6. Enemas and the insertion of the nozzle stimulated this even though I disliked getting an enema or RT from mom or grandma. Erections were occurring quite often, but I was too naive to associate them with a sexual response. It wasn't until my first real ejaculation around age 9 that I learned about sexuality. I began inserting the enema and douche nozzles very young. They felt great, especially when I was self administering enemas. Once I understood the ejaculation aspect, I was hooked and explored to discover what was occurring.

As I grew, I was able to trace all of those wonderful sensations from the tip of my penis, all the way down the shaft and into my anus, and ultimately to my prostate. I was amazed that the connection was so much more than the length of my penis. From the base and perineum to the prostate, the stimulation was often more pronounced than penile stimulation. The fact that those numerous enemas and RT's enlightened me, I can associate my anal enjoyment clear back to childhood. While I may have had some feelings of guilt in those early anal activities, I certainly overcame them as I engaged in what would be considered as "normal" sexuality. The anal aspect is merely another area that enhances those wonderful "normal" responses. It's too bad that some view that as abnormal, deviant, or perverted.

I was a soph in college, had the cutest little boyfriend, when one night he asked me if he could stick his finger up my ass.. I said yes, grease up and be gentle. He was. Damn.

I think mine started from the time I used to get heavily constipated or impacted as a child. To try to prevent it happening I was subjected to what were called 'load checks', my tummy would be pushed and felt for tell tale signs of poo inside me and it would always be followed by a Vaseline greased up finger being inserted deep inside me and moved around for a check that seemed to go on forever. I'd be over my parents lap in the diaper change position squirming & kicking around and no doubt crying and it could and would happen at any time out of the blue. I hated these checks when a youngster but now I find them so erotic to play over in my mind. That is undoubtably where my anal play stems from.

I never knew that assholes, and rectums, could be used for pleasurable sex. However, more and more pornographic stories, and videos, showed men and women " enjoying " anal sex. About 2 years ago, I discovered that my rectum could be cleaned with an enema. Experimenting during a shower, I found that I could clean the first 2 inches of my asshole, using soap, water, and my fingers. My fingers smelled clean, and tasted clean, so I bought a dildo, and anal syringe.The syringe cleaned my rectum, and inserting the dildo for 6 inches, came out smelling and looking clean. At the same time, the dildo felt very nice stroking it in my ass for its full length! Since I could clean my ass to my satisfaction, and take a 7 inch dildo with pleasure, I am now ready to lose my anal virginity. Wow!!!

My neighbor, an 11 years old girl, who liked to let me see her butt, unexpectedly, one day asked me to put a small pen (I still remember: it was a red pen) inside her butt-hole. For some years we kept having fun with her butt

@Tillie you remind me my neighbor C....a !!! 😃 what a nice memories !!!!!

Well lubricated rectal thermometers inserted by mom as a child and enemas given first by bulb syringe with soapy water filled and emptied several times later with a Higgenson syringe and finally a fountain syringe. I didn't like the potato starch enemas which I was not allowed to expel but the short children's nozzle entering my anus felt good and the warm thick enema flowing through my anus as mom squeezed the bulb syringe started to give me erections even as I felt violated as. I hated not being allowed to expel the starch enemas.

I didn't like the potato starch enemas which I was not allowed to expel

What were potato starch enemas intended for? I've never heard of this. I would think they would cause constipation, but surely that can't be the reason for giving them?

They were given to cure diarrhea caused by too many antibiotics.

For me,, probably a result of way to many suppositories for all the time I was sick plus rectal temperature taking was the norm in the 60’s

So I’ll guess that is what caused mine