Where does it stem from? - Anal Play

For those of you like me, who have always had that urge to play with your butt where do you think it stems from? As I've grown up and had more experience I've become extremely comfortable with this…asspect of myself and that its always going to be a part of my sexual experience. I just often wonder why me? And why this? Where did it come from? Is it the same concept as some people like pie and others cake?

I can't point to any childhood traumas or anything, just that I was fascinated with that hole back there and it grew into a fetish / lifestyle naturally.

Whats your story? Any insight as why you became an anal enthusiast?

From Wiki

The anal stage is the second stage in Sigmund Freud's theory of psychosexual development, taking place approximately between the ages 18 months and three years. According to Freud, the anus is the primary erogenous zone and pleasure is derived from controlling bladder and bowel movement. The major conflict issue during this stage is toilet training. A fixation at this stage can result in a personality that is too rigid or one that is too disordered.[1]. To Freud, the libido was the driving force behind all of human behavior.[1]

In order to obtain a healthy personality later on in adulthood all of these stages need to be resolved successfully. If issues are not resolved in a stage, then fixation will occur, resulting in an unhealthy personality.

If you take Freud seriously, then I guess you'd have to decide whether an anal fixation is “unhealthy” or not.

Evacuation of waste matter has to have some sort of pleasurable aspect to it, otherwise living beings, like humans, would avoid it as much as possible to the detriment of their health.

So there must be some sort of physical imperative to finding anal activity gratifying.

Some keep the imperative and move on to active stimulation. Others are, by training as infants, taught to find anal activity unhygienic and therefore think it unpleasant and unwarranted.

For me it was childhood rectal temps at home and in hospital plus suppositories and enemas on top. Once mother started using soap sticks, i was hooked.

When I was in the hospital ER getting my rectal temp taken. Age 4

I was quite an ill baby in and out of Hospital. When I was 3 years old I had ruptured appendicitis and was rushed into hospital for an emergency operation and spent 4 weeks in Hospital. I remember having many tubes inserted into my body to remove the infectious pus.

This was in 1956 when an enema was routinely performed if you had not had a bowel movement each day. I remember a very nice nurse would tend to me and was very gentle and caring. She would mix up the enema solution making sure the temperature was right. In those days the enema kit consisted of a tube with a funnel attached to one end and a jug containing the liquid.

My bed mattress was covered by a thin rubber sheet that smelt of fresh rubber and I was placed face down on the sheet with my bottom slightly raised on a cushion. I remember the amazing rubbery smell of the sheet which remains with me to this day. My favourite nurse greased my anus and slowly insert the free end of the pipe, I was never aware of any pain or discomfort. Her college would hold the funnel up as my nurse started to pour the liquid into the funnel. She was constantly reassuring me that I was doing well and would rest the flow to prevent cramping. Her hand would caress my buttocks during the rest phase.

When the full jug had been emptied she would rest then lift me up and sit me on a commode and let me empty my bowels. I enjoyed the whole procedure especially when my favourite nurse was on duty.

To this day I enjoy any types of anal play.

For me, enemas brought the awareness of good feelings from anal stimulation from fingers lubing the rectum prior to Enema's, rectal thermometers. As got older started inserting household objects into my butt. I was sexually seduced at seventeen and liked it.

My preference nowadays is a female partner with a strapon who gives enemas.

Receiving rectal thermometers at clinics as an infant, toddler and young boy has got to be what turned that switch on for me. Those early years are when we most easily imprint upon things done to us. I clearly remember becoming hyper aware each time a thermometer was inserted into my bottom.

Side note: (The anus is the first thing to develop on a human embryo). Maybe that has something to do with it too?

For me it was the frequent constipation growing up as a kid… Can't tell you the number of times I would get either a suppository or a fleet enema! Not to mention the bare ass spankings as a kid for misbehaving!

Before one's body is sexually developed, the exquisite feeling of the thermometer, nozzle, finger or suppository entering one's rectum becomes the first indelible erotic experience.

And if one is forced to give up modesty and take the rectal insertion, it unleashes submissive sexual feelings.

I only wish I knew the real elusive reason.Foe me it all dates back to rectal temps and expands from there.

I know this sounds odd but getting into my feelings on this? Someone being a very enthusiastic participant of them playing with me back there says and allows me to play with them in the same manner say …"I love you. I understand your needs. I am nurturing and care giving. I am not selfish. I want to share with you. I understand what makes you tick. I want to give. I get pleasure from giving. I feel a connection with you and be playful. I want you to have the best experience. And many more things. I enjoy being dominan and submissive." and many more things.

Maybe it's an overly simplistic explanation, but it just feels damn good. Millions of nerve endings in the anus and rectum, not to mention the prostate gland. What's not to love?

I don't have any great insights, either, but my fascination with my anus and the good feelings that stimulating it created about go back to early childhood. From maybe age 6 or so, I experimented with inserting various objects around the house. I was a few years older before I stood up on the bathroom counter to have a good look at my butthole in the mirror.

I've experimented more as an adult, and have landed on butt plugs as perhaps the most pleasurable sensation related to anal play. The sensation of being my ass stretched full never gets old (and neither do spankings).

I dont know, i remember from first discovering how to masturbate, I have played with or put things in my anus, i have always just loved it. I have mostly settled on butt plugs now as my main form of anal stim, but i am open to anything really.

I never gave it much thought. I just remember that when I reached puberty, at around 11, I started to have a fascination with girls butts, which continues to this day. Then as I got older, I became more precocious, and found myself fingering their anus, as things heated up. Interestingly, I lost my virginity to a girlfriend who wanted anal. Some guys are are fixated on legs, boobs, or vaginas. I’m a diehard ass lover.

I never gave it much thought. I just remember that when I reached puberty, at around 11, I started to have a fascination with girls butts, which continues to this day. Then as I got older, I became more precocious, and found myself fingering their anus, as things heated up. Interestingly, I lost my virginity to a girlfriend who wanted anal. Some guys are are fixated on legs, boobs, or vaginas. I’m a diehard ass lover.

Agree. Some of us are just wired like that.

I only have very vague memories of having my temperature taken rectally by my mother as a small child. But my mother had two booklets about baby care that I used to refer to from a young age. Inside were two photos of a child being measured for temperature. The child lay on its back, the mother lifted its little legs and in her other hand held the thermometer that was inserted into the child's anus. It was these images that fascinated me the most. When I was maybe 10 or 11 years old, I tried to act out this scene with a plastic stick, at first only hinted at and without taking my pants off, then at some point when I was home alone, on my bare bottom. I still remember how strange that felt, but the stimulus was very intense and beautiful. I mean didn't actually insert the plastic part, just touched it on the outside. Then I dared the first attempt with the right clinical thermometer and inserted its tip. It was a sensation that hasn't let go of me to this day. When I was 13, I had my first orgasm while taking my temperature. For me, my anus is my most important sexual organ next to my penis, and I was able to try out a lot more with my future girlfriend - now wife - from licking the anus to fingering to anal intercourse. However, temperature measurement is still my most important passion and always will be.

My mother would give me enemas to make me go in the toilet instead of having an accident after I was out of diapers. It would either be proactive or as punishment. At the time I dreaded them and I would put up a fight squirming about when over her knee. Before I found touching my cock felt good, I had soaped up a finger, then fingers and explored my ass in the shower. Then it was shampoo and conditioner bottles and from there I was off to the races.

I'd have to say it was all the RTs, enemas, and suppositories I got when little, a few I still remember.

I think maybe it is genetic. I never had enemas or suppositories growing up. I don’t remember having any rectal temperatures growing up. It just know as a kid that it felt good to rub my butt hole. As a teenager, it felt good to stick the eraser end of pencil in there.

I remember RT and enemas as a kid, I believe that started it. I began using my fingers as I got a little older, then around 12 a neighbor kid about two years older showed me how to masturbate then use “toys” (things from around the house) to make it feel better. From there the facination, the desire, the pleasure for anal stimulation and attention just grew.

For me my interest with anal play was baked in. No experience in my family of rectal thermometers or enemas, it was totally a journey of self discovery. I just enjoyed the sensation of rubbing my anus, like when I was tree climbing, straddling a branch with a knot in it that pressed up into my butt and rocking back and forth, Then I connected with a couple of neighbor boys who had a kind of doctor game going. Together we would find some hiding place, we'd pull our pants down and play a bit with each others genitals, but what we really engaged in was anal play. I still recall the furtiveness and can almost smell the mustiness of those encounters. Laying on my stomach, reaching back and pulling my cheeks apart, unsure what my playmates were going to do, was as intense as any later sexual experience. Shortly afterwards I developed the ability to have erections, discovered orgasms, and my hetro side kicked in. But I think of those drives as layering over my anal play fetish. Where did it come from? All I can say is it seemed to be there right from the start.

I've been playing with myself as long as I've taken baths and showers. It just feels good and when something feels good, most people do it more often.

I have often wondered this myself, honestly. I cannot think of anything that would have ‘caused’ it. It has just something that has interested me since I started exploring my body.

Anus is an erogen area, well innerved, and “dirty” considered.. I think it's a psychologic problem..

I think for myself it's always been there. I can remember getting my temperature taken rectally when maybe I was five or so and it making me get hard. I was too young to understand what was happening but I can remember the thermometer going in and it feeling good. To maybe around nine or ten wanting to know what my butthole looked like and pestering my mom about it, she finally got tired of my pestering and went and got a small mirror and told me to take my pants off and lay on the floor, she propped the mirror up against the couch and told me to pull my legs up to my chest, l can remember laying there looking at myself while she went about whatever she was doing.

By the time I started masturbating and playing with my asshole to finding objects to do myself up the butt with while I masturbated I think this is always been there, l didn't learn it anywhere, maybe how to do it I learned, but not the desire and the feeling good part, it's always been there, l still like yet to this day it just feels good.

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A childhood friend is responsible for my rectal temp Fetish. I have come to that conclusion because it was her that always played doctor with me and most of it was her idea

Never had enemas or temperature taken rectally as a child. But was introduced to anal sex around 12 or 13 by a schoolmate and have been hooked ever since on inserting things! Then discovered the pleasure to be experienced by prostate and anal orgasms which kicked things up to the next level!

Well physiologically, I think everyone is wired to feel anal pleasure. The nerve endings in our rectums and sphincters are in such close proximity to the sex organs it easy to see when this area is stimulated without causing pain it can be sexually pleasurable. That said everybody is not anal erotic. I would speculate that often at an early age or at any age, if someone felt pleasure with anal stimulation, it leaves a strong impression psychologically. And maybe this is where the rubber hits the road- at some point being anally stimulated and feeling pleasure causes the person to come back for more.

The bottom line is…if you haven't tried it then do so preferably after learning about how to do it to yourself or with someone who has experience in giving anal pleasure. You'll be glad you did.