Just a Small Dose of Reality

Hello everyone,

I haven't been here for awhile- very busy this time of year- I just wanted to say that I,(and I'm sure many others), have noticed a preponderence of males looking for female partners. I just feel inclined to mention that enema interest is mainly on the male side of the pole, chiefly because of the prostate stimulation connection involved. I'm not saying it's impossible to find a female enema partner, but it's a fact that since the balance is so out of whack between the sexes, if you really want to give, or be given enemas by/for another on any kind of regular basis, you may need to consider a male 'Doctor'/'Patient' situation as I have done. Until the right woman comes along, it'll do. Thanks.

I do not agree with the statement :

chiefly because of the prostate stimulation connection involved.

I would say there are as many females interested in enemas as they where exposed to the experience in their early ages. But it is for a female much more dificult to admit to her habit than for a male. Males brag about their conquests. Females make much more seldom conquests they have a lover, at the same time they would much easier admit to have had intercourse than they had an enema. Its just not done, because with a male one had intercourse but not an enema, perhabs with a nother female one had enema play, since it would not be possible to have intercourse with her.

If you read the posts very carefully, you will find there are a lot more women out there than you think. Many of them just don't identify their gender on this forum. All you have to do is look whenever a woman does post you will find all kinds of propositions addressed to them. It is true here and on other forums. 😶

I am female and find that most women enjoy giving themselves pleasure in a sensual way with enemas. They will join with a male partner if there is a bonding relationship between them. I believe most women are flirts and will engulf in erotic conversations with men. But very few will ever meet them or go through with fantasy they discuss. Just my thoughts. 😘

I've found it awkward getting "on topic" with females regarding administration and/or receipt of enemas. Many think I'm perverted. Interestingly, (while this may be a coincidence) I've found that better educated females are much more receptive to the topic.

That is true most women find eroticism or fetishes quite interesting when it comes to males. We like to listen 😉 and think about the power we could have over this powerful man. Especially men in powerful positions fascinate me with their willingness to give up control I think a woman will discuss any fantasy as long as its in a intellegent and not in a way to gross her out..

Another aspect which men might not consider is women are much more cautious about meeting up with the "wrong" person. It can be a risky adventure for a woman to meet up with a strange man whose intentions might not be what he's claimed them to be on-line . . . unless, of course, a man meets up with a Jeffrey Dahmer type . . .yikes!! 😮

I have found on other forums that the "women" are sometimes transvestite men. For me it would help having a man dressed as a woman if a woman was not available rather than a doctor-patient thing. If you were not intimidated by having the same "operating system" as your partner, it could be fun for both.

I have found on other forums that the "women" are sometimes transvestite men. For me it would help having a man dressed as a woman if a woman was not available rather than a doctor-patient thing. If you were not intimidated by having the same "operating system" as your partner, it could be fun for both.

you are correct..I find that enemas cross the gender line, and that emates of the same gender can enjoy them and share in the pleasures, just as they can with someone of the oposite gender....

I believe that finding someone you can truly trust is most important. I think that the enema is so private you must have the trust. Gender plays a little role in it.

I've played with more men than women as it seems that guys are more open with it.

So if I'm going to expose my most private parts and secret desires you gotta have the freedom and trust gives you that freedom. A good non judgemental person is best. Yes, my fantasies are with women, I've just had a difficult time finding gals that are intersted, it's in my mind all about the "enema".

Simon

Well as a man that does not and never has had a prostate I very much enjoy enemas. So the idea that men enjoy them because they have a prostate is simply not true in my case.

Since all my "equipment" from birth would be classified as "female" and i enjoy enemas i don't really see why other people with "female" anatomy would not enjoy it as much as i do.

cheers,

Benjamin

ps i no longer have any female parts so don't ask me about them!!

It does seem there are more males than females that enjoy enemas but (no pun intended) we do exist even if in small numbers. Some females are just as interested as the males in finding a compatible enema partner. Are the parameters for finding a match any different for a female than a male? There are several criteria involved, location, trust, give/receive/both, dom, sub, looks, age. Everyone has their preferences and something has to click.

To everyone in group seeking that compatible match, I hope it happens. If wishes were horses, we'd all take a ride. Sigh...

Chalet

It does seem there are more males than females that enjoy enemas but (no pun intended) we do exist even if in small numbers. Some females are just as interested as the males in finding a compatible enema partner. Are the parameters for finding a match any different for a female than a male? There are several criteria involved, location, trust, give/receive/both, dom, sub, looks, age. Everyone has their preferences and something has to click.

To everyone in group seeking that compatible match, I hope it happens. If wishes were horses, we'd all take a ride. Sigh...

Chalet

You make great points...From my association with several enema chatrooms, I've found that more women are "looking" than we men might think. The main problem with guys is they have difficulty understanding the fact that enemas do not equal sex. Most of the women, if not all of them can get 'screwed" by either their hubbies or b/f's right at home. It's ENEMAS they want. Most guys don't understand this.

One of the first things I do when I chat with a gal, is let her understand that I do not want to screw her. I want to give her enemas and have her give them to me. Other sex, except mutual masturbation, is not needed. That takes understanding and TRUST. TRUST is the one thing that even a lot of loving couples do not have. The trust in your significant other to be open about your needs. That is so important when "hooking up" with someone you've met online. Make it perfectly clear you do not want "SEX" just enemas. If they don't respond to that, look somewhere else.

I'm widowed, my wife loved enemas, and I do miss that. I've met many emates since I got on the internet, and have yet to have "screwed" any. I don't want SEX either. I want to give and receive sensual, erotic, arousing ENEMAS.

If you agree and want to chat just private message me and we'll chat.

Michael2

Michael2,

Appreciate your comments. There are so many "ass"pects involved when trying to make a match with an enema partner.

Quite frankly, I get screwed enough at work, so it sure would be nice to find a compatible enema partner that wants engage in enema play.

Chalet 😘

Hello Michael you sound very sincere. We wouldnt be on this site if we didnt share a common affection for enemas. As a woman, even though I m Bi, it doesnt mean we have to correspond to get laid. I can get that anytime. I can't get sincere conversations about the subject we adore. Once you guys stop trying to screw us and get into our heads about enemas a bond will be formed believe me.I couldn't sit in a club at the bar and talk like this to the guy buying me a drink. That is why we post on this board. So instead of asking us about do we masturbate, do we do this, or that get to the reason we are here, our affection for enemas. Then you can progress to other areas nice and easy.

Well said, Ginnie! I'd bet a chat with you would be awesome! Would be great fun to

discuss enemas! Have a great day!

Ginnie, I love your comments. I've met some very nice people here, and of course the common bond is our "affection for enemas" as you so aptly stated it.

My husband and I have a great sex life. We do not share enemas, nor do I really feel comfortable broaching him about them. I think my "small dose of reality" is that while I enjoy them myself occasionally, they're more in the realm of fantasy for me, and probably not something I will ever share with another person in practice. So being a small part of these discussion boards provides me with something I don't share with anyone else.

Now if hubby would ever approach ME 😮, I think I'd joyfully go "bottom's up!" in a hurry! 😉

Ginnie, You are 100% right. I am here to talk about my love of enemas. An I am not afraid to say it. Afew days ago, I as in a GNC health food store, buying Dr Bonners pepermint soap, and asked the clerk (a young man)if they had the type of coffee used for enemas. He looked at me and said "for what", and I said for "ENEMAS", and then he said no that he was sure they didn't sell anything like that. I use enemas for medical reasons, but I also love receiving a large volume enema, just for the pleasure it gives. So this way I get to have more enemas, than less. Thank-you Jim

When a guy puts an ad online for a female e-mate,does he just want an enema partner or a long term relationship.From my many experiances with relationships and enemas,most woman I have dated want an honest guy to be with and are willing to please him if the relationship becomes intimate.Woman don't like being used just for the pleasure of the man.However,just because a female is a great enema partner,it does'nt mean that she is good person to live with.That's why I believe the relationship should come first then the enemas can follow.

@Michael2, I appreciate your passing on experience re several chat rooms. I'm relatively new here, and haven't tried that many other sites. I would like to hear how you found these others sites, or perhaps even their URLs. Thanks.