Do You Find Expelling To be A Turn on?

I think much of the sexual pleasure from enemas are either from the thought of or the actual voiding. The urge and relief to be clean.

Many here won't admit to that as they see it as dirty. While I reject scat in any form the feeling of expelling, emptying, myself or watching a partner is exciting and is an important part of the enema experience.

I respect that some prefer to do it in private and that's ok. It is still the same intense experience for you.

I like if my partner is in the room with me and I with her. There is no reason to cease sexual activities. To give your partner oral while she relives herself will make it easier for her and more pleasurable. And for me to get oral while she is expelling or I am is an ultimate turn on….

@eeetime I think much of the sexual pleasure from enemas are either from the thought of or the actual voiding. The urge and relief to be clean.

Many here won't admit to that as they see it as dirty. While I reject scat in any form the feeling of expelling, emptying, myself or watching a partner is exciting and is an important part of the enema experience.

I totally agree with what you said above. But where we differ is that I'm not into doing anything sexual with/to my partner during enema activity.

@eeetime I think much of the sexual pleasure from enemas are either from the thought of or the actual voiding. The urge and relief to be clean.

Many here won't admit to that as they see it as dirty. While I reject scat in any form the feeling of expelling, emptying, myself or watching a partner is exciting and is an important part of the enema experience.

I totally agree with what you said above. But where we differ is that I'm not into doing anything sexual with/to my partner during enema activity.

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Interesting the differences we have.

@reddevil we are all different - that's what makes it fun…

Do You Find Expelling To be A Turn on?

Not most of the time. The smell, sometimes the sound(s) does not excite me.

The giving…now that is a different story.

I for one get turned on by the filling and the expelling no matter what. You cant really have one without the other.

I have always loved enemas, especially when a large, long-retention enema is given to me by my switch Domme partner treating me like her sub as she “forces” an enema into me. Expelling is necessary and relatively pleasant as long as I don’t get a lot of cramping during the release. I’ve never given or received oral or any other sex from my partner as one of us is expelling, but I’d like to and think it would be very erotic. One question: if I read this right, some female members posted that they’d like to have oral sex during their expulsion, which I’d be delighted to do, but how do you give oral sex to a woman sitting on a commode seat? Breast licking would be great too, and easily done as she expels, but wouldn’t it be hard to put your mouth anywhere near her vulva as she’s sitting in the hole/indentation on the commode seat?

Now I do it infrequently, but really enjoy masturbating myself after a large filling and long retention while expelling on the commode. The simultaneous feelings of expulsion and orgasm with spurting out the front and back at the same time is a wonderful sensation. I would like to have my partner do it or oral sex on the commode but haven’t done it yet.

Eric

I like listening to the sounds of my handiwork being released. It says it's a job well done!.

One question: if I read this right, some female members posted that they’d like to have oral sex during their expulsion, which I’d be delighted to do, but how do you give oral sex to a woman sitting on a commode seat?

I don't think you give it. I think you receive it!

I and my spouse keep expelling strictly a private affair. Neither of us find it to be a turn on!! Yuck!! Denise

I agree with Moppy.

I like expulsions personally and enjoy watching videos of women expelling, Just fairly clean ones,

Not really. Once the need to go overides the ability to retain, the rest is purely an automatic process and my mind is just focused at the task of elimination without straining.

Maybe not a “turn on” but can be a pleasurable sensation especially when constipated as a large expulsion puts pressure on the prostate.

I personally find it exciting and extremely intimate for me and my play partner to remain in the room during expulsion. It's a process we often hide from each other, so at times ignoring that barrier is nice. Understand it isn't for everyone, and sometimes not even for me, but in the right mood I've found it to be nice. I've given oral to a partner while expelling, and found it to be enjoyable.

I don’t but expelling is part of the process. Just not a turn for me but don’t find it repulsive either.

Not at all! In fact the expulsion is something I treat as a necessary part of the process, but not something that I can LIKE.

At most it's relief, and an indicator of success or lack thereof.

The session is not over until I am all the way through expulsion and I stand up and see no food scraps, just this slimy, yellow-like-pee liquid.

@Moppys_jalopy I like listening to the sounds of my handiwork being released. It says it's a job well done!.

……. but how do you give oral sex to a woman sitting on a commode seat?

I don't think you give it. I think you receive it!

Oh yes - listening to one's handy work is a turn on for me too! Now I understand the oral sex question.. thanks!

@ginnie Expelling is natural - it is people that add in the ikk factor. For some it can be a bonding, loving experience. A sexual release, and gratification. Some like the control and embarrassment factor. And yes for some it is just a big turn on…

No….and yes. For a long time I didn't and was uncomfortable with anyone around. Then one of my Doms came in during my expel and presented me with one of her nipples to suck on while expelling. It had an immediate effect…on both of us. Since them, if it happens then yes, I like that part and it's a fantastic turn on….

I don't and I'm not into scat, but did ask a partner ages ago to sit away from me, slightly raised, on a chamber pot and expel, which he was happy to do. I think to see him releasing liquid and solids, and his arse lips pursed while expelling and straining to get rid of as much as he could each time he felt the need to expel, was an enjoyable and very intimate thing for me. Unfortunately, he did not ask me to do the same for him, but I still had a pleasurable time.

Bathroom privacy is not a great option as we have only one bathroom (no outhouse as of yet…it is on my wish list). Sometimes one has to use the toilet when one is the bathroom. As we are intimate with each other and been together for over 35 years, we have seen and heard most all of it from the other.

Not into scat here, so the expelling is not a turn on for me. I do find that when I am releasing a large volume high enema that I sometimes experience quite a rush and this can be enjoyable and satisfying.

@drfistherass I for one get turned on by the filling and the expelling no matter what. You cant really have one without the other.

Anyone remember the song “Love and Marriage” - it has the line in it that says “you can't have one without the other”. Well I hear “filling and expelling” playing in my noggin to that tune 😄

The entire process of a relaxing and stimulating enema session, either administering or receiving, turns me on. And expelling is just one part of it. Many years ago a former girlfriend and I began incorporating enemas into our sex play. We both initially required privacy for expelling. After awhile, privacy was required only after the first soapy fill. We became comfortable releasing rinse enemas in front of each other, allowing us to continue a mutual erotic response nonstop. And then later on, we would both stay in the bathroom for the entire session and even comment on the sounds and feelings of a good release. Neither one of us were into scat play; we had plenty of candles and air freshener and flushed frequently of course!

My late wife never had a problem staying in the bathroom while I expelled. Bowel movements were always matter-of-fact to her. She did not find enemas to be an enjoyable, erotic activity but knew that I did and was quite accommodating. She always made sure my returns were near-clear before a session was over, usually requiring a second rinse along with releasing my sexual tensions.

Absolutely yes I do especially if it’s either clear or has a lot of poop in it so you can see it coming out. plain brown water is ok but to see actual pieces come out is a instant hard on for me.

I had to seriously think about this. Is the reason that I so much enjoy taking the enema because I know that I'm eventually going to have to expel it all? I happen to enjoy both experiences in their own right and while I'm expelling have often viewed the now flattened enema bag hanging from the towel bar, the last drops of liquid clinging to the nozzle. Just as I might get deep into those thoughts another wave might hit me and whether or not you have good muscle tone it is no match for the quantity of warm soapy water plus the effects of gravity. So with those thoughts, I conclude that I like taking an enema but simply adore the results it produces. And, yes, I do feel marvelous afterwards.

It is not really my thing. I do get watched sometimes when I expel, which can be embarrassing. But I don't like to watch others.

I think that the intensity of expelling is erotic in the abstract, and it certainly feels good to release all that pressure, but I don't find the physical sensation of expelling erotically stimulating. Maybe it's because I'm still a novice and become concerned about making sure everything is out, conscious of how my enema nurse is waiting patiently in the other room.

The times that I've administered an enema on someone else, I haven't had the opportunity to observe or attend to them. My patients have always wanted their privacy, which I respect. I do think that it could be hot to be there “observing," not because the sound or smells are attractive but because it would be so humiliating to be watched in that moment.

Its honestly my favourite part. one of my favourite moments of my sexual life was expelling into a bedpan while the nurse held me and stroked my hair

@Emom I had to seriously think about this. Is the reason that I so much enjoy taking the enema because I know that I'm eventually going to have to expel it all?

You got me thinking about what you said, and it is the same for me. The better the expulsions, the better I find the enema.