Female Spouse at your yearly physical

Question for the men. Have any of you had your spouse attend your physical exam? Does she wait in the waiting room or go into the exam room with you? If she goes into exam room…does she stay for the entire exam? Watch you undress? see you receive a testicular or rectal exam?

My wife has not attended any of my regular physical exams. However, five years ago after my prostate cancer diagnosis, I had an appointment with the radiation oncologist, which my wife attended. He did a rectal exam on me. This was absolutely no big deal for either my wife or me, since my wife had herself done rectal exams on me any number of times.

During that time period, she also attended any number of urologic procedures I had, including insertion and removal of catheters, several times. She also helped me maintain the catheter at home for the 37 days that I had it. She became almost an amateur urologic nurse.

My wife, who is a Registered Nurse, also attended some of my appointments with my urologist and radiation oncologist when I was diagnosed with prostate cancer a few years ago. She “saw it all” including digital rectal exams and what not. NO BIG DEAL for either of us.

I don’t think I’d want my wife to attend an exam.

Here's another reply about having your spouse present.

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I've never had this happen in real life. But in my fantasies, of course. It reminds me of a story that I wrote and posted here several years ago:

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=docs;ox=showitem;id=9245

We go together - so my gal is with me. She takes great notes and carries our list of questions; so we are sure they get asked and answered.

That is exactly what we do devil. my wife always comes in with me and takes notes and asks questions that I dont think of.

She does not get off on exams, so it doesnt do anything for her. unlike myself, i think watching an exam on her is the hottest show ever!

I have learned that having my spouse sit in on my doctor appointments is beneficial. She reminds me of issues if I forget to bring them up myself but her primary job is to watch and listen carefully to what the doctor says and does. Doctors are more attentive if I have an advocate in the room during the exam.

My spouse never accompanies me to an exam. I print out a list of concerns I have (if any) and give that to the doctor so we don't forget anything. Everything that comes out of the exam to address my concerns and anything else that comes up is included in the doctors notes which I have access to on-line within a day of the exam. My doc is totally attentive to any issues I have and thoroughly discusses and documents them. I attend my wife's exams's with a similar list of printed out concerns because she has a brain injury and doesn't comprehend what's going on.

Never gonna happen. She is so full of inaccurate opinions about me that the doctor doesn't need to hear. After having the same male doctor for about 40 years I now have had a female doctor for nearly 10 years. I feel very comfortable with her and am comfortable telling her anything she wants to know about me including the fact that my wife doesn't seem to like sex so most of my sex life has been with Merry Palm and her five sisters.

Mine sat in once for a full exam of me by her g.p. also female. Also sat in at a urgent care once where I was given injects in both buttocks for multiple bee stings. If interested in details respond. Fretter.

Mine never accompanied me to one of my annual physical examinations. However, there was one occasion when I became sick on our way to the airport for trip. She called our primary care doctor's office and he told her to take me to Emergency Room. She was present when I undressed and got into gown, for the nurse's blood work, and when the ER doc did a complete exam, though she did not accompany me for a head CT, which showed a raging sinus infection. He gave me a prescription, I dressed and we left. No big deal.

Mine doesn't go with me because I am afraid she might recommend Euthanasia.

My wife would like to go with me to my yearly physical exam but schedules haven't worked out. If she was there she'd be there for when I undress and the entire exam.

Moppys Jalopy, I think you don’t let your wife go to exam because she might recommend to the doctor that you need an enema and the doctor might agree.

I’m hard of hearing, almost deaf. She is always present.

Moppys Jalopy, I think you don’t let your wife go to exam because she might recommend to the doctor that you need an enema and the doctor might agree.

I wouldn't disagree with that!

My doctor now doesn't even do exams. He's a young guy and relies on bloodwork. I've been going to him for 2 years and have yet to even take off my shirt so an enema would be way out in left field!

Moppys Jalopy, I agree that doctors don’t do exams. I have rectal cancer and I have had only two rectal exams. it is mostly blood work and scans. I think doctors have lost their assessment skills. Hands on doctors are starting to become rare.

My wife has never attended any of my annual physicals. While the thought of her being there and observing me receive a genital and prostate exam is embarrassing and exciting, I don't think I actually want her there in real life. However, I also don't think I'd tell her no if she ever asked to go. After all, it does have potential to be very hot!

She has however witnessed a urologist give me a surprise genital exam lying on the table. She was standing by my hospital bed holding my hand when I was first catheterized by a nurse after my emergency appendectomy. A few days later she helped roll me on to my side and watched a different nurse insert a suppository. She has also on several occasions accompanied me to various other doctor appointments and procedures when I've been ill or injured. Those were out of curiosity, to keep me honest, to help me, and/or to help me remember what is being discussed in the various situations. Those were usually appreciated and necessary.

@XposeHer …… my wife always comes in with me and takes notes and asks questions that I dont think of.

She does not get off on exams, so it doesnt do anything for her. unlike myself, i think watching an exam on her is the hottest show ever! …

Same with my gal. However, watching her at the doc is no hot show for me. While I'm otherwise proud of my gal - posting on my wall photos her modeling; when she goes to a doc she wears the most non-sexy underwear she has.

Your gal in those vintage undies is fantastic!

My wife use to attend all my yearly physicals until last year when we had to get a new primary care doctor. She was never turned on at all when I got a physical exam complete with DRE but she liked the doctor, a female, that we had for about 20 years. Our new doctor, who may be our ex-doctor soon, is young and her physicals are a waste of time, so my wife stopped bothering to attend with me. On the other hand, I always attend my wife's even if they are a waste of time. When she went to our old doctor I would definitely get turned on because she did a complete physical each year, including breast exam and pelvic because my wife felt no need to see a Gynecologist when we had such a good primary care doctor.

My wife has never gone with me, though I would love for her to be there while I was examined. I was fortunate to be at two of her physicals years ago.

My wife started seeing a new Dr last year and she wanted me to attend her “Meet and Greet” appt. I was surprised this was a female very young Dr in practice 2 years. I then attended all her exams which the next one was a completed physical and pelvic exam. The Dr is a nathuopath MD so my wife’s exam lasted one hour which was very long since my wife said her longest physical in the past was about 25 min At most. Several months later I switched to my wife’s NMD and she did a VERY complete physical on me, 1.5 hours including blood work review. My wife was present for it all, from undressing, being totally nude for skin exam, genital / Pelvic exam, prostate exam etc.

I'm answering as a proxy for @Deviant1 on this. I go right along with him into the exam room for all of his medical appointments, and vice versa. We try to schedule appointments back to back for offices/providers that we both see, or at least within an hour or so of one another.

We look at attending one another's appointments as partners providing a second set of eyes and ears for one another, and being each other's advocate. Of course, there's the medfet aspect, as well.

One of my wives went to all of my appointments and saw genital and rectal exams as well as some tests. She did this because I wasn’t best at answering all her questions.

Husband and I schedule our annual physicals together and they are performed back to back with each of us staying in the room the entire time. We are able to remind each other of questions we want answered, things to be checked, etc. and here the results of each others' bloodwork. He is there for everything, including my pelvic exam. I am there for everything including his genital and rectal/prostate exam.