Mutual masturbation with someone of the same sex

... but nothing like this ever happened. I can’t say the thought ever even occurred to me...

Pretty much the exact same answer as @RichardAsni, except for maybe his last sentence. I'm not sure I ever would have done it even if my friends started.

My favorite experience was with my friend Sam. I was a sophomore in college, he was a freshman. He is latino, short athletic soccer build. Very hetero, sexually active, and attractive. One morning he was in my dorm room as I was getting out of the shower. He saw my penis and remarked, "Wow dude, it's bigger than I thought." I thought that was a funny way to say it. A week or so later, roles reversed I saw his penis, and he was nervous that it looked "all small right now." Couple weekends later, we are hanging out one night in my room at my parents house, started to watch some porn. I got an erection, and pulled my boxers down to mid thigh to brag a little. Sam immediately stood up on the other side of the bed, looked straight at it, "Dude, that's f*** huge! Look at that!" He ended up lying back down next to me, we both slid off our boxers, lubed up, and masturbated. I remember watching him stroke his penis and watching it get hard. Was about an inch shorter than mine, but thick with a huge mushroom head.

We continued to masturbate together every couple weeks for the rest of that year. Each time, he was openly laughing and comparing our dicks. He wasn't ever shy to look at mine or actively show me his. Kinda stopped for the rest of college, then moved to different states. Almost 10 years after that, he came to visit me. I told him I had just bought some sex toys, and he wanted to see them. I had a penis pump that I dared him to try, he was nervous. So, I pulled down my sweatpants and boxers. "Look, it's small right now, " I said. He looked at my penis for the first time in years, and agreed that that morning I was hanging small. I inserted my penis in the pump, started pumping it and as I got big and hard, Sam's eyes widened. "Dude, look at that! It's so big. And look how big that vein is." He then tried the pump as well, followed by a vibrating cock ring that I had. It was great.

To this day, frequently when we talk he is joking about how big he thinks my penis is.

Well I recall a time, it wasn't the first nor the last. I was 17 and hitchhiking and an older man stop to pick me up asked how far I was going and i told him he said that he was going that far and farther and would give me a ride but that he needed to stop by his office to pick up some things first. I said sure, I had a ride and it was pretty far.

When we got to his office it was a real estate and it was Sunday the office was closed and they had turned off the air conditioning Saturday to save energy, it was hot in there. Well he sat it his desk and started putting papers together and soon started to unbutton his shirt said that he was sweating. I said that it certainly was hot. He said that I was sweating through my shirt and why didn't I take it off while I waited. Well after a few minutes I did so.

Well I was sitting there in some tight cut off shorts and sandals and nothing else. He finally took off his shirt and loosened his belt buckle, that was all, but that was enough for me to get an erection and he noticed right away then he said that I appeared to be very hot down there as well and if I wanted to I could take my shorts off and be cooler.

Well I waited for a couple minutes and said that I didn't have any underwear on. He smiled and said that was ok, “you will be even more comfortable”. So I did. My penise was rock hard and he said that if I wanted to, to go ahead and stroke it. That made it even harder so I did. He finally got up and walked over to me and reached down and fondled me. Put his hand around my crotch and moved his finger between my cheeks feeling for an opening.

At that point he pulled his own pants down and we were both naked. His cock was not so hard, mine was still rock hard. We were standing there each foundling the others cock and then he knelt down and put my cock in his mouth, took his tongue and moved around my crotch, then asked me to turn around and he took his tongue and started to rimm me. That was the first time that had happened and I loved it. He shoved his tongue in my butt and then probed with his finger, up to that point only I had ever done that.

So it was while he had his finger up my butt and I was stroking my cock that I came explosively hard and this just smiled till all of my shuddering was done.

After that we both got dressed and he gave me that ride. I thought about going back a few times but never got the courage to do so.

Yes, more times than I can count. Those first times laying in bed together with our pyjamas pulled down and masturbating each other are the best.

I've done with both male and female partners who like looking at videos/pictures of women in the various girdles, panties, and pantyhose I enjoy seeing women wearing. I often give a helping hand or finger as the case may be..

Frequently with several of my male cousins when we were in our teens and were sleeping together at the cottage or our grandparents house.

My cousin taught me to masturbate when he'd just turned 13 and I was 11. Whenever we got the chance (which was every few weeks as my aunt was also my babysitter), he'd masturbate in front of me. I usually just stroked myself as I couldn't cum at that point. About 6 months later he asked me if I wanted to touch his dick and from then on we would masturbate each other. Once I started to cum it was obviously much better for both of us, which was when I was 12 and a half years old. We stopped doing it pretty much when I stopped needing a babysitter, although the last time we jerked each other was when I was nearly 16 and he was 17. This was during a family wedding and he and I went out to look at his new car. We drove around the block and then sat in the back and jerked each other - it was pretty cool.

Two of my school friends (J & C) and I had showed each other our erections during a sleepover when we were 10. Once I'd seen my cousin masturbate, I showed my school friends at our next sleepover. Nothing really happened with J & C for another year or so. But once we reached puberty, I masturbated with J & C separately (never all of us together). This was mainly because J moved to a new high school and C never slept over at his place. J and I had sleepovers ever month or so and we started masturbating each other when we were 13. This continued until we were 15.

C and I masturbated in front of each other a few times around 13-14 years but only masturbated each other once, which was the last time we did it together. He said he didn't want to do it any more because he had a girlfriend by then.

I loved every experience.

As a young teen, and even pre-teen a few of us boys used to wank together. Not masturbating each other, but all wanking at the same time. All part of sexual exploration I guess.

Boy am I late to the party! I didn't get masturbated by someone until a year ago (I'm 63). And it finally happened thanks to Zity! A nice young guy in his 20s (let's call him "Jay") wrote to me after reading my posts about a variety of experiences I had as a pubescent boy, such as being stripped and nearly masturbated by a girl in my basement, enjoying my mom seeing me naked at the pediatrician with my penis erect and squirting semen, getting admiring stares in 9th grade gym class from 7th grade boys (all grades showered together) complimenting me on my "sexy penis" and "nice amount of pubic hair". He wanted me to tell him more about these events (which I was glad to do) and asked about other experiences I hadn't written about. I told him about the time in 9th grade when a friendly 7th grade boy was staring open-mouthed at my naked body as we showered, which caused my penis to get erect and he said "I love looking at your hairy dick sticking out, I'd love to come to your house after school and give you a handjob!" (I was so sexually naive at 14 that I had never heard the word "handjob" before, but from the way he was staring hungrily at my genitals I kind of figured out what he meant. I couldn't imagine how I would explain his visit to my mom, although looking back my mom probably wouldn't have minded!). After relating all this to "Jay" he suggested I let him do "stuff" to me that he thought I would enjoy and would "fulfill" long-delayed but deep-seated sexual desires. Boy was he right! He tied me up, stripped me completely naked, lovingly caressed my nude body, fondled my penis and testicles to his heart's content, and masturbated my penis to an incredible ejaculation. Since then I've had other nice younger guys do these things to me and its enormously satisfying, both to them and to me (several younger guys, including that first one, enjoy it so much they've done it to me on multiple occasions). I regret that I missed out when I was a teen, but I'm trying to make up for it now! I'm glad that in my region (Maryland, D.C., Virginia, Pennsylvania) there are younger guys (anywhere from 18 up to about 55 works for me) who like to strip, fondle, and masturbate a "daddy" (as they call me). I've discovered, not surprisingly, that their psychology drives them to this niche, just as mine does in reverse. Thank you Zity! You provide all of us with a wonderful forum to express ourselves. You've helped me to fulfill deep-seated sexual desires. But what gives me the most satisfaction is that, at long last, my naked body, penis, testicles, and semen can provide sexual and emotional pleasure to others.

I've hand-jobbed a number of men, and I really liked doing it when I'm horny. But it's not something I directly seek or instigate. In order for it to happen I have to see the man having/getting an erection as the result of something involving a female. That's when I get the desire to stroke the erection - but the prick has to be one that has a nice bulbous head. If really good, then the thought of sucking it will cross my mind; though I would not actually go that far. Comparing this to when I see an attractive woman - then my thoughts always turn to thinking about her vagina and backside and how much I wish I could caress and kiss kiss not only those areas, but her entire body….

The first time I had mutual masturbation with another person was when I was around 12 years old. I was in a boarding school and the principal of the school asked me and another boy to come up to his room. He started to tell us that he knew that boys our age had erges to touch our self down there and that it was perfectly normal and to not be ashamed of that. He encouraged us to pull our pants down which we did.

As soon as I was standing there half naked I got a hard on. My little cock was sticking straight up and so was the other boys. He said “ see, it's perfectly natural, now just take your hand and stroke your penise” well I just used my open hand and stroked it but I was watching the other boy do it in the usual way and grab hold of my little shaft and went to town.

I was embarrassed at first, but the more I stroked my cock the better I felt. After a few minutes I dribble out a little cum. It felt great and that I did this in front of them the principal and the other boy was a turn on for me.

The principal had a warm cloth to clean me up with and then it was over. He said that I could come back anytime I wanted to jag off again but I never did. However it was not the last time that I had jagged off in front of another man.

Those would be other stories, let me know if you would be interested in them.

I have never participated in a mutual masturbation session nor have I been in a circumstance where that could happen. I don't see myself ever being in a situation where that might happen in the future. Same for a blow job.

Yes had a jo bud at 13 boarding school, watched each other and mutual too. Took a while but sucked cock in college.

Would love to have a jo and sucking bud

I was invited to a friends house to watch a movie. I didn't know him very well but what time we had been together was pleasant. My wife was dog sitting so I went, taking a bottle of wine. We sat on the sofa and sipped the wine for a bit and then he put in the CD. Shock! It was a very surprising movie that took place at a lake with all male characters, mostly naked. I asked him if he knew what kind of movie it was and he smiled but didn't answer. Well, it got more and more sexual and we both became very aroused. Eventually, he said, “Why fight it?” and removed his clothes, revealing a huge erection. He sat back very close and began to masturbate. I removed my clothes and sat back down close to him and began to enjoy masturbation also. The move was very explicit and we continued to be more and more turned on. He reached over and took my penis in his hand and put mine on his. I was amazed at how much better his hand felt than mine. We finished the movie like that and both had a powerful orgasm. I was still a bit shocked at what had happened but very glad that it had. He offered for me to spend the night but I needed to get home to walk my dog and left, reluctantly.

I have never tried mutual masturbation, but the idea does sound interesting to me. I have masturbated myself while a friend masturbated himself, and it was a lot of fun to see who could orgasm first. This same friend asked me to stick my finger into his rectum while he masturbated himself on another occasion, and I enjoyed this new experience. Another time when his parents were out we also masturbated ourselves and he asked if he could stick his finger in my rectum. He used petroleum jelly on his finger and this was a totally new feeling for me. I enjoyed the experience and I was able to reach orgasm quickly. I do not consider myself gay, but over the years I have participated in enema and masturbation sessions with several men and always enjoyed the mutual fun. I still fantasize about doing this again with a younger man and try mutual masturbation this time.

Did it a few times in my teens, very enjoyable, but not done it since.

I've done that a lot of times. With buddies growing up, one on one and also in a few groups. In my twenties I belonged to a group that met once a month and it was all male between age 18 and 35 who jerked off at the events. Sometimes it was a smaller group of about a dozen to twenty guys, and for the larger events there were as many as 200 guys there. There were a few rules…. No mouths, no anal stuff, just hands and masturbating. Some guys would find a quiet corner for a one on one, some would form a little group, and some would just watch. You checked your clothes at the door, except for underwear, socks, and sneakers. Since then I have had some other experiences and I really do enjoy it

@nebag

Thank you Zity! You provide all of us with a wonderful forum to express ourselves. You've helped me to fulfill deep-seated sexual desires. But what gives me the most satisfaction is that, at long last, my naked body, penis, testicles, and semen can provide sexual and emotional pleasure to others.

That is very nice and gratifying to hear. tnx for telling. It's encouraging …

Some years ago I answered an ad in craigslist from a lesbian looking for a man for mutual, or simultaneous masturbation. I am not sure why we never connected, something to do with timing I think.

I often think back on that and wonder how it might have progressed.

Thank you @agracier! I always enjoy reading your posts and I am very grateful to Zity for all the wonderful opportunities you have given me to connect with others and to bring pleasure and fulfillment to others both through my words and letting others enjoy my nude body.

I have masturbated with a friend several times, but have never had a situation where we masturbated each other. The thought of this does arouse me, and I have massaged another man's prostate while he massaged mine, but we masturbated ourselves at the same time. I still have a fantasy to try mutual masturbation, and I may have allowed several possible opportunities to slip by. I do not see any opportunities on the horizon, but maybe my lady friend could masturbate me in the 69 position while I licked her clit.

I had a friend who was a few years older. we use to find porn mags and hide them in our secret places. we use to get our cocks out whilst looking at porn but not really know what to do. i use to like looking at his cut pink cock. i remember learning how to wank and being excited to show him. we would sneak off and wank ourselves stupid on factory roofs, in the woods, even in the corner of the playground at school. we use to rub our cock heads together and he use to cum on my cock and i would use it like lube because i was still dry orgasming

When I was in high school I new a much older man , had been to his place many times , he didn’t seem threatening or pursuing anything I had drank pepsi many times at his place ,so he gives me aa glass of Pepsi we’re talking and the conversation turned to sexuality and did I prefer women or men blondes bruenets etc so we talked and he put on a porno movie and got me another glass of Pepsi , the porno was something that exited me and we started masturbating and things got fuzzy I would say a light relaxed but strong sedative must have been in that second pepsi since have taken hypnotic all my life I was not the guy who goes into lala land , I could hadle most hypnotic realtively easily without become Gumby so my masturbation ended as I fell asleep and he was wearing a Condom and trying to rape me I when I woke up and got the hell out of there and hever want back .masturbating was fine but trying to forcible penetrate a semi conscious person , as I say I take horse doses of hypnotics so whatever he gave me was only enough to make disinterested in masturbation and the porno , a bit fuzzy on details it provided enough time for him to remove my open trousers and shirt , get me to his bed and him to put on a condom, had he known my high tolerance and given me a larger dose or had restraints been ready and been applied to immobillize me ,doesn’t matter I regained ability to say no way earlier than expected , you can say no a thousand times but if they control your body you still cant resist , with the most basic four point spread eagle will give you an “All access pass “ . It’s been many years of thinking about that day and thinking all the ways it could have been done slightly different that all end with me at the very best with having a hard cock in my ass that day at the very worst still being tied up getting it everyday since then ?. scary thoughts that I obviously don’t talk about much IRL.

Yes all through 6th grade to 12th grade school!

Before puberty, I enjoyed sleepovers with my two best friends. It just seemed natural to explore each other's body. We hadn't actually discovered masturbation yet. We just enjoyed handling each other's genitals. I discovered masturbation shortly before moving to another town, but I did meet up with one of my former best friends, and we enjoyed a more exciting encounter. Still, I remember the earlier times of just feeling very close and comfortable with my friends as we were lying side by side in bed in the dark under the covers with our hands gently massaging each other's genitals.

That's a very common thing with gay men is mutual masturbation maybe jerk each other off maybe just jerk together

That's a very common thing with gay men is mutual masturbation maybe jerk each other off maybe just jerk together

Not only for gay men but also for all “types” of men, independently of their sexual preferences, let's say…..

Jerking together is very common and arousing, maybe more than usual lonely masturbation as there is a part of exhibitionnism and voyeurism in it, and mutual masturbation is another step in sharing pleasure…..

@Fraize

Everybody is a little gender fluid in their lifetimes even if they're not trans or homosexual everybody's sexuality evolves over their lifetimes.

And a lot of times that's how men explore homosexuality

Not everyone. No desire on my part. But apparently a lot of men do as they become older.

Common occurnce after pe when at school- especially if you got bacl early from cross country run and the six form were changing - they actively encouraged youngsters to masturbate them and give them blow jobs