Did you prefer one gender first?

I have always been sexually attracted to women (first girls, of course!), and strongly so. Nevertheless, my first sexual experiences with a partner were with my scoutmaster who “taught” me many things, most especially male-male sexual interactions. For years afterward I had no contact at all with other men, but as my wife has shown even less interest in sexual interactions I would not refuse contact with other men under specific circumstances. I still like woman first and foremost, just not tied down to them exclusively for the purposes of sexual activity. I believe sexual activity is an important part of life and sex with a partner is best.

I always thought primary sex junk was disgusting and ugly and still do.. and was always more attracted to secondary characteristics and human aesthetics in general.

Not even sure if I should consider myself bisexual. I'm more attracted to men but I think it's mostly because of the idea of what see men as not what most actually are. So a 6ft plus dominant strong powerful woman would absolutely do it for me. I think its more like .. is this person attracted to me? If yes, are they of the right personality type, loyal, strong, reliable, big and can protect me and finally, are they ok with all my weird stuff and traits? If this fits, Im willing to compromise.

I have no memory of liking any one over another. I was aware that certain personalities attracted or repulsed me or left me indifferent. But that has little to do with sexual orientation.

My sister and I grew up sharing a room. So I was used to seeing her naked. If we got caught touching between our legs we would get yelled at. Only touch there to go to the bathroom and bathe. When I was 12 I caught my sister masturbating and she showed me that it felt good and nothing to be ashamed of. Of course, I had to go and show my best friend. I sort of experimented on my own by smelling my best friend on my fingers and eventually tasting my fingers. So I liked girls first. I would not say I ever liked guys as far as being with them. I just did it because all other other girls did it.

When I was in middle school and a bit before then, I preferred the company of girls (platonically) to boys and had feelings for more of them than I did the boys and only recently have realized that I was more or less aroused by girls more than boys as well. I didn't date any girls, however, until after I high school. that has a lot to do with where I live in the US vs other states here as well as LGBT is not really supported quite as widely as it is in other places so gay and bisexual people are as a result harder to find and socialize with. things just never worked out with guys. I think they're physically attractive but I think women are usually more attractive physically and emotionally which is what I personally need out of a relationship myself. my current gf and I have been together for over 2 yrs.

Long before I knew what sex was, or what being gay or straight meant, I knew that I found men interesting and exciting in a way that women just were not. This was definitely by the time I was 3 years old.

A lot of time has passed since then, but I have never changed in that assessment.

To be very honest I had never had any interest into another woman until I was was seduced one night by a woman who was 30 years older than I. And did she rock my world and open my eyes. I was 24 at the time, about to be divorced and returning to college, funny how it came to be, short lived but memories I will never forget.

Returning to school, I soon found myself enjoying the company of women more than I did men. Then one day this man walked into my life, dazzled me, and I married him. Been 22 years now and the charm has never worn off as he treats me like a little queen.

Now I am left to ask what would happen if I lose him to which we must all think? I really think I would never find someone who be as good to me as he has been, so I would either live alone and if not, find myself living with another woman.

@Tillie I for one would like to hear how a middle aged woman seduced you! Any chance you would let inquiring minds know?

Apart from previous posts here, before I knew anything about sex, I found and liked staring at the crotch of women wearing swimsuits - something exciting about the V shape, and flatness as well as it seemed naught to do....

Per @Nurse_Phillips :

" bitches be crazy "

Yup .....

I preferred boys growing up. My first week in college, a girl I befriended the first day of orientation kissed me in the bathroom. That was the beginning.

I am happily married to a man but remain very attracted to women. When we met I was very open about my sexuality. We are monogamous but I am free to engage with women as I like.

Yes I have always liked women first. They have very curvaceous bodies. Beautiful eyes and firm ass were my attractions to them.

In 1953 when I was 17, an older (40+) man tried to pick me up. That experience. so terrified me(did he think that I was gay?), that took me17 years to recover from. In 1975, In had a male friend with a great cock. I wanted to frot with him, badly! My history, made me suppress my urge, but I never forgot that desire! Finally, 2 weeks ago, I sucked my first cock, and swallowed his sperm! As soon as his glans was in my mouth, I knew that my desire for male sex was real, and had been in me, for my whole adult life. It's late in my life, but I finally know who I am, and am at peace with my desires, whether I have more male sex, or not.

I think i was about 9 when my cousin and her friends dressed myself and one of the girls younger brothers up with makeup on and made us kiss and grope each other . I remember getting hard as he fondled me through my panties and then him sucking me . Since then i have always had a secret love of lady boys especially Natalie Mars .

Female first. As a young boy and man the thought of another male never entered my thinking. It was around 45 year old I first thought of another man. This was in passing. The urges grew over the years until I made up my mind to visit a male masseuse. Wow...I discovered men. To play with another man is a new joy.