Did you prefer one gender first?

I have always been sexually attracted to women (first girls, of course!), and strongly so. Nevertheless, my first sexual experiences with a partner were with my scoutmaster who “taught” me many things, most especially male-male sexual interactions. For years afterward I had no contact at all with other men, but as my wife has shown even less interest in sexual interactions I would not refuse contact with other men under specific circumstances. I still like woman first and foremost, just not tied down to them exclusively for the purposes of sexual activity. I believe sexual activity is an important part of life and sex with a partner is best.

I always thought primary sex junk was disgusting and ugly and still do.. and was always more attracted to secondary characteristics and human aesthetics in general.

Not even sure if I should consider myself bisexual. I'm more attracted to men but I think it's mostly because of the idea of what see men as not what most actually are. So a 6ft plus dominant strong powerful woman would absolutely do it for me. I think its more like .. is this person attracted to me? If yes, are they of the right personality type, loyal, strong, reliable, big and can protect me and finally, are they ok with all my weird stuff and traits? If this fits, Im willing to compromise.