Using your nappy/diaper instead of the restroom

The scenario - You are wearing a nappy under your other clothes when you become aware you need to empty your bladder or bowels or both.

Would you;

a) fight the urge and hope it goes away. You know that in all probability it will come back stronger than before.

b) tell Mommy or Daddy that you are uncomfortable and see what they do hoping they don't draw attention to yourself?

c) let go and do it in your nappy?

d) something else depending on where you are

Me - Well I always fight the urge so a) to begin with then when things become desperate c) and only after I have gone toilet in my nappy b). Maybe just maybe d) depending on circumstances.

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Depends on where i am and what i need. If i only need to wet, i will just let go in the diaper. if mess, i won't do in public unless it is somewhere where noone will recognize me

I go potty in my diaper whenever I feel the urge to do so. It's a fundamental reason why I now wear diapers and rubber pants full time, so I never have to leave where I am or stop doing something to take the time to find a bathroom, drop my panties and go potty. Letting it go in my diapers just feels so wonderful and sexy especially at the tip of my wee-wee. My wife completely approves as well, especially at night when we go to bed. She knows what a bedwetter I am and how much I love to wet in bed so she makes sure I am diapered properly just like my mommy did when I lived at home with her and my sisters. On the other hand I always let my wife know if I feel I need to poop, because she would have to clean and change me. She doesn't like to do that too often, maybe once every couple of weeks, I'm allowed to mess in my diapers and rubber pants, but when I do she likes me to stay in my messy diapers for a few hours, which I really like. My wife doesn't want me to mess in my diapers when we are out doing stuff plus I don't want to make anyone else uncomfortable. I do get a little stinky when I poop in my diapers so we only do that when we have some privacy. If we are out, and I feel the urge to mess, I hold it until we get home, or if I can't hold out any longer we either find a restroom where my she can help me unpin my diapers so I can go poo, or in the worst case, we run to our car and I mess there or on the way and have to stay in my messy diapers and rubber pants until she can change me.

I just let it go in my diaper if I am wetting that is what they are for. For messing it depends on if I will be able to clean it up or not.

I don’t have a choice diapers are my underwear and my toilet until death do we part .

For those of us incontinent people. Having incontinence pretty much means no or little control. So most would be voiding into there diapers for the most part. That's why most wear diapers for incontinence.

C - just let it go and wet in my diaper and hope (fingers crossed) that my diaper doesn't leak. For messing, visit the nearest toilet.

I am incontinent and wear diapers and plastic pants 24/7, so I don’t have a choice and wet without warning. As far as messing, I am fairly regular and use the potty each morning during coffee unless I have lost potty privileges and have to use my diaper. This usually only happens on weekends so I am lucky there.

A) I like to fight the urge to poop and resist as long as possible. I love the feeling of desperation I get when I try to hold it all in. Knowing that I'm moments away from loosing control and helplessly crapping myself.

I have no choice but to use my diaper.

I started out with A. Over time, I moved toward C. Then I started finding that when I tried to do A, I ended up with C. Now it's always C.

One of the reasons I was put in diapers in the first place was a (tried to hold it). Ended up with enough accidents that a nappy was the answer.

And in contrast, whenever I had to wear diapers I never tried to hold anything, ever. It was like a switch flipped as soon as those plastic pants were pulled up. So I think c is the answer. If I had to go, I just went.

If I hold it and don't go then I end up having to have a suppository. Because the urge goes away and then I end up getting constipated sometimes and have a real big mess.

When I was around 5 years old I was given an large enema with a bag at a doctors office. After my enema the nurse asked me if I wanted to use the potty or have them put a diaper on me. She said that I would need to go poo poo really bad for awhile. I told them I wanted to be put in a diaper. They fixed me up. Sure enough I felt a massive need to go poop. I held it back as I always did when I felt the urge to go. I was able to hold it for a few minutes. When we got into the car on the way home we road over a few bumps. I felt myself lose control and my butt exploded into the diaper. I remember it was quite a profound feeling for me. Even at that young age. I was scared of it leaking out of the diaper but thankfully we only lived a short ways away from the doctors office. When we got home my mom took the diaper off and I finished releasing the enema on the potty. I remember crying the entire time. But releasing in the diaper was an incredible experience and one I never forgot. That loss of control and trying to hold back .

I would just go in my nappy.Thats why I wear them.

By the time I am made aware it is too late, next diaper, please?

My auntie who I loved and still do had 4 cousins aged 1 to 6 and I stayed a lot and bed wet so we all wore Terry nappies and rubbers,

MMine were nighttime but sometimes I wore to play out in.

M cousins weed and pooed their nappies playing out and I weed but couple of occasions I needed to poo and told my auntie who luckily was busy at time and told me to use my nappy for a poo which I did as loved it

When she changed my bottom she said as she wiped my bottom that I must only do this if allowed to.

SShe said my mum would be upset with me which would be correct .

Lovely running around in a soaking saggy vote nappy and rubbers with a big poo in them and not care in the world

I would just go in my nappy.Thats why I wear them.

This is about as succinct as one can be. I enjoy going potty and the feelings around my pee-pee when my stream begins until it ends. My diapers let me enjoy these sensations whenever the urge begins and no matter where I am. Of course I also love the attention, care and playfullness from my wife and others when my diapers are changed, all the wiping, holding stroking and powdering of my most sensitive and pleasurable bits.

Mine is a c I would just go in my nappies but I would only wet I don' do messy nappies. I like to wet my nappies when out

A, C and D depending on the situation. I don't mess my diapers intentionally but have had accidents. I fit my diaper snug enough so that they can be pulled down to sit on a toilet to expell the BM. Then simply pull the diaper back up if not needed to be changed.

An example that really happened a week ago is. I was at a restaurant finishing up my breakfast. A sudden urge of a BM suddenly hit hard. I went to the restroom and it had only one stall. I opened the door and saw that someone exploded shit all over the top of the seat. Seriously????

No way was I going to clean up that ridiculous mess, and I wouldn't have made it myself after it was all cleaned up. I knew I didn't have time to go somewhere else.

So I ended up messing my diaper. Thanks to the a___hole that didn't act as an adult to clean up there mess or to at least tell some restaurant employee.

I try to fight the Bladder urge when at home but never when I am out as resisting it can result in an unstoppable BM !

So Bladder goes straight into the Nappy almost as soon as I get the urge.

I do try to resist the BM but it is a completely hopeless effort and If anything makes it even worse.

Personally that prity much descrbes my every-day activity when outside of the house as I wear diapers virtually all of the time due to bladder control issues, see my previous replies for more information if you haven't already done so.

And I in that situation choose to go in the diapers because its better than having an embarrassing accident although I still have to go to toilets/restrooms to clean myself up and some of those are unfortunately dirty and unhygienic.

Thats another great example of why I choose to wear diapers but other than that I find it more convient just to be like a baby/toddler as I don't have to worry about it most of the time.

I hope this helps awnser some of your questions.

I was cleaning the garage yesterday and my over active bladder was in overdrive and I was leaking as I tried to make it to the bathroom. I just put on a fresh pull up ( large volume) so I just let it flow as I worked. Finished cleaning and had a full sagging diaper ( good thing I had tights to help hold it up) so full and warm. Kept it on for dinner and relaxed a little before taking a shower. Got my money 💰 worth out of that one. Lol

While I do enjoy messing in my diapers, my wife put her foot down when we first started dating and told me wearing diapers full time, going potty in them was fine with her, but no messing. After she moved in with me and she saw how happy I was knowing I could wear diapers and rubber and go potty in them as much as I wanted she finally told me “Baby, if you really want to go poopy in your diaper you can, but only when I give you permissionIand you must ask nicely. Now, I doubt that I will allow you to poop more than once or maybe twice a month, but if you promise to obey my rules, you can make a mess. But if you do, you will not be allowed to be changed until I decide when you can.” Of course I accepted her conditions.

But as I've said in thew past I always wear my diapers and rubber pants when we go out. We bring my diaper bag with us just in case. For any number of reasons, neither of us want me to mess in my diapers when we are away from home. It's too embarrassing and so difficult to change in a public restroom or even the backseat of my car. However, since I'm diapered 100% of the time when we go out, I have had a few accidents. I hate when that happens, feel so embarrassed, even humiliated for messing and know my wife is thinking I'm such a baby.

If I'm diapered I just pee at will. Even at the risk of a leak. If I'm in a used diaper and have to poop , as long as I am home or heading home I let it go.

I would let it go in my nappy

Due to nerve damage I am fully diaper and aide dependent , I get no urge or sensation of warning nor is there any ability to think about something that can influence ,start or stop anything in my diaper.

my doctors prescribe medication to help shrink My prostate and relax my bladder neck theoretically it improves my stream and makes catheter insertion easier( i am both a chronic and acute user ,a temporary catheter inserted into bladder 5X’s if that should fail or be obstructed then any size foley they can get into me is used and left in for 2 weeks then my urologist and his sketch artist inspect if the coast is clear I go back to frequency if my urethra isn’t coping or my prostate isn’t a new foley is inserted and maintained for another two weeks .

I take 2 medications that “regulate“ my bowels ( that regulation makes large frequent very soft stools happen 4-5 X’s a day ) I am Not aware of when it begins or ends , I do become somewhat aware of the consequences after it happens ( I do have smaller random leakage that I am not aware has happened because it doesn’t have real consequences that I can identify , I find out when my aide is doing a routine wet change .

if I had normal nerves , I would have increasing urgency until I voluntarily used the toilet or shit myself , the longer the medication is in you the greater the effect , it goes from asking you to please cooperate , to overwhelming Your bowels and making you go now , combine nerve damage ,mobility impairement and incontinence add a medication that has no effect on you until it makes Your bowels empty.

honestly given the choice between not going and not being able to eat or taking the medication and having a full belly , empty bowel ,full diaper , I wouldn’t change a thing

so it doesn’t matter what I think or do as long as I have an aide to diaper feed dress me , I will be fine !

When the urge hits, I do not notice the flow starting until I feel the warmth. I do not use my diaper for #2.

If feel the urge to pee, I just let it go in my nappy and rubber pants wherever I am at and whatever I am doing and enjoy the lovely warm feeling. If I need to poo, I always try to find a restroom as I don't like the cleaning up bit. But sometimes, no restroom is available and it comes out in my nappy. Even though I detest the cleaning up, I admit that it does feel good while it is happening.

If I am wearing a diaper and feel the need to pee, I go. Sometimes have to move around or stand up to get into the right position, but I don't wait for a change or opportunity to use the restroom for pee. I have not messed in a diaper and do not plan to, however.