Has anyone been to a professional spanker?

@Andrew_Finklehouse male or female?

As interesting as it sounds, I'd rather be spanked by my partner or not at all

@Secret_sub : Female. I would never go to a male spanker. The only male I ever wanted to be spanked by was my dad, and he was already deceased by then.

I have had sessions with two different pros. Once with one, and three now with another. Both were great. I plan on seeing the one who is a couple of hours away, maybe the other who is some distance.

I have written about both. The first is in the library, the others on my blog here.

I was with a mistress for thirty-seven years and over that time I was made to 'taste' many methods of punishment and discipline and humiliation. The lady was Swedish/Canadian and had been trained by her mother who in turn had been taught by her grandmother. The family 'belief' was that their men needed to be taken in hand by their women and through regular discipline gradually tamed into being caring and loving human beings fit to serve their mistress's needs. One thing that is certain is that maintenance punishment most certainly works and since the recent death of this wonderful lady, I find myself getting more and more unruly. Sure there are tens of thousands of adverts out there, but how to find a late-middle-aged lady who is not ‘scene’ but quietly gets on with her work of holding grown men to account?