Exam tomorrow

I have the pleasure of getting my yearly exam tomorrow with a new doctor…

Please tell us ALL about it

I hope it will bring wat you expect of it. How are your feelings before the exam, i am very curious how the exam was for you.

Hey we can compare exams. Mine is tomorrow too.

Mine is this Thursday, I have to add that I've just gotten off the pill two months ago after YEARS, and my libido is through the roof, it's insane. I'm contemplating telling the doc about it and asking him about when he thinks I'll stop being so horny.. I'll probably ask him right before the pelvic exam portion..

Wouldn't it be cool if he said he could masturbate you for relief!

Mine is this Thursday, I have to add that I've just gotten off the pill two months ago after YEARS, and my libido is through the roof, it's insane. I'm contemplating telling the doc about it and asking him about when he thinks I'll stop being so horny.. I'll probably ask him right before the pelvic exam portion..

I do hope you‘ll keep us posted?

I do hope you‘ll keep us posted?

Since you asked…

well I didn't end up getting actually examined today but rather sent for a series of other procedures to come back for an exam in two weeks with more info- a TVU on Monday with a different doctor/technician, and then a diaphragm fitting session in two weeks. Any experience with fittings at the gyn? looks fun, I wonder if I'll enjoy it.

and my libido is through the roof, it's insane. I'm contemplating telling the doc about it and asking him about when he thinks I'll stop being so horny..

I mean, there are far worse “problems” to have. 😂

I have seen my wife­ get fitted three times. When we went back to get refitted both of those doctors acted like it was strange to get refitted. But we read—I think in ‘Our Bodies Ourselves”--that you should get refitted every few years to be sure it fits right. And I love any time she is manhandled by a doctor, so I encouraged her to go again.

The first time was with her family doctor. She was 19 and she first saw him when she was 13. She had always had a crush on him, but after our first visit to him together she hated him. But that is a different story, and he was her doctor so we went to him.

First he put two fingers in her to measure against his fingers how deep her vagina was. That really hurt her. She has a really small vagina and he just shoved two fingers deep into her. He used plenty of lube, so they slid right in, but still she is very small, so even though they slid right in, it still hurt as they stretched her so wide.

Then he measured on his hand and picked out a size from the fitting tray.

Next was super hot. He used one hand to spread her lips wide then he shoved the folded diaphragm into her vagina. Then he poked around a lot, presumably to make sure the fit was right. I loved that. she squirmed and tried to pull away. she hated it. it was awesome.

Then he said, “That's about as good as they get.”

He said he would go get one, and he left the room for a minute. I immediately jumped up and put a finger in her as she sat on the end of the exam table.

She jumped like it hurt and she pushed me away with an angry look on her face.

The doctor came back in with a new diaphragm in her size and he put lube on it and then explained how to put spermicide on and how to insert it. Then he brought the back of the table up to about 45 degrees and had her sit sorta up while he put it back in.

he explained how to feel to make sure it is seated properly and then he explained how to get it out. Then he made her watch him as he rammed his big fingers back in her and pulled the diaphragm out.

Then he watched as she put it in. After she said she thought it was in the right place as she fingered herself, he put his fingers back in to check the placement.

Then he watched her try to fish it out. That took some time.

Then he said, “it just takes some practice. Do you want to do it another time or just practice when you get home.”

I wanted to shout, “do it again, do it again!”

but she said no so we were done.

Except I fingered her some more while she was getting dressed.

And man, she was loaded with lube.

Awesome!

Y'all I've hijacked this thread but there's so much real life action going on lately 😃 (nothing dramatic, that's what's fun about it, no real health concerns).

Just got back from a TVU appointment, still have that unsettled feeling deep inside after being probed.

I went into the office, the clinician had a desk and chair in the entrance to the left and ahead there was a curtained area with an exam table. she asked me why I was in, I gave her the referral papers from my gyn, told her I haven't gotten my period yet since going off the pill. she said “this is a vaginal exam, ok? go inside and remove your pants and underwear and let me know when you're ready”.

so I moved the curtain and entered and closed it behind me, took off my jean shorts and black underwear and tucked them in my bag as there was no stool or other place for them, and put my bag on the floor next to the table. I sat on the table, there were foot rests that looked a mile away I couldn't sit upright if I put my feet in. so I sat kindof hugging my knees on the table and said I was ready.

She came in, guided my feet to the stirrups and had me inch down, I was laying flat and spread out, literally could only look at the ceiling and the screen that was hanging for my viewing from the ceiling across the way. she gave me a sheet to cover myself and went to sit down on a stool. she ripped a condom package, and put it on the wand and added lube, all seen from the corner of my eye (as I was angled in such a way), and typed a few things into the computer -monitor.

Then without saying a word (which I do not at all appreciate), she stuck the wand straight in, deep. then she kept moving it from side to side going deeper it seemed. It wasn't pain so much as pressure felt, and discomfort of something moving really deep inside. Her chair wasn't in front of the table but to my side so she was sitting to the right of me and had to kindof reach I think to get good access, so she leaned her arm on my inner thigh the whole time. After a few minutes she did start to describe what she was seeing but at no point any question about how I was feeling or warning before pushing harder.

Then she slid it out, cleaned up and put it away and went back to the station in front of the curtain to let me get dressed- also nothing to wipe myself with, so still totally slippery, which I don't mind because I came straight home.

All in all, lucky that I'm me and have a medfet so I still enjoyed the experience, but I swear Gyns and Techs need to learn from some of you a thing or two about bedside manner.

Addie, how old are you may I ask? Was this your first transvaginal ultrasound?

I'm 25. My first TVU was my first pelvic exam, at 18. It's a whole other story but that time I went to a Gyn innocently for a referral to get bloodwork done because I thought I might be pregnant, lo and behold I was told to get undressed and lie down. I did, thinking she was going to insert her fingers, had no idea she was going to insert an ultrasound probe.

I'm 25. My first TVU was my first pelvic exam, at 18. It's a whole other story but that time I went to a Gyn innocently for a referral to get bloodwork done because I thought I might be pregnant, lo and behold I was told to get undressed and lie down. I did, thinking she was going to insert her fingers, had no idea she was going to insert an ultrasound probe.

Hi Addief,

pls are you barefoot during your examinations?

Hi Addief,

pls are you barefoot during your examinations?

Barefoot

Hi addief,

Is it true a woman can feel the lube coming out after the TVU?

Addie, that you for taking the time to share your experience. 😃 I hope everything is ok.

Don't forget to post your pictures 😃))))

Sorry I never got around to posting about my exam. It went well, even with the unexpected rectovaginal exam.

The doctor reviewed my history, listened to my heart and lugs, then had me lay back for the breast exam. She examined both breasts pretty thoroughly while I was laying down. There was no exam while seated. Then she palpated my abdomen and listened to bowel. after that, the stirrups were adjusted and up went my feet. She opened a drape and laid it across my lap. She first checked all the external parts. Then she inserted the plastic speculum with attached light. She did a pretty quick Pap smear and removed the speculum. Next, she put on some lubricant and inserted two fingers into my vagina. She felt my cervix, ovaries, and uterus. She was very thorough during this due to my history of cysts. After that, she removed her fingers and put on a fresh glove. She then explained that she would be doing a quick rectal exam followed by a rectovaginal. After that, I cleaned up.

Pretty simple exam, any questions?

@Patient_PJ Does she usually do a rectal? Did she explain why she did it? Was it just about checking anal sphincter tone, or did you have the impression she was trying to feel your internal organs?

She explained that it’s easier to assess the organs from both sides. i was not expecting it but she’s a new doctor.

She explained that it’s easier to assess the organs from both sides. i was not expecting it but she’s a new doctor.

I totally agree with your gynecologist.

I think it is useful to end the consultation with a rectovaginal examination.

The finger inserted by your anus combined with the one in your vagina and with an abdominal support will allow us to have a good knowledge of the state of your appendages (ovaries, tubes and Douglas pouch)

Some women find it unpleasant, but I think that if the finger cot is well lubricated and the patient is relaxed, it shouldn't be a cause for concern. Above all, well done, the touch is very fast.