What turns you on about enemas?

I am looking to find a role play doc to conduct an exam for my partner and I, and a few have asked if we would like to include an enema. This would be my first time exam, and while I’m not opposed to it, it isn’t something that I initially find sensual. I would love to hear from others what you like most about it— either receiving it or seeing it being given to someone else— before I make a decision on whether or not I want it included in mine.

Well Rachel, I was introduced to the nozzle by Dad, BUT, they were under the family doctor's instructions. (I was 8 years old) and I can emember Dad took me to our local doctor to ask about a cure for worms. I can remember the Dr's instructions and Mum boiling up garlic on the kitchen stove and I didn't have any idea what an enema was. This was 72 years ago. I can remember being called into the bathroom and told to take all of my clothes off. “Bend over” and these instructions were an invasion of my privacy. BUT, over those 72 years, my passion and comfort is enemas. I'm sure, done carefully, you will appreciate the intimacy of this action. regards, irrigator333

Not sure!

It must relate somehow to that strange combination of pleasure and pain!

We have always been taught that the way to get pleasure is to avoid pain. That does NOT work with enemas. there is always some.

More often than not at least a mild nausea, but the pleasure seems to overpower it.

The feeling of accomplishment when I return clear is a factor as well.

When y0ou have to be a good Mom, Wife, Boss, and dog owner, the sense of having fought the good fight and eventually lost, because you always will lose, has to be part of the story as well.

I guess today I am fortunate to have a wife who enjoys giving me enemas. My interest, like many, started when my mom gave me enemas to ward off constipation. I recall how they caused an embarrassing erection which my mom always told me it indicated the enema was working and that it would go away after I expelled the water. It did and I always felt a strange sense of calm and relief after it was over. Later on I wanted to feel that sense of relief on my own, so when I returned home from school, and mom was out shopping, I marched myself into the bathroom and began filling the sink with hot water with a bar of ivory soap floating in it. As soon as I started filling the bulb my erection returned. I would take 2 or 3 bulbs full until the urge to go was overwhelming and I simultaneously noticed a thick clear liquid oozing from the head of my penis. It was not an orgasm but something called precum, as I later learned, but I liked it and wanted to keep repeating the experience. So, every evening after school, when mom was away, I repeated the experience with the same results.

@Rachel_Puck, in answer to your question what turns many of us on when it comes to enemas are the myriad sensations that are a part of the process. Being anal erotic is a good starting point. If you are, then you are at “step 1”. If fullness and light cramping in your pelvic region is something that turns you on and gets you wet, then you may really enjoy an enema as a part of the scene.

But, I would suggest you try an enema beforehand to see if it really is something you'd like to pursue. For many, enemas are an acquired taste. So take it at your own pace and explore the possibilities. Even if you forego the enema this time, there's always next time!

Keep us posted as to what you ultimately decide to do!

Good luck!

Deb

This has been discussed in various other posts and l will join in this one as well.

I was raised in a medically oriented family and enemas were always part of our normal life. Most times once during the week myself and my sister would get a good flushing out when mom had the time or decided we needed 1 and always on the weekend in the evening we would get another thorough flushing. So l continued this tradition on up through collage and the military. I had several girlfriends and then a husband. He begins to like and get into them and then we go our separate ways. I continue with the bi lifestyle and meet several other women who either enjoyed already or were converted. Some were medical field oriented and overlapped into medical exams/perversions. Most were very good experiences.

I meet my current husband and it really took off!!! We have a swingers lifestyle and have had many opportunities to become associated with other individuals who were medically oriented and enjoyed the lifestyle and enemas. We now have several couples as well as singles we play with upon occasion or phone call.

What turns us on is the preparation, maybe texts all day describing what we will be doing to the other(s), how much fluid, how many bags, which nozzles(s), solutions, positions, etc… My favorite is when he texts me and tells me l will be receiving suppositories before the enema, hold them while he prepares the bag, makes me watch him fill the bag, attach a nozzle, then the cramps are severe. Let's me expell. Then on the bed, which position? He then lubes me, sometimes little, sometimes none!! He then gives me the blessed nozzle. I feel it beginning to fill me. He reaches under me and rubs my belly from behind. His massive forearm rubs my lady region's and my belly. Bag is empty, his arm is soaked!!! I'm needing release front and back!!! He carries me to the bathroom, he places me on the toilet, he removes the nozzle, then inserts himself into my mouth while l begin to expell. Sometimes we both get off, sometimes not. Depends on how he has the event planned. That's what l love about enemas!!!

I just posted a photo and story that brought back fond memories of a Friday afternoon when I wasn't feeling well but wanted to meet my husband for dinner later. I left work early that day, went home, give myself an enema, and felt like a new woman that evening. What a satisfying turn-on I felt that evening. I still remember that experience, and it was about three years ago.

Hello and welcome to the world of medfet!

Enemas are a fantastic part of my medfet play… for a couple reasons.

For me, the feeling of a warm, full enema is intensely erotic. The feeling of warmth and pressure on my prostrate makes me hard and when I cum it is an epic event. I have been told by several women that I have given enemas to that they enjoy the fullness and warmth deep inside them.

Have fun, relax, don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with, and experiment! If you end up loving enemas, then great. If you end up hating enemas, at least you have tried them. Good bucket list!

Jeff

@Vicki V, is that you in the pic? If so, amazingly beautiful woman!!!

@Vicki V, is that you in the pic? If so, amazingly beautiful woman!!!

You're very kind, but no. My husband says I'm beautiful, though, still have my figure! When I spotted this picture, it sparked memories of that afternoon. Sometimes just an hour or two of “me-time” makes all the difference in how I'm feeling, and I remember we had a lovely dinner that evening.

Rachel – The complexities of the enema…a clinical treatise!!! Not. But it really is kind of a mystery. There is the physical, the psychological, the emotional and, for some, maybe even the mystical (enemas run the gamut from air to water to wine to maybe even tea brewed from “magic mushrooms”…though I’ve never seen or heard any reports of the latter); who knows. The one universal seems to be that it is a very personal “fetish”. Personally, I find enemas to be physically pleasurable, sexually arousing, and generally “interesting” (not into large quantities, cramps, etc. that there are those…actually many, I think…who find very pleasurable). Different strokes.

Physically, there are many nerves around the anus that are stimulated when anything comes into contact…the insertion of an enema nozzle does that… and arouses many sensations; they probably vary greatly depending on your sex. The flow of liquid into the rectum and beyond causes pressure which many find pleasant (maybe an understatement); in guys it puts pressure on the prostate gland and in ladies, I’m told, it puts pressure on/stimulates the G spot. The effect of different substances can cause a wide variety of sensations, as can large volume enemas, ranging from euphoria to nausea. Then there is the feeling of cleanliness and/or “emptiness” that occurs with and empty bowel (or ENTIRELY empty/clean colo), depending on the nature of the enema (or colonic, as the case may be.)

There is the psychological. Many of us were introduced to enemas in our childhood; others later in medical situations, sexual situations, or by just plain good luck (my editorial comment). Any kind of discussion of this truly is a doctoral dissertation (probably several). Just plain curiosity (as, it seems in your case) is a good start!!

Reading through the many posts that have been written over the years on this board will give you a good idea of the wide variety of likes, equipment, solutions, situations, etc that folks experience; that’s probably the best way to get an idea of what you may find pleasurable. Again, personally, I feel that the sexual component is the thing that appeals most to me and to many others. Making enemas a part of your love play (and especially if that is part of your medfet attraction) is a big, maybe the biggest, attraction. My lady is more than comfortable in accommodating that aspect into our love life and we both benefit from that.

As a last note, just a suggestion that may help “ease” your way into “klismophilia” as the APA has chosen to call our attraction to an age old process/procedure. Enemas do not have to be “big” (large volume) or delivered using a particular solution, equipment or whatever. I have found that a simple infusion of warm water (with a pinch of salt to avoid dehydration) delivered by a bulb syringe (usually only 8 or 10 oz)…maybe two fills… will provide a lot of physical stimulation with the added benefit of cleaning your lower bowel and giving you a nice “unbloated” feeling. Plus, it’s easy to administer, very little “clean up”, usually doesn’t make you feel uncomfortable or have an urgent need to run to the john, and generally will give you an idea as to whether it’s something you want to incorporate into you medfet play. Also, something that could easily be incorporated into your “scenarios”.

There’s a WHOLE lot I’ve left out, but good luck with your exploration. Best hope is that you feel that the intimacy of enemas, as well as the pleasurable aspects of them, will add to your love play and open up new experiences and sensations.

Biggest turn on the insertion. Then expelling. Especially being present when she expels.

I like it when someone watches me take a nozzle up my ass followed by a gallon of water. That is what turns me on.

Wish I could say more beyond being sub servant to the person who gently lubricates my bottom, and inserts an enema nozzle in my backsides while I lay there prone either over his / her lap, and waiting for me to plead that I'm full.

I like it when someone watches me take a nozzle up my ass followed by a gallon of water. That is what turns me on.

I'd just get off knowing that knowing that someone is watching me do an enema and watching me.

Hard to put into words.

Not going to try right now because it would take all day!

@LisaK Au contraire: I can put it in one word - EVERYTHING!

Rachel, the key, especially starting out is to have the person receiving the enema get stimulated. You can do this by your hand, mouth or toys. Once you experience an orgasm while being slowly filled you will never look back.

Rachel,

I may have missed something below, but just humor me for some basic information. You and/or your partner are looking for a MedFet type exam from someone, but deciding about enemas included or not. What I’ve missed here is, have YOU ever had an enema yourself? Ever? Even as a kid from your parents? Any after leaving home either alone or with a partner? If so, did you like or dislike it?

I’m not a MedFet lover, not one of my 5-6 kinks and fetishes, but I don’t mind doing it if a partner likes it. I am, however, an enema lover for over 50 years and loved trading them with my ex-wife or ex-GF. I’m looking forward to hearing your experience

Eric

There are many wonderful things about receiving an enema but my favorite thing is when my partner lubes my anus and then inserts her finger deep inside my bottom stretching my anus and lubing me real good. That gets me so wet.

Seeing that nozzle as it enters my wife’s behind is absolutely wonderful.

Everything😀😈😜!!!

Part of this is being sub-serviant to the giver, as after being told an enema is coming.

Part of this can be the “ waiting game ” as we either have to wait outside the bathroom ( hearing the noises ) waiting to be called in, or this person coming to us holding the enema bag with the nozzle they picked out, along with solution Soapy or water? Big bag or just a small one? Just my seeing the nozzle they picked out can cause quivers inside me and my belly, especially if it's a stomach wrenching double Balloon that I know will make me look pregnant.

Then the position that THEY DESIRE / MAKE YOU get into, is another is another erotic factor during this time.

Will I be be able to take my enema and masturbate or not? Same goes for my giver, as I turn my head to see whats left in the bag, and seeing them masturbate themselves watching filling ?

This is why solo enemas are OK, but ones that originally started at an early age ( mostly Mom's ) to where most of us are today, and seeking a partner ( M/ F ) to explore our most intimate erotic with sharing enema desires and fantasizes, are where many of us at at now.

Just my 2 cents. I'm done.

Rachel

it is the feeling of being vulnerable of being being yourself naked, your bottom cheeks spread apart for the syringe to be inserted into your anus and then for all to see the enema solution enter your colon as your tummy bloats like a pregnant girl. it is embarrassing but it was a moment I treasured because now I do not feel ashamed of myself for anything.

Rachel

it is the feeling of being vulnerable of being being yourself naked, your bottom cheeks spread apart for the syringe to be inserted into your anus and then for all to see the enema solution enter your colon as your tummy bloats like a pregnant girl. it is embarrassing but it was a moment I treasured because now I do not feel ashamed of myself for anything.

Your words are so true to me, and sure to others as well.

Being told that an enema is coming. The waiting that seems like hours, but only minuets. Then having to either strip down in front of another, or having them help you get naked.

Then being place into a “ position of their choice ”, endure your bottom getting spread, a vaselined finger working your ass, then being told “ Don't worry, and I'm going to put the nozzle in ”.

It all goes as planned until you then hear the click and warm water starts filling your backsides.

At this point, any chance of dignity goes down the drain, and soon to follow, our contents inside.

Whether you choose an enema is up to you. However, I would encourage you to choose an enema. The enema symbolizes deep submission, it is quite an intimate procedure. However, it requires that it be carried out correctly. When a woman undergoes an enema, she trusts completely.

First off, just the word ENEMA gets my full attention. It for me has to be a female that will be administering. (My apologies and do not mean to offend any gay or bi gentlemen). The thought of having to be laying there totally nude while hearing the preparations of the enema or being made to stand there and see her fill the bag with warm water and have her look at me while she adds the soap and glycerin with a wicked smirk on her face. Then she either enters the room as I lay there or she follows me into the room. “Lay Down on your stomach” while she hangs the open top full four quart bag on the pole she had me install to the bed. As I lay on the bed, I look back as she curls the hose and nozzle to the hook as she opens the tube of K-Y. She then applies a generous amount of K-Y to her finger then to the black bulbous nozzle. Then I feel the coolness of the K-Y as it comes in contact with my rectum. Then I feel my buttocks being parted and she slides her finger in and out of my rectum. She does this several times going deeper with each penetration. Just knowing she is able to see a special private part of my body that I can not see myself without the use of a mirror. Then I feel her finger leave my rectum only to be replaced with the well lubed nozzle. It at first offers some resistance but after her applying steady force, sliding into me deep. She waits and sees the black nozzle and hose peeking out from my buttocks following the hose all the way up to where it is connected to the bulging full black four quart open top enema. She lets it stay in there for about two minutes then I hear a metallic “snap” of the clamp then the coolness then the warmth of the enema start to fill me. Then she picks up the hose to speed the flow. After about thirty seconds I feel the pressure to start causing slight then more steady cramping. I ask her to slow or stop the flow and that request is met with the sting of her paddle on one of my buttocks then the other buttock. I have a raging hard on from the pressure and the warmth against my prostrate causing me to have some pre cum discharge. After about five minutes I hear the familiar “kiss” sound indicating the bag has finished and I have four quarts of warm soapy water inside of me and that she is the lady that administered the enema to me because she “wanted” to give me that enema.

Like stingr said, “just the word ENEMA gets my full attention”. Everything about them gets me excited and I enjoy everything from deciding to give myself one, getting the enema syringe out and putting it together, fixing the soapy water solution, taking all of my clothes off, lubing me and the douche nozzle up, the insertion, the warm soapy water rushing in, the cramps, the full feeling, the expulsions and even the wave of nausea I get during the expulsion (it's the good kind) and finally fixing myself the second enema and most times the third enema, too. I mean, what's not to love about enemas.

I also love to read enema stories and then edit them for my own personal enjoyment, too, by changing things like the “tip” to enema nozzle, adding the word enema into the story where it is appropriate and correcting the spelling and grammar as well as changing and adding other things.

For me it’s all about the feelings of my body changing. I love the feeling of the solution filling my gut, and the discomfort of the cramps as I try to hold the liquid is extremely arousing. Maybe I’m just strange, I don’t know. Everyone gets something different out of it. But wow, I’m getting hot just thinking about it right now!

Rachel Puck, either way, l say you have to try it, giving and receiving.