Sexualization of enemas

I never believed that my mom or grandma intended for the enemas to become an aspect of my sexuality. They were just a common, and simple procedure, to address various maladies in those times. Besides, our pediatrician and adult family doctor often prescribed or suggested enema use.

One thing for sure, the enemas triggered some involuntary reactions very early in my life. The different equipment became an aspect as well. Those items were always in my face, and I knew that I enjoyed those reactions when inserted.

As I read and learned about the various procedures, to include vaginal douching, the nexus became quite clear. Douching as an aspect of contraception in those days, clearly drew that line.

An enema had become a sex act beginning early in my existence. They were a reasonable alternative after puberty, and throughout my early years of dating and relationships, to more frequent typical sexual encounters. Pregnancy was very unlikely as a result.

I didn't see the enema as a replacement for typical sexual interaction, but sure enjoyed them in the absence of opportunities.

Later on, an enema was a great adjunct to typical sexual relations and was quite the aphrodesiac. Eventually, an enema was a pretty good alternative to those little blue pills.

Long live those wonderful rubber items and that simple pleasure and procedure!

Yes! It's true, sexuality was once compartmentalized from both physical and mental health!

Old ideas die hard!

Those that combine all three have the best relationships of all.

I just learned recently about a conversation that happened at the end of an enema session between my parents. Dad had up till then always stepped out of the room when Mom got dressed after an enema session. Why this time was different I have no idea!

Dad apparently said to Mom something to the effect of “You DO know that the world is going to see what we did here today as sexual!”

Mom was supposedly putting her girdle on. She looks up from fastening the garters, says, “We both know it wasn't! Right?” She then slaps the side panel of her girdle and says, “This is WAAAAAAAY more sexual than anything we did today!” “I don't know HOW you could force yourself to blow out poop, and and pump yourself full high doses of meds that are hard on your digestive system, and sometimes even risk vomiting and say it's sexual! Do You??”

This as she was hooking her bra!

@sse4fun

Long live those wonderful rubber items and that simple pleasure and procedure!

Oh yes! I find it truly amazing all the pleasure I gotten from enemas and enema equipment over the course of my life. Add to that the pleasure this forum has given me.

To some people, an enema was just an apparatus to clear the bowels. However, I firmly believe that some of our Mothers, Dads, Grandmothers, Aunts and Uncles loved to talk about, take, give and fixate on all aspects of an enema. Sexually.

I had an Aunt (one of my Grandmother's eight siblings) who would spend hours in the bathroom giving herself enemas over and over. You could hear the rather loud moaning and the enema clamp, the expulsions, the flushing, then she would fill the bag again and start all over. She had to have sexual feelings or climaxes because she would exit the bathroom, saying she felt so much better!! My Grandmother said she had always loved taking enemas.

Many times my Mom would ask my Grandmother or an Aunt to give her a “good” enema. One time in the mid 1950's she asked my Uncle (her brother in law) who had been a medic in the Navy, the one who gave my cousin lots of enemas, to give her an enema when we were over at their house. “James, will you give me a couple of enemas? In just sick, I'm so constipated!” He grabbed the Ivory Flakes and the large enema bag. They closed the bathroom door and he did give her at least one or more enemas.

There were definite moans and “Ohhhhhhh's". I would have loved to have been a fly on the wall that day but i quietly stood outside the door every chance I got.

She was putting her clothes back on when they finally came out of the bathroom. We left for home across town and as soon as we got in the house Mom headed for the bathroom to expel more. It made me have strange feelings and I was only 8 or 9 years old but already had my fair share of enemas.

I guess that's how I started sexualizing enemas, especially after having a climax during a large hot, soapy one she gave to me. Funny, isn't it.?

I was never given enemas as a child growing up in the 60's and 70's. I was a snooper and found my mother's enema kit at age 13 and gave myself enemas when I had the house alone and have been giving myself enemas ever since. Enemas are definitely all sexual for me. But for those who grew up during what has been called the Gold Age of enemas experienced something different that I think is very reflective our country's view of sexuality during those times.

I would like to respond to this thread with a speculation. I think it is fair to say our country from it's earliest beginnings has always been repressed sexually from it's Puritanical origins. Enemas in the Golden Age was just a way to hide sexual behavior in the name of “medicinal and health maintenance.” When sexuality is repressed it doesn't go away it just manifests itself in some other form that is acceptable for those participating so as to conform to societal norms. Enemas involve full genital exposure and anal penetration- what could be more sexual! Yes many of those who got enemas did not come away with an enema fetish, but for others it was a way to achieve sexual satisfaction quietly and in private and with the knowledge that enemas were “good” for you.

Many here on zity have speculated that their mothers, grandmothers, and aunts who gave them enemas as children were sexually stimulated when they gave themselves enemas. I would say they were right given how sexuality was repressed in the 1940's-60's- and much throughout our history as a country.

So were those mothers, grandmothers, and aunts aware that they were stimulating their children sexually when they gave them enemas? Well I would have to say yes especially if they found enemas sexually stimulating for themselves. Certainly little boys with erections was a clear and obvious visible indication it was having a sexual effect on them. Maybe less so for the girls, but something tells me the givers of enemas to little girls would have also been aware of pleasurable sensations the enemas were producing.

Enemas can and are sexual for many who get them and give them- or why would we all not be here on zity. As long as people engage in sex, enemas for some will be very sexually stimulating.

I would say that the childhood enemas I received up until age 4 were not sexual.. if they were I do not remember that aspect of the process. I do know that it felt good to feel insertion of the enema syringe and a warm squirt of ivory sudsy water into my constipated bowels. The resultant release also felt great!

Fast forward to age 11 and the discovery of my sexuality and masturbation. I was hooked from the moment that first orgasm surprised me as I played with my pre-pubescent cock and after that I remembered the sensation of the enemas I had as a younger child. I put two and two together.. oh my! Well it’s 61 years later and I’m still enjoying enemas and masturbation. I’m sure there are many folks here who had very similar experience. Please share them with us.

ENjoy!

Rock49

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I'm hooked on enemas. I do them. Fantasize over them. They, both giving and receiving, are very sexual to me. I also ponder, why?

To date, my best reasoning is, the need to, and relief of pooping. To feel/be clean, empty.

All my life, “going” on my own has always been a struggle, hard work, pain. With a good enema pleasure.

I want to share that pleasure with a partner, spread the love. I get turned on while giving oral, having intercourse while the bag empties. Being with her as she expels. Sexing her then or her sexing me during those most intimate of moments.

And in the end to be clean, emptied, and so very satisfied…😉🌹

@sse4fun I never believed that my mom or grandma intended for the enemas to become an aspect of my sexuality. They were just a common, and simple procedure, to address various maladies in those times. Besides, our pediatrician and adult family doctor often prescribed or suggested enema use.

Yes, so very true! Also, since I did not like getting enemas when they gave them, they had no clue how enemas would become such a major part of my life once I reached puberty (they had stopped giving them to me by then).

It would be fair to say we didn't know our parents when they where young and cool banging each other like a screen door in a hurricane. They enjoyed each other and enjoyed enemas for sure and carried on the tradition they where not destined for Sainthood 😂 they had the same biological feelings we did. But that's another story isn't it.

@DrStrangelove banging each other like a screen door in a hurricane.

😃😃😃 First time I've heard this expression - funny!

I received enemas from my mom on a regular basis from reducing fevers my mom seeing my BM not right.

her doctor would always ask when was my last enema basically a cure all which they definitely helped. I received enemas to age 11 or12 and then stopped I can’t tell you how much I hated getting enemas. But ones they stopped after a few months I started craving them and I remember looking at the enema bags hanging in the bathroom wanting to give myself one. It was a Saturday morning my parents did the house shopping on Saturday morning knowing they would be out for a few hours. as the car pulled away I ran up to the bathroom and stumbled filling the enema bag I was so nervous but was able to take my first solo enema .I remember using the open top feminine douche bag with the long douche nozzle. I remember sliding the nozzle in and as soon as the enema started following in me I became very hard.

yes since then enemas have become very sexual for me. after getting married my wife as my girlfriend kn about my enemas and she had taken a few not as a sexual thing but she would see how aroused I got as I was taking my enemas and at one point asked me if I enjoyed them .she definitely knew I enjoyed them and before having anal with me would tell me to go clean out.

as time went on enemas became a nor activity before sex we have enough anal since we were dating. Ones she started chastity training and feminizing me enemas became a very strong tool for my feminizing. Yes my addition to enemas has become sexually making me feel very submissive and feminine.

As many of us did, I got enemas from my mother only when I was extremely constipated so they were not always pleasurable.

I found my Grandmother's bag under the guest bathroom sink and tried it myself. Instant love!

Now, my wife and I ise them for sexual pleasure. I was wounded overseas and have trouble cumming. Enemas not only help, but they make the experience incredible.

So yes, they are completely sexualized for me now.

Long-time memories…. Question?

As a child of the 1950’s virtually all of the women in my family took LOTS of enemas with a traditional big bag, long hose with a silver clamp (or sometimes using Grandma’s Higginson attachment on the hose) choosing from various nozzles. It was my Grandma, some of her six sisters, long time family female friends and my Mom and her Sisters always needing an enema. Time in the bathroom did actually seem like a long time. I heard lots of expulsions, moaning, grunting, farting and flushing of the toilet. LOUD EMBARRASSING NOISES. I was a young, budding klismo in the making and I usually listened outside the door, trying not to get caught!!! If I knew an enema was being given, I was all ears. I got pleasure from listening to enema sounds.

Occasionally, a female relative would have to give themselves (or be given) an enema at family gatherings or a couple of Mom’s friends, (Rose and Peggy), while just visiting at our house. They all seemed to have constipation issues along with a stomachache and my Mom would offer to give them a soapsuds enema.

Why all the enema-taking and discussion? Didn’t it bother them in the least if other family members were hearing this?

I know that the majority of Klismaphaliacs WANT and NEED enemas for sexual fulfillment among other things. In my estimation, some of the females in my family could have wanted sexual fulfillment that only a full bag, soapy enema could provide, aka “THE ORDEAL”. They might have even LIKED the embarrassment. (Part of their turn-on?) Who’s to say the recipient didn’t also have an orgasm or more during their enemas??? Is that why, coming out of the bathroom after an hour or so, they announced they felt much better?

I remember my Uncle (a former Navy medic) giving my Mom enemas at their house. Mom said she took her bottoms (panties) off and laid down across his lap. He gave his wife and daughter enemas that way. He had an old black electric vibrator (he put his hand under the elastic strap) and I heard that buzzing off and on sometimes. I asked Mom why I heard the vibrator going during the enema and she simply said, “It relaxes me.” I must have been really dumb but I didn’t put two and two together until some time later. He had to be giving her immense pleasure or actual orgasms amidst all the enema noises.

Feel free to comment, I’d like to have your opinions of this bizarre behavior. Or was it bizarre? Remember, this was in the 1950’s decade. Thanks a lot!!

Inasmuch as I've enjoyed reading about enemas over the last decades, I've learned a great deal from the digitized texts as well as those old medical manuals. We had a book store locally, that had hundreds of old texts that I could peruse for hours as well. I've learned the history of the enema, and it is interesting that societies around the world used them for a variety of reasons. There is no doubt in my mind that there was a sexual component even with the recognized health/medical aspect.

Those discussions at family gatherings when I was young, were so common and enlightening, that it is no wonder that I became so entrenched in the practice throughout my life. While I tried to avoid those ministrations by mom and grandma, I always was a "good boy" for anyone else who was willing and able to indulge me. Those few from real nurses, and later from play nurses, have always been a highlight in my lifetime. I've always made extraordinary effort to assure that those who I administered to, enjoyed the process and had successful outcomes.

I didn't begin to "sexualize" enemas until in my 20s. I got a lot of enemas growing up and well into my teens. Those early enemas had NO sexual implications for me or anyone who had to give them to me at the time.

And as it turned out after leaving home and on my own, I came to the realization that most of the enemas that I had received truly had been out of necessity. The "holding back" habit had been a hard one to break, and one that I had soon realized the consequences of moreso when I was on my own and still stubborn in my idea that it wasn't a "problem."

Long story short (and one I have mentioned here before in other posts), I had to break down and accept that I needed an enema sometimes and usually due to my own neglect. After buying disposables at first when I needed one, I eventually bought an open top bag like the one used on me at home.

I had always thought of the enemas as something 'shameful,' my dirty little secret that I wanted as few people to know about as possible. In the small bathroom of the apartment that I was living in by myself, I feared getting caught by a knock at the door or something while in the middle of an enema or while on the toilet finishing up with the bag still out. I felt it was as sneaky and as shameful as masturbation at the time.

The whole 'taboo' of the situation (in my mind) is when I began to sexualize the enemas. I began to think about them more often. That is when I started to 'sneak' them sometimes and I'd have an enema sometimes when I didn't really need one, just for 'fun.' I masturbated when I was taking a 'fun' one, often fantasizing about someone else giving me one (NOT my mother or aunt!). That other person I fantasized giving me one could had been either a girl I liked, or sometimes that fantasy involved a guy giving me one. All in all my frequent masturbation fantasies began to involve enemas at least in some way. That's how enemas became "sexualized" for me.

It started with mom then I started sneaking them and here I am , funny how the fetish doesn’t doesn’t fade……

I was never given enemas as a child. Not one. My first enema didn’t happen until I was 34 years old. It was administered by my then-boyfriend and was part of an afternoon of sexual abandon. So for me, enemas were sexualized from the start. Still, there was some shame associated with their use because I was aware that the couples I knew didn’t do this. But that didn’t stop us from enjoying enemas as part of our sexual repertoire.

No way of knowing if others used enemas or, for that matter, other kinks. People mostly don't share. That's why Zity is such a valuable outlet. We share.