Sexualization of enemas

I never believed that my mom or grandma intended for the enemas to become an aspect of my sexuality. They were just a common, and simple procedure, to address various maladies in those times. Besides, our pediatrician and adult family doctor often prescribed or suggested enema use.

One thing for sure, the enemas triggered some involuntary reactions very early in my life. The different equipment became an aspect as well. Those items were always in my face, and I knew that I enjoyed those reactions when inserted.

As I read and learned about the various procedures, to include vaginal douching, the nexus became quite clear. Douching as an aspect of contraception in those days, clearly drew that line.

An enema had become a sex act beginning early in my existence. They were a reasonable alternative after puberty, and throughout my early years of dating and relationships, to more frequent typical sexual encounters. Pregnancy was very unlikely as a result.

I didn't see the enema as a replacement for typical sexual interaction, but sure enjoyed them in the absence of opportunities.

Later on, an enema was a great adjunct to typical sexual relations and was quite the aphrodesiac. Eventually, an enema was a pretty good alternative to those little blue pills.

Long live those wonderful rubber items and that simple pleasure and procedure!

Yes! It's true, sexuality was once compartmentalized from both physical and mental health!

Old ideas die hard!

Those that combine all three have the best relationships of all.

I just learned recently about a conversation that happened at the end of an enema session between my parents. Dad had up till then always stepped out of the room when Mom got dressed after an enema session. Why this time was different I have no idea!

Dad apparently said to Mom something to the effect of “You DO know that the world is going to see what we did here today as sexual!”

Mom was supposedly putting her girdle on. She looks up from fastening the garters, says, “We both know it wasn't! Right?” She then slaps the side panel of her girdle and says, “This is WAAAAAAAY more sexual than anything we did today!” “I don't know HOW you could force yourself to blow out poop, and and pump yourself full high doses of meds that are hard on your digestive system, and sometimes even risk vomiting and say it's sexual! Do You??”

This as she was hooking her bra!

@sse4fun

Long live those wonderful rubber items and that simple pleasure and procedure!

Oh yes! I find it truly amazing all the pleasure I gotten from enemas and enema equipment over the course of my life. Add to that the pleasure this forum has given me.

To some people, an enema was just an apparatus to clear the bowels. However, I firmly believe that some of our Mothers, Dads, Grandmothers, Aunts and Uncles loved to talk about, take, give and fixate on all aspects of an enema. Sexually.

I had an Aunt (one of my Grandmother's eight siblings) who would spend hours in the bathroom giving herself enemas over and over. You could hear the rather loud moaning and the enema clamp, the expulsions, the flushing, then she would fill the bag again and start all over. She had to have sexual feelings or climaxes because she would exit the bathroom, saying she felt so much better!! My Grandmother said she had always loved taking enemas.

Many times my Mom would ask my Grandmother or an Aunt to give her a “good” enema. One time in the mid 1950's she asked my Uncle (her brother in law) who had been a medic in the Navy, the one who gave my cousin lots of enemas, to give her an enema when we were over at their house. “James, will you give me a couple of enemas? In just sick, I'm so constipated!” He grabbed the Ivory Flakes and the large enema bag. They closed the bathroom door and he did give her at least one or more enemas.

There were definite moans and “Ohhhhhhh's". I would have loved to have been a fly on the wall that day but i quietly stood outside the door every chance I got.

She was putting her clothes back on when they finally came out of the bathroom. We left for home across town and as soon as we got in the house Mom headed for the bathroom to expel more. It made me have strange feelings and I was only 8 or 9 years old but already had my fair share of enemas.

I guess that's how I started sexualizing enemas, especially after having a climax during a large hot, soapy one she gave to me. Funny, isn't it.?

I was never given enemas as a child growing up in the 60's and 70's. I was a snooper and found my mother's enema kit at age 13 and gave myself enemas when I had the house alone and have been giving myself enemas ever since. Enemas are definitely all sexual for me. But for those who grew up during what has been called the Gold Age of enemas experienced something different that I think is very reflective our country's view of sexuality during those times.

I would like to respond to this thread with a speculation. I think it is fair to say our country from it's earliest beginnings has always been repressed sexually from it's Puritanical origins. Enemas in the Golden Age was just a way to hide sexual behavior in the name of “medicinal and health maintenance.” When sexuality is repressed it doesn't go away it just manifests itself in some other form that is acceptable for those participating so as to conform to societal norms. Enemas involve full genital exposure and anal penetration- what could be more sexual! Yes many of those who got enemas did not come away with an enema fetish, but for others it was a way to achieve sexual satisfaction quietly and in private and with the knowledge that enemas were “good” for you.

Many here on zity have speculated that their mothers, grandmothers, and aunts who gave them enemas as children were sexually stimulated when they gave themselves enemas. I would say they were right given how sexuality was repressed in the 1940's-60's- and much throughout our history as a country.

So were those mothers, grandmothers, and aunts aware that they were stimulating their children sexually when they gave them enemas? Well I would have to say yes especially if they found enemas sexually stimulating for themselves. Certainly little boys with erections was a clear and obvious visible indication it was having a sexual effect on them. Maybe less so for the girls, but something tells me the givers of enemas to little girls would have also been aware of pleasurable sensations the enemas were producing.

Enemas can and are sexual for many who get them and give them- or why would we all not be here on zity. As long as people engage in sex, enemas for some will be very sexually stimulating.

I would say that the childhood enemas I received up until age 4 were not sexual.. if they were I do not remember that aspect of the process. I do know that it felt good to feel insertion of the enema syringe and a warm squirt of ivory sudsy water into my constipated bowels. The resultant release also felt great!

Fast forward to age 11 and the discovery of my sexuality and masturbation. I was hooked from the moment that first orgasm surprised me as I played with my pre-pubescent cock and after that I remembered the sensation of the enemas I had as a younger child. I put two and two together.. oh my! Well it’s 61 years later and I’m still enjoying enemas and masturbation. I’m sure there are many folks here who had very similar experience. Please share them with us.

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Rock49

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I'm hooked on enemas. I do them. Fantasize over them. They, both giving and receiving, are very sexual to me. I also ponder, why?

To date, my best reasoning is, the need to, and relief of pooping. To feel/be clean, empty.

All my life, “going” on my own has always been a struggle, hard work, pain. With a good enema pleasure.

I want to share that pleasure with a partner, spread the love. I get turned on while giving oral, having intercourse while the bag empties. Being with her as she expels. Sexing her then or her sexing me during those most intimate of moments.

And in the end to be clean, emptied, and so very satisfied…😉🌹

@sse4fun I never believed that my mom or grandma intended for the enemas to become an aspect of my sexuality. They were just a common, and simple procedure, to address various maladies in those times. Besides, our pediatrician and adult family doctor often prescribed or suggested enema use.

Yes, so very true! Also, since I did not like getting enemas when they gave them, they had no clue how enemas would become such a major part of my life once I reached puberty (they had stopped giving them to me by then).

It would be fair to say we didn't know our parents when they where young and cool banging each other like a screen door in a hurricane. They enjoyed each other and enjoyed enemas for sure and carried on the tradition they where not destined for Sainthood 😂 they had the same biological feelings we did. But that's another story isn't it.

@DrStrangelove banging each other like a screen door in a hurricane.

😃😃😃 First time I've heard this expression - funny!

I received enemas from my mom on a regular basis from reducing fevers my mom seeing my BM not right.

her doctor would always ask when was my last enema basically a cure all which they definitely helped. I received enemas to age 11 or12 and then stopped I can’t tell you how much I hated getting enemas. But ones they stopped after a few months I started craving them and I remember looking at the enema bags hanging in the bathroom wanting to give myself one. It was a Saturday morning my parents did the house shopping on Saturday morning knowing they would be out for a few hours. as the car pulled away I ran up to the bathroom and stumbled filling the enema bag I was so nervous but was able to take my first solo enema .I remember using the open top feminine douche bag with the long douche nozzle. I remember sliding the nozzle in and as soon as the enema started following in me I became very hard.

yes since then enemas have become very sexual for me. after getting married my wife as my girlfriend kn about my enemas and she had taken a few not as a sexual thing but she would see how aroused I got as I was taking my enemas and at one point asked me if I enjoyed them .she definitely knew I enjoyed them and before having anal with me would tell me to go clean out.

as time went on enemas became a nor activity before sex we have enough anal since we were dating. Ones she started chastity training and feminizing me enemas became a very strong tool for my feminizing. Yes my addition to enemas has become sexually making me feel very submissive and feminine.

As many of us did, I got enemas from my mother only when I was extremely constipated so they were not always pleasurable.

I found my Grandmother's bag under the guest bathroom sink and tried it myself. Instant love!

Now, my wife and I ise them for sexual pleasure. I was wounded overseas and have trouble cumming. Enemas not only help, but they make the experience incredible.

So yes, they are completely sexualized for me now.