Enemas, Zity, the internet and world affairs?

OK, I’ve been thinking about this one for a while and now I guess it’s time to pull the string. Before I really get started, I should say I’m not really sure where to put this so if anyone has any (other) suggestions, or if any of the mods think it would be best moved to a more appropriate place…feel free…or not!

Anyhow, by way of an intro, let me say that I am not a particularly paranoid individual, I’m fairly comfortable with my sexuality and my kinks…and maybe more significantly I’m not planning to run for public office, get divorced, apply for a new mortgage, start dating anyone new (or anyone for that matter). That having been said, I’ve been thinking (not really a RARE occasion, but…) here we are spending a fair amount of time freely and openly discussing our favorite kink (enemas, of course, here; others elsewhere), its/their relationship to our sexuality, many and varied extremely personal details about our friends, lovers, significant others, family (at times over several generations!!) and a whole lot of other stuff that I dare say we seldom…in most cases probably never…bring up in casual mixed company.

Getting to the point (question…) - This board and the discussions, blogs, photos/albums, etc. are a very public forum. Given the craziness that seems to have affected much of the internet of late, are you any more hesitant (or less comfortable) with your posting(s)? Do you think there has been any drop off in postings or new folks joining in the last year or so? And just as an aside, though I think asked elsewhere, where are the new klismos (I really don’t care for that word..klismophiliac is a bit better…but) and other kinksters coming from??!!!??

Have at it!!!!......and then go hang a bag!

P.S. If you care to discuss the details of your latest escapade with “the bag” and your favorite PIS (partner in sex!) just to keep things interesting, feel free.

I guess it’s time to pull the string.

OK, let me tune up mine… ♪ The E string of course! 😁

As for the last sentence from your intro, well it all depends on individual mindset. Thoughtfulness, elective affinities and education are prerequisites and openness is mandatory when it comes to talk enemas. Truth is, most people really would like to talk about such personal instances but most refrain from plain lack of the above whenever a too-mixed company gathers where the risk of being misunderstood by downright trivial minded people is too high. The way I see it, such topic, as everything personal, is sometimes perceived as embarrassing more than gross, the latter mostly taking form in the mind of the prude or sloppy - often both. Plain and simple, enemas is a sensitive matter and deserves sensitivity mated to a good spirit and maybe a bit of humor. So to me yes, it is "seldom" but not “never”. Actually I happened to amiably converse with strangers either skeptic or covertly interested. Sometimes the word pops out casually, other times the topic surfaces just by circumnavigating some other correlated ones. I never point at it as a kink mainly because I, for one, don't perceive it as such. Also it's rather easy to understand when or if to broach the subject just by observing the counterpart's body language. As I said, it's a rare event but not at all that impossible.

Getting to the point…

Given the craziness that seems to have affected much of the internet of late […]

Please specify: maybe I have something to say about yet I don't seem to get it right. What do you mean by ‘craziness’?

are you any more hesitant (or less comfortable) with your posting(s)?

Not at all.

Do you think there has been any drop off in postings or new folks joining in the last year or so?

I've been offline for a long time so I can't give a reasonable answer.

[…] where are the new klismos […] and other kinksters coming from?

Well, let them have a word on their own! However I too feel that most threads seem to involve a rather small number of people, often repeating notions already covered in similar threads, sometimes pushing the boundaries of common sense far into exaggeration or baloney. That's a pity. Coming to fantasy, I like to read stories - there are many of excellent literary and evocative value - but on a forum I mostly like to talk, compare, discuss, appreciate and learn about individual realities. From my everyday social life I also feel that many youngsters are prone to shallow chat and witticism yet rather reticent to discuss personal knowledge and experiences. This is an area where our era's lifestyle and frenzy has made some damage in communication department. Maybe the tendency among many of the new members is to lurk rather than take active part to a discussion, even less to start new threads - but I might as well be wrong. And to say that we're on a dedicated forum… Moreover, I am convinced that a certain degree of sense for such topics comes naturally with age.

P.S. If you care to discuss the details of your latest escapade with “the bag” and your favorite PIS (partner in sex!) just to keep things interesting, feel free.

Nothing unusual here: it's a nearly lifetime affair, unfailingly refreshing, rejuvenating, emotional and relaxing. Weekly or biweekly whenever I have time to indulge. Sadly, no PIS for the time being.

Since I can remember I have always been worried/afraid someone would discover or know about my little secrets. I intuitively knew that putting my favorite crayon up my butt was not a main stream activity for a 6year old! From that day on I have kept my thoughts and activities very private. I always worry about ridicule and exposure, so, no big deal...... the internet is only just another place or thing to worry about!

I have been divorced where my ex told all my friends about my fetish. As they would each individually confront me with questions, I would simple say. “Nobody gets hurt, I cum REAL HARD, and it is really none of your business… unless you would like one”. That pretty much shuts them up except one girl who took me up on it (we dated for a while… thank you enemas!)

So the initial embarrassment was rough, but immediately turned into “who really cares anyway”. Others have much more kinky hidden talents than enemas.

Now if anyone asks about my enema fetish I am very open about it.

It is your life… live it the way you want as long as you don't hurt anyone else (without their permission of course).

Enema love to all!

Jeff

@flatlovin You mean she “outed” you for revenge?

You have to be careful and go slowly. I trust a few with my information and the rest is all deflection. Stay safe people

When I'm taking an enema, the “outside world” outside my bedroom, en-suite bathroom fades into the background. My bowels, the enema gear, and the effect of those things on my stomach, that's what matters in that time.

@flalovin your ex was an ass to say anything to anybody. But I understand how someone can do that. I have a brother-in-law that will tell others anything you might say to him just to make himself look “better” to others. I, we, edit everything that is said to him and his family.

I never say anything to anyone in our real life about our fetish/kinks. They wouldn't understand. Maybe some wouldn't even care. I was not going to run that risk with my family.

With the kids out of the house and on their own I don't worry about it getting back to them as hard. As adults they can handle the information better. But I don't plan to try that out anytime in the future.

My favorite MedFet partner is @flalovin.They I do not remember how we met, (my husband met him first).

…here we are spending a fair amount of time freely and openly discussing our favorite kink ….

Like most people, I think, we have a mixture of vanilla and kink friends. So fortunately have had an outlet for many years on some of my intimate details.

are you any more hesitant (or less comfortable) with your posting(s)?

Comfortable and if my play partner reads my posts or stories they can also get into my brain. 😃.

And just as an aside, though I think asked elsewhere, where are the new klismos ….and other kinksters coming from??!!!??

I have told two friends and I know one has told one more …

P.S. If you care to discuss the details of your latest escapade with “the bag”…

Recently had quite the experience with my play partner. He used a very long nozzle, not well versed in the types of apparatus, but hope post an image or two. Hope for more of this play in the future, maybe thicker as well.

As for me, the internet is where I have found most of my enema partners since I was 25. The first real enema partner I found was when I was 15. It was a girl I was dating who mentioned it once. I had given myself enemas before and had others give them to me, but never in a real sexual way. She wanted to both give me some enemas and receive some enemas from me.

Today when I think of taking enemas from someone else, it gets me really excited. Yes, i do like to be given enemas and to be somewhat tortured by them as long as they do not do any type of damage to my body inside or outside. I like them from both females and males. I will also give a female or a male an enema if they want me to do it to them.

I do find most of my enema partners on the internet. I look here on Zity Biz as well as other websites and on Craigslist for my enema partners.

Speaking of being outted.

My home was burgled once. The door was kicked in and all of the electronics and power tools stolen.

I returned home from work and wondered how did I leave my door open.

Upon inspecting the house for missing items, I noticed that my enema bag, hose and several nozzles were hanging on the shower curtain rod drying from the night before.

I fear that image of my bathroom, a picture of my house and/or me appearing on the internet from that/those crook(s).

But that has not stopped me from enjoying my enemas.