Do you like being watched while you expel your enema / contents

Grab your favorite nozzle and sit down; this is important.

We all do it, what goes in must come out. And whether you deny it or not, it is a major reason why we take, love enemas.

So some enjoy, embrace, and even come while expelling. While others close the bathroom door and they won't even talk about it, even virtually.

I am not talking about scat, I find it gross, too. I am talking about the rush of liquid and chunks that are all part of the enema process.

Turned off by the smell, burn incense. Embarrassed, take a cleansing enema first, then you and your mate can enjoy the ultimate, personal, intimate, and loving experience.

Please, if don't want to do it in person, at least try it virtually. Who knows, with the right partner, you might even love it…🌹

I am primarily a solo user but I have played with a partner on a few occasions. The expel time for either of us was not a closed door affair but a necessary part of getting enemas. I see it more as a pragmatic issue not necessarily as a negative or positive. Do I want to stand next a partner while they expel, well I would say it's not something that is sexual a turn on for me. I can think of an example where the expel for myself or a partner would be a turn on and that would be trading shower shots. This would only be done after both of us have completely cleaned our colons prior to stepping into the shower. Seeing a gush of clean water exit an ass after a shower shot injection is sexually exciting for me, as it would be for me if I was the one doing the expelling.

When I know I have an upcoming enema play date scheduled, I will give myself several enemas to clean myself out prior to the fun enemas that are to follow with my partner. Yes the sight and the smell of those first few enemas is not pleasant in anyway so that is why I do a thorough cleaning prior to the fun enemas. This way you've removed the unpleasant aspect of enemas before you start the fun enemas. This frees up each partner to relax and indulge themselves in the erotic pleasures of giving and receiving enemas.

I like to stand or squat in the bathtub and let loose then wash it down the drain and squish chunkies to go down better.

My first wife and I stayed with other when expelling holding and rubbing each other, our backs. IT was a very intimate time, I sure miss that.

Giving your partner oral while they are expelling, or receiving it yourself, with the right partner, can ease the passage, and be very rewarding and sensual for both…

Am in total agreement. I enjoy M4M enemas., and always want my giver with me, or if I give, to be with the recipient during expulsion. Like others, not into scat, but the expel is an important part of the enema. I always want a good expel. I hate those enemas that get hung up only to be urinated out later. Expelling time is great male-,male bonding time. Tend to talk about other subjects, but for me, am always waiting for my giver to tell me how much of a “good boy” I was taking my enema.

At first I was too shy to expel in front of my enema-friend nurse; I would run to the bathroom and close the door when I had to go. She tried to coax me into letting her watch, but I was reluctant…I didn’t want her to think that I was gross….One day she gave me a large soapsuds enema and announced that she was going to cure me of my shyness regarding expulsion and she promptly locked the bathroom door so I couldn’t get to the only toilet in the house. She then pulled a big stainless steel bedpan out from under her bed and placed it on a chair. I then got a lecture about how pooping was totally natural and that as a nurse she had seen a lot of pooping. I had no choice but to sit on the bedpan and produce a river of excrement and noisy farts. My nurse complemented me on doing such a good job and I lost shyness….especially when she reached down and used her hand to massage me and I was in heaven. From that day on, we always shared expulsions and I loved it.

I think it would be a turnon and a power trip for me to watch a recipient expel all of that crap because just knowing I caused this onslaught of bowel purging gets me hot!

@eeetime So some enjoy, embrace, and even come while expelling. While others close the bathroom door and they won't even talk about it, even virtually.

In my case I enjoy, embrace, and even come while listening through a closed bathroom door while my gal is expelling.

I have been on both sides of the coin with this one.

I have had a sub that requested that I be in the bathroom for support and continued BDSM (worked her nipples while she sat on the toilet holding the enema, making her stop mid expusion and hold it, etc).

Most other playmates requested privacy during expulsion. It is something we discuss beforehand.

Personally I prefer to be alone while expelling. It is time to myself to reflect on the enema and what is in store for the next one.

I have a Toto toilet and have been able to cum while the bidet portion is pushing water against my hole. Pretty amazing!

Whether from Mom, or other relation ( Mom's Sister / Aunt ) during my enemas, they were always around in the bathroom while I first start started expelling on the toilet as they “ rinsed the equipment out ” to hang and dry on a towel bar for me to see, while gas and squirting came out of my bottom.

THEN .. Being made not to flush, for THEM to look at what I did. If not suitable, I was given another enema, or enemas, until they felt that I was cleaned out.

After getting aroused at an early age with the BULB, then our bag, I did get erections but could not figure out why. That is until another neighborhood kid who shared his experiences with enemas, then showing me about masturbating for whatever reason, as he coaxed me into removing/ pulling off my underwear and jeans to masturbate me. When I first told him that I need to pee, he kept stroking me, then asking if I needed an enema ? That made me blow my 1st cum shot all over my belly.

I went home drained, thinking about masturbation and enemas after this, and spent lots of time showering, and finding a way to “ sneak enemas ” to play, and feeling embarrassed as I expelled by myself.

Absolutely NOT! Expelling is a private thing for both my husband and myself and certainly not in front of anyone else!! Denise

Sorry if I offended, but IT WAS what IT WAS during MY experiences growing up, and my Mom / Aunt always decided if another enema was needed. Seeing / having to show the “after” was the norm for me albeit embarrassing.

Over the last 20 years I have been to many enema nurses, my best guess is 12. During that time, 2 wanted to be with me while expelled. I told them both yes, it was OK to watch and talk during the expulsion. The other enema nurses never ask and I think they missed out on some qualify time with me.

Over the last 20 years I have been to many enema nurses, my best guess is 12. During that time, 2 wanted to be with me while expelled. I told them both yes, it was OK to watch and talk during the expulsion. The other enema nurses never ask and I think they missed out on some qualify time with me.

This to some can be ??? “ iffy ”??? During my times at either an earlier age or with a significant partner, I've found that many giver's become aroused by being around ( cleaning up, etc. ) while I was letting go of the water they just gave me. On some occasions, they would sit on the tub edge just talking or rubbing my belly, or other's just walking away.

I had a very pretty x-ray tech give me a tap water cleansing enema in preparation for a barium enema. While i was in the restroom expelling the enema she came in to check on me. She stayed and talked with me while I was expelling. This was an awesome experience. i was both embarrassed and turned on, at the same time. Wow.

HELL NO!!

Expulsion is the worst, yet most necessary part of the enema!

A good enema is all about thorough expulsion. Yet it is something no one wants to see, or smell or watch the person expelling being sick!

Not at all!!!

Definitely not….As an adult person I consider myself a liberal minded male that is fairly accepting of most “bents"

Kink can go only so far

I’ve never done that with anyone else present. However I have a trusted Switch Domme GF who enjoyed giving me enemas as her sub. If she wanted to stay and watch during expulsion (or as Domme required me to let her watch), I think that would be a lot of fun and just add to our usual D/s enema dynamic. But as I say, only with such a trusted partner.

Eric

For me, it's not a matter of “like”.

If I've taken an enema, expulsion is solo.

If I've been given an enema by a nurse or playmate, I fully expect to be watched while retaining on the toilet and when the enema kicks in and makes me poo. The “results” are checked to be sure I pood completely, both any hard poo lumps and lots of soft also. An incomplete poo merits another full bag, which is promptly given.

The same applies if I give an enema to a woman. I expect her to sit and retain the enema for the required time, to soften her poo and have an easy passage, then release it. Of course, she is mortified to have to release in my presence the first time, but the enema completely removes the option of waiting me out. She is not allowed to wipe or put paper into the toilet until results have been checked.

My feeling is if an enema is to be given, either for constipation or play, it is expected to pretty much clean a person's bowel out fully.

Also I think it's only fair to be treated equally, whether you are the receiver or giver of an enema. You should be willing to receive as you give.

When my siblings an I were kids we didn’t have a choice in the matter with either mom or grandma. As we were expelling the soapy enema, they were fixing the rinse enema. With grandma, enemas were done in private, however with mom, enemas weren’t private. She gave my brother, sister, an I enemas together. So we saw each other expel every time we got an enema. Another factor, was our parents house, it only had two bedrooms and one bathroom. Hence, we shared a bedroom until we were in our mid to late teens, seeing each other naked almost everyday. Even at our grandmothers, we shared a bedroom. After our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene as preteens and we started giving each other enemas after school in the afternoon for various reasons. Expelling in front of one another had long since become second nature and never crossed our mind.

No! Do not want to be watched or watch expelling. Also like to air out the bathroom and turn on the exhaust fan when done. Giving and receiving the nozzle is what turns me on.

I have told this before. The girlfriend who started me on enemas would look after each enema and she could judge if I needed another enema or not. That led to her sliding a finger in and wiggling it to make me expel. I objected at first. I probably turned twenty shades of red. This was like after the second enema. She liked to look at my vagina while I was expelling with her finger in my butt because she said I pushed harder and it looked like my vagina was going to prolapse. She thought that was cool. She also liked to watch it in the tub after two or three enemas. She is the only one that ever watched me. Of course, I made her let me watch her but that was mainly to embarrass her back. But I never watched like up close. I would just stay in and talk and look when she was done. All done when mostly clear to clear. It was still embarrassing. But if you live with someone you take the good with the bad. After we were both clear then we had no fear of putting something in back there.

No. For a sub it can be a powerful lesson in humility; and a very humbling humiliation.

I would rather have someone watch me take one than expel one.

Definitely not….As an adult person I consider myself a liberal minded male that is fairly accepting of most “bents"

Kink can go only so far

Don't forget, many people would say that enemas are a “kink too far”. There are many things I will and will not do regarding enema play… but that does not mean I don't respect everyone else's fetish. My two cents…

A great quote from Thomas Jefferson… “Give me enemas or give me death!”

Depends on the contest,but expelling in front of whoever gave me the enema is a strong form of submission and humiliation.

It can be a great turn on… or punishment.

@SubOllie it can also be a big turn on for the watcher. Know everything is working out all right 😉

And getting oral while listening…

I can see this as a personal choice. As a giver or receiver of enemas (or mutually shared), there's already a level of intimacy associated with the giving, taking, or sharing the actual filling process of the enema. The choice of completely sharing the total enema experience through expulsion is a one of mutual comfort and, ultimately, trust. I accept that some just don't feel comfortable having someone present while the contents of their filled bowels are discharged.

There are others for whom it is a real turn-on, not because they like or need to examine the bowel contents. Rather, it is sharing the intimacy and relating to your (and their) own sensations of release. In my relatively small number of shared enemas, being present during expulsion or having others present hasn't been a problem. It felt a little strange at first, but among klismophiles it seemed “natural.” Sometime later, I recognized a similar sensation the first time I went to a nude beach. Although it was unusual in a clothed world, there was the realization that I was among people who were comfortable in and with their own skin and being nude was both the point and very natural.