Yes! Receiving an enema (in an erotic/sexual context, rather than a medical one) is absolutely a submissive act for me. There’s something deeply liberating about lying down, closing my eyes, spreading my cheeks for my lover and breathe deeply as he lubes me up, first on the outside of my anus, then with a couple of finger, as far as they will go, inside. He will talk to me gently but in a no nonsense manner as he gets my body -and the nozzle- ready for the enemas I so desperately need and crave. He knows that I need to suffer some to derive the most pleasure from the experience, and is aware that a decent amount of pain is necessary for an enema to do its job in my pissy bowels, and he will give me exactly what I need.
Does it require an extreme level of submission? Yes. I trust him completely and he has helped me come to terms with my medical stuff (IBD, gastroparesis, Lynch syndrome) and I am so grateful for that. As I let him push the thick nozzle inside me and decide how fast or how slowly I should be given my enemas, how harsh or soothing they should be, I get more and more turned o (depending on whether he believes I need a good clean out or I have earned a slow, erotic filling he will pick the right solution and, as he does so, he explains the rationale behind his choices: I appreciate it very much even though I don’t have any desire to participate in said choice. It’s part of the beauty of submission for me). I take what he thinks I need even if it hurt. I will moan and I will struggle to hold his sometimes very warm and very soapy large volume enemas, but I know that he is giving me what I need, and there’s no point in fighting it. Surrendering to every single sensation is much more rewarding and pleasurable than fighting t enema, so I let my body open itself up to the solution and to what my lover is doing to me and for me.
He will acknowledge my suffering and comfort me, encourage me to vocalize what I am experiencing, praise me as I let the soapy water fill my bowels, and rub my tummy as I ride the cramps. He will always be loving and keep my well-being in mind, and will give me every last drop of solution I can safely take. He does not rush me and knows how hard it is for me to relax sometimes, but will not let me get away with any excuse to take a smaller enema or to hold it for less than my very best time. He will help me get through everything as long as I fully submit to him and to the bag.
As I get close to the moment I really have to expel the enema, my lover will tease me and stimulate my hungry clit, rub, pinch or suck on my nipples, squeeze my cheeks and kiss me and hold me. He will praise me some more, especially if I have been given a rough enema, and will get me closer and closer to having a massive orgasm, and will tell me he wants me to come (also a very submissive experience for me) as he helps me to the toilet and will make sure that I have both powerful expulsions and climaxes. I love to let go of control like this, and I feel so incredibly better and happier and more content afterwards.