That's an average day at my house.
I need and use diapers ,however I don't really have control over it ,as I don't have the physical body ability to “control” that .
My aide is completely in charge of medications, diapering, dressing Getting me into my wheelchair and securing me into my chair ,my chair is designed to a “supportive coccon ” that I can't be badly hurt in or deform
.some asshole tested the crash worthiness of my week old $35,000 chair last June .
I was hit by a truck 35 mph and dragged about 30-40 yards ,yes I had exquisite case of road rash everywhere and everything man made on me that day didn't survive diaper,clothes ,watch,phone,,tablet,wheelchair all will never be those things again ,after being spun for hours in the MRI the worst injuries on me they could find was broken ribs ,that chair died protecting me ,and sure it's a huge ass pain dealing with insurance to get a week old chair replaced ( when does “insurance ” make anything easy or efficient ?)
Anything I can't do ,which is alot ,I have people that do it for me .ADL's are an automatic anything optional depends on the day ,what do you feel like eating ,do you need a backrub,are you inpain ? Etc
I would love to be able to do alot more myself but since that isn't in the cards ,I can accept having someone else in charge of ensuring I am prepared and supervised to keep me safe and secure day to day .
Something's people fantasize about are just that fodder to fantasize about.
Diaper checks don't happen ,and wetness indicators are jokes .
We know I will be wet and need changing ,so that's scheduled not something that needs checking ?
Since I eat depends on when I get up and I am hungry ,medication has to move with meals ,so messing happens based on food and medication ,I can't control it or feel it until after it happens so messy diapers are changed as needed upon request.
My restraints and positing are designed to keep me in The same"neutral position everyday ,I don't say decide I want to hunt by my ankles with a hood on.instead of 8 pointed,it's the same everyday silicone gel padded neoprene (AKA wet suit material)
well on a 4" thick sculpted air/ rubber cushion it's tapered to channel my body into one position and full thickness were body doesn't belong such as near the edge and between the legs ,my legs can't be opened or closed more than they are to protect hips pelvis etc..
Having the body of a full grown man with the physical abilities of an.infant wouldn't be my first choice ,but you adjust and adapt as needed until you run out of quarters and the ride stops.
Bluetooth voice Control and automation.have made life easier ,being able to have your AI do things is awesome especially when you go from naptime to I want to say listen to music watch tv etc .
So enjoy your fantasies and where and when able indulge them ,no time like the present ,find a playmate and go for it .
Life is short ,dead is long ,so play play play..