How important are the rituals that you do prior to anal play?

I savor the rituals that come with making love when anal pleasuring of one kind or another is involved. My most erotic memories - those that I go to when I masturbate, include times when @sirensong and I have made 'plans' for what we sometimes humorously refer to as 'naughty play'. Early yesterday afternoon, Sirensong called and invited me to prepare for such play that evening, which I did while 'butterflies' danced in my belly. I'll write more about our special date later...

One of my favorite memories is of a cabin near the Napa Valley in northern California. Sirensong planned an enema for me as an 'I love you' present. She sent me away to walk among the trees while she made all of the preparations. She arranged the spot where she would administer to me - a sexy-looking fainting couch, lit candles, prepared the bathroom, picked out the nozzle that she wanted to use, and laid out towels and lubricant..... bathed, set her hair, and made herself up to be 'take-your-breath-away' beautiful; then dressed in an incredible see-through white lace gown. I was only to return to the cabin when the porch light was turned on.

To me it is so erotic when she makes the preparations for 'naughty play', and has everything ready and laid out for me. My level of excitement is increased to where I could orgasm with the slightest touch, knowing that she thought about and actually planned something so decadent for me. I wonder if my preparations for her excite her in the same way?

Varies with the woman.

One older colleague who was quite a strong personality at work surprised me. First she aggressively came on to me, which I loved, and took me home to have vanilla sex, wonderful but nothing kinky. Soonafter, her true self emerged. She was extremely anal oriented. She liked to be made to present her bare bottom to me, very embarrassed, to have her anus “inspected”, me verbally telling her what to do and then describing what I see and do to her. Sometimes I explained it all ahead of time before she removed any clothing. She loved and kinda hated knowing exactly what would be done to her. Those evenings always ended with my cock and cum inside her ass.

Another wanted to begin by playing doctor. Including me calling her at work that day to “confirm your appointment with Dr. Richard tonight”. When I arrived, I removed the items from my doctor bag so she could see them before the exam began. Gloves, flashlight, thermometer, lubricant, etc.

One woman, a conservative looking librarian, had no ritual or preference. But the one thing she always wanted before anal intercourse was for me to finger her anus while she was face down, always two fingers, always with Vaseline. In and out and twisting, usually about 5 minutes, then her bottom was ready to be fucked. A prep maybe, not really a ritual.

This topic has got me thinking a lot now about some old memories.

While there are certain procedures I find effective, and less difficult, I try to avoid ritual.

While there are certain procedures I find effective, and less difficult, I try to avoid ritual.

I don't know it this could be called a ritual but more a technique that was enjoyed with several partners.

I'm very oral. I love giving oral. I am patient and responsive to my partner. At the right time, when she is naturally lubricated, I begin to explore and probe her anal region. If her ardor increases, and she doesn't brush my hand away I know a good time is in store for us both.

Oral, combined with digital anal stimulation can lead to multiple orgasms followed by vaginal intercourse. Then comes the magic words, “please put in my ass.”

As I was wet from her vagina, and her anus dilated and lubricated from before, penetration, from behind was typically an easy passage. What I enjoyed the most from these wonder women is they digitally stimulated themselves as i rode them. Passions building as out came those immortal breathless words, “come in my ass, now!”

Aw, sweet memories…🌹