The best implement for spanking

@ruthiney how long ago and why was that used on you?

Got me thinking about the Fuller Brush salesman who would come around selling brushes.. My mom had one, wooden with a wide back…. surprised to see the company is still in business.

My favorite as a spanker is the paddle or brush and in some cases the belt. When getting spanked definitely the belt or the paddle. I love the hand as a warm up in either case and when giving or getting the paddle I enjoy a small one that works in the over the knee position

I like instruments compatible with OTK and supporter OTK position, hand, brush, short paddle.

I also like instruments that can make me cry (real tears and sobbing).

The classic of all life was the hairbrush

It all depends on how much you want it to hurt. We have a silicone paddle and a hair brush. The hair brush really hurts factor 10. The paddle I'd say is an 8.

I have recently purchased a tase 14” in length I’d like to try that,hair brush definately hurts,I do like a good belting and now I have tasted the cane and I think I am rdy to have it used a little harder and stricter and as a sub the one doing the spanking has the final say in what will be used and severity,I’d also like to add recently I have been meeting someone who indulges my spanking enthusiasm he does very well and I think I’m rdy to turn it up a notch with severity but I want him to stay in his comfort level as well maybe our next meet will tell 😊

I’ve been spanked with only a few items besides the hand. I don’t know that I have a favorite and being that these were spankings I received growing up I’m sure they are pretty plain compared to what others are using.

Besides the hand, I’ve been spanked with a belt, hairbrush, ping pong paddle and a wooden paddle.

It all depends on how much you want it to hurt. We have a silicone paddle and a hair brush. The hair brush really hurts factor 10. The paddle I'd say is an 8.

I would like to find a hairbrush that sting more than a silicone paddle.

For me by far it is a paddle, and a wide one at that. A spoon really hurts as it is almost a point contact. A wide paddle spreads the force over a much wider area. For me that means a spanking can go on for a very long time with out real skin damage but ever increasing excitement and wild erotic pain. We move from leather paddles to wooden ones and finally finish off with a 100 strokes from large oak fraternity paddle.

@Cal ….. and finally finish off with a 100 strokes from large oak fraternity paddle.

Those paddle are too thick/massive and really bruise.. would have to hit lightly, no?

@reddevil I can take a lot of paddling and here is my secret. I start out being restrained on a spanking bench. Then my top massages me, teases me with a feather, probably a vibrator and some anal teasing. This makes me pretty aroused and quite ready for a paddling.

The paddling starts out very gently. The reason for that is to get a lot of blood flow to the capillaries on my ass. All that blood flow acts like mini shock absorbers and tends to prevent bruising. Then there is a buildup of spanking with leather and then wood paddles. I like to be spanked very fast and with ever increasing intensity. That is guaranteed to drive me into having a whole body orgasm, where I just thrash about, try to fuck the spanking bench and go quite wild. Finally we top it off with the frat paddle. Yes it is very large, but that does indeed spread the force over a larger area.

You would probably be surprised how much you can take and indeed want to take. I get to the place where I long for it to stop…but not quite yet. Anyway for me this isn't punishment but high erotic excitement. So your top needs to read you and adjust their force accordingly so that you have a wonderful time, it isn't meant to be torture but fun.

The paddling starts out very gently. The reason for that is to get a lot of blood flow to the capillaries on my ass. All that blood flow acts like mini shock absorbers and tends to prevent bruising.

Isn't bruising caused by capillaries bursting from trauma? https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/healthy-aging/in-depth/easy-bruising/art-20045762

“Most bruises form when small blood vessels (capillaries) near the skin's surface are broken by the impact of a blow or injury — often on the arms or legs. When this happens, blood leaks out of the vessels and initially appears as a black-and-blue mark.”

On March 10 Masha said, “In Russia, jump ropes (also called “skipping ropes” somewhere) …. strict parents start using them for a punishment, “because the belt doesn't work as effective”. These are not actually the “ropes” …. made of flexible rubber-like plastic, or a rubber-covered wire. Thin and flexible, and leaves the ugly “loops” on your butt.”

Syringe hoses can have the same effect and depending on how soft the rubber (real or synthetic) is the result will be different. Using a syringe hose to punish a naughty bottom was something my mother experienced and, sadly, felt it so effective made sure her kids also benefited from the family enema bag in non-traditional ways. Using syringe hose to spank with likely wasn't common but I have read several accounts of its use back in the day.

My favorite item to be spanked with is a woman's pyramidal studded belt

@gwhap This is only my theory, people have commented that I don't seem to bruise after a pretty hard paddling session. I think it is because of my warmup rather than just starting to really pound hard. I offer no scientific explanations. So my theory is quite likely to be utter drivel.

@Cal It's not drivel - just an idea. For some reason you don't bruise. Maybe the warm up helps, maybe you just have really tough capillaries!! 😡. Enjoy.

@LindaB Syringe hoses can have the same effect and depending on how soft the rubber (real or synthetic) is the result will be different. Using a syringe hose to punish a naughty bottom was something my mother experienced and, sadly, felt it so effective made sure her kids also benefited from the family enema bag in non-traditional ways. Using syringe hose to spank with likely wasn't common but I have read several accounts of its use back in the day.

This is something I've mentioned in other threads - but never gotten replies to. So, at last I see someone else who knows about the use of the enema/douche bag hose as a spanking implement. If there is any more you can mention, be great to read..

My Mum used half a leather belt ,

For me, a medium weight leather strap. The London Tanners Domestic Discipline strap is well made, and imparts a meaningful sting.

My mum used a wooden spoon on me

Growing up as a young boy and well into my teens, my mum would always use a wooden spoon or a hairbrush on my bottom where my dad would use his hand or the slipper. All of my spankings were always given to me on my bare bottom until they finally ended once I left school

@archie1961 ….. dad would use his hand or the slipper.

As soon as I read that, I figured you're from the UK as the slipper is so popular in your country… growing up here in the USA I never heard it mentioned when I was young..

Ooooo lots of different choices for this.

I like thuddy things vs sting-y so my favorite is a deerskin flogger Followed by a leather paddle. My least favorite is a rattan cane as that HURTS. Doesn’t mean I won’t be on the receiving end of one but you asked what I LIKED 😉

Definitely a flogger, absolutely my favorite. Belt or strap next. Not a fan of paddle or cane. If no implements handy, a nice warm hand works! I especially love hands while my ass is played with. Happy girl when that happens..😉

@Wolfgirl66: Like this https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Martinet.jpg ?

@Peacannutjob Yes! I do love a heavy leather flogger!! And it just so happens I have a beautiful deerskin one …. Fun times!😉

An Oak Paddle gets my attention very quickly and makes my naughty bare bottom bright red and stingy.

I grew up in the 50's and 60's. My mother would use the wooden spoon either on the seat of my pants or my bare bottom depending on the seriousness of my transgressions. When I was younger my dad would spank me with is hand and it did hurt. As I got bigger, he also used the wooden spoon on my bare bottom over his knee. By junior high he began to use an oval wooden hairbrush made by the Fuller Brush Co. School used a wooden paddle. They all hurt!! I think being over my dad's knee getting the hair brush on my bare buttocks were the spankings that I remember the most. The message that I did something wrong came through that way!!!

The wooden spoon was always the worst option for us growing up.