How clean can you be ?

Not sure if this is allowed for discussion but something I worry about all the time and no idea what is normal.

I love being rimmed and anal touching but cannot enjoy it if I feel any chance of not being as clean as possible.

After a shower or even a bidet I still feel its possible to have some residual just inside.

Is this normal or do folks have another way to ensure spotless?

Thanks..

The beauty of being able to answer your question is that opinions are like asses...everyone has one. Your comfort level with how “clean it is back there” is completely reasonable. Personally I enjoy rimming and being rimmed as well, but do not like the sensation that I am licking a soap dish. After all, if I was seeking absolute cleanliness, I wouldn’t be exploring back there with my, or anyone else's tongue 😛. So while I try, to and expect my partner to be clean back there, it is more about knowing that whatever happens, it is safe and reasonable efforts have been taken to be clean.

For me, the optimal manner in being clean is to swallow a good dose castor oil: Some hours later you will be able in feeling clean.

If you want to learn about enemas you’ve come to the right place. There are a lot of opinions and posts about how to do them here on Zity. Look and learn.

I love rimming, starting when I was 16 with my high school girlfriend, then with different women I dated, was in relationships with. Of those 20 or so women over the years, only one did not want my lips and tongue “back there”. I have zero interest in scat, none, but I’m realistic that a person might be a little unclean but I’ve never been rude or demeaning to a woman those few times when, let’s say, a shower was in order.

Fortunately I can say that during the many times I found myself between a woman’s cheeks, the anal area was almost always absolutely clean. And yes I always look closely before, just as part of caressing and exploring her. But things can get intense, fingers and tongues make their way into her bottom, sometimes hers into mine. It gets slippery and passionate and messy, sex is like that. Are we clean inside? I don’t know. One girlfriend loved being rimmed, would stay facedown legs spread for as long as my tongue would last, but she never rimmed me and admitted that even if I showered thoroughly right before she just couldn’t do it. It’s definitely an issue for some people.

Thanks for your thoughts so far, all good, I guess a follow on question what is normal back there, certainly not a soap dish :-) but always some ... if you wipe deeply.

@Touchthisntht, I never measure enema volumes. I keep filling and expelling until clean water is the only thing that comes out, and then maybe again. A finger check gives me an idea how clean my rectum is. At this point in time I'm very familiar with how my lower bowels work and react. I can 'just tell' when I'm clean. Then the fun begins. I only take enemas to clean out for deep insertion.