What are your thoughts about Punishment Enemas?

Never have, never will.

I don't believe enemas are punishment. Enemas serve there own purpose. Spankings are punishment and are very effective. I have been given a spanking before a enema , because my Mom told me to get ready for a enema and and I would not cooperate with her. I refused. Well after she spanked me I was very cooperative, I excepted the enema and did my best to follow her every instruction, because she promised another spanking if I didn't. Well I didn't have to get ready for the enema, since my pants were already off and I was bare bottom for the spanking all I had to do was lay down on the towel on the kitchen table.

There’s been quite a bit of discussion about punishment enemas in the past. You can argue it isn’t punishment if someone agrees to it – but like most BDSM activity there is agreement to submit to punishment (spankings, floggings, nipple torture etc.). Between consenting adults – enemas can be a great addition to BDSM or DD punishments. Here’s some links if you want to read further. There are more that tend to deal with punishment as children that I didn’t include. Certainly, don’t advocate enemas as a way to punish children.

Punishment Enemas https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=28

Genuine Punishment Enemas. https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=12858

Masturbating during Punishment enemas? https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=26515

Enema for punishment, for pleasure, for humiliation….I'd do it! For me an enema is sexual, if it is given to someone without it being so, then never as punishment.

But for me, if I'm being a brat then punish me with an enema please!

For me an enema is either a medical treatment or an erotic pleasure, with the emphasis on pleasure. I don't believe in punishment enemas.

I still believe that the punishment aspect of enema play is all about perspective. I've posted previously that I perceived that the enemas I received when young, were a form of punishment for doing something wrong or for an omission of something expected. I really disliked those early enemas from mom or grandma, and believed I was being “punished”. Toilet training, with enemas or suppositories, was certainly an act of discipline, either positive or negative depending on the approach of the “trainer”. The pediatrician played into this with his direction and demeanor.

Later in life, capitulation to the control aspect, sometimes can enhance the role play scenario. In one scenario, I was sent to an enema nurse who utilized enemas to correct negative behavior. This was arranged by my controlling mother who no longer could tolerate my foul mouth and inability to control my involuntary reactions to enema administration. While this adult playtime produced positive outcums, it was all in fun.

I totally agree that “punishment enemas” in real life interactions are negative and potentially dangerous. Enemas in a consensual adult role play can be quite enjoyable. Enemas as a modality for therapeutic rest and recreation are near the top of my choices, especially when coupled with massage or other manipulations that enhance those outcums. Few things elevate my overall sense of well being like a good enema session.

BTW…it took many years to realize that those enemas I got when young, were not punishment, but perhaps an outdated or misguided attempt at getting me on the right track as I grew up. In hindsight, I learned a great deal about the positive aspects of a good enema!

Funny how enemas either treated our transgressions / misbehaviors at an early age, and. caused us to be klismos. Most of our outbursts came from a combination of crankiness due to growing up, or simple bound up constipation.

What may seem like a punishment to one may have pleasure for another. Everyone has different feelings about pain and pleasure, and what excites them, so it isn't the same for everyone. As long as the activity is consensual among the participants then it is between them.

Different strokes for different folks.

I have always wanted to receive a punishment enema. Just part of my submissive being. Would be wonderful.

I have never had an enema as punishment and I have a little problem with the thought. An enema should be threptic irregardless of the reason such as constipation, excess gas, toxicants elimination, pre op or the countless other reasons. I'm sure that an enema could be made to be punishment by making the volume beyond the patient's comfort level or by spiking the solutions with something caustic or cramp predicting but can that be done safely? If you want to punish someone for whatever reason, I believe that it would be best to stick with more traditional methods.

The whole idea of BDSM does not do much for me. Perhaps it's an acquired taste, but I have never been interested enough to stick my toe in that water. I prefer enthusiastic participation by both parties.

I currently have two ladies that I service with erotic enemas, which they take enthusiastically. I also spank them at their request, not as punishment but because they like spankings.

Both of them want spankings because they received them as children and as teens from their fathers. One lady even has me use the belt her father used on her. The other lady was made to go cut a switch for her spanking. When she returned with the switch, her stepfather made her drop her panties to her ankles and hold her play dress above her waist while he striped her butt cheeks and the back of her legs.

I enjoy everything about each lady’s enema series. Two warm, full bag SSEs and a full bag rinse. When I remove the nozzle or colon tube, I insert a butt plug and make them hold for 10 minutes or until they cum, depending on the situation. One lady likes masturbating while holding and the other likes her enemas after I’ve spanked her.

I like both scenarios and I enjoy making erotic photos and videos while administering their enemas and spankings.

I only wish I had more ladies to service with enemas and spankings.

If you want to punish someone for whatever reason, I believe that it would be best to stick with more traditional methods.

DDell is completely on target with this. If you want someone to be cooperative about taking an enema for you, you don't do anything to put negative connotations in their head. I never got an enema as punishment nor have I ever given one for such a reason. To me it just makes no sense at all.

In 3 words, “ no thank you! ”

I think punishment enemas can be appropriate in adult play. Growing up I had more then my fair share of enemas, but none were really given as punishment. They were given to clean me out. As an adult, I have had a few punishment enemas but they were given with spankings and corner time. Also, the solution was more intense, i.e., crampy and I had to hold it longer than you would a normal cleansing enema. I have thought a good punishment enema for me would a milk and molasses but I am really looking for one. it would would really be dependent on the dom and what they felt was appropriate for me. In punishment with spankings and enemas a lot of it the mindset of the receiver. A good dom can set that in motion.

I find the domination aspect of administering a good hot soapy punishment enema with the appropriate role-playing to be very stimulating. Enemas have always seemed to seemed fascinating to me - probably a penis-envy thing what with the soapy white water shooting out of a big thick nozzle resembling semen shooting from a penis.

I've had a dominant female partner give me a punishment enema. She filled me up with two quarts of warm soapy water, given with an enema bag. During this time she spanked me with one hand and masturbated me with the other. I was also made to retain the enema, which was painful. I did spurt all over her hand.

Whatever floats your boat💕😍😜As long it’s safeplay and consensual please go ahead. The emotional duality of spanking and enemas has always been some members idea of fun. My late father spanked me a lot until I was in the fifth grade (he always used a belt), not fun at all and my enemas have always been solo. When I was a bachelor I did combine self spanking and enemas because I was in control of how much it hurt. My ping-pong paddle felt great😍 Now I like watching some of the erotic videos with spanking and enema punishment themes😉😜😍😳

All of my long-term disciplinarians have utilized punishment enemas in some fashion or another. I think the difference to me is that those same people never gave me what people are referring to as an erotic enema, so maybe that skews my view a bit! I'm not sure how I'd react to mixing the two.

What are your thoughts about Punishment Enemas?

I am only going to address enemas involving consenting adults (some in CNC P/E relationships) and only the enemas, including delivery systems and additives, (not the spankings or humiliation that often seems to go with them). People like and dislike different kinds of enemas; some like the sensual and erotic, some like 'funishments', some like a combination. If it is an actual punishment enema, there will be NO liking or enjoyment involved before or during it, though there may be euphoria or a sense of renewal and joy afterwards, due to endorphins released by pain. (There may be 'collateral' physical expressions that present during a punishment and these are nothing more than a physiological reaction to physical stimuli.) Some practice sensual, funishment and/or punishment enemas at different times. It is up to each individual to dig deep and understand which of these they are receiving/giving and the deeper reasons why they like or dislike them and the combinations and contradictions they have about those feelings and reasons.

((Stepping down off of my soapbox.))

Let's just say there is a time and place for everything.

Hopefully those here are able to use common sense and know what they are doing.

As the "Hippocratic oath" says and we all should remember, "Primum non nocere", "First do no harm".

So play and enjoy, administer and let the water flow....................................................................................

I’ve never had any experience with enemas, outside of a couple that were self-administered. For role play, I wouldn’t see any issues with it, but for a true punishment, that’s a bit harsh.

Consenting adults can explore but for me-Nope🙈 I like erotic enemas for sensual pleasure😜😍😉

For adults into BDSM play, and who don’t like enemas, any enema could be considered punishment. For others, it can be a challenge, funishment, or just another form of discipline and control. A masochist might just want the discomfort and pain from a punishment enema.

I never got an enema as punishment. I strongly believe that using such enemas is a very bad idea. Medical treatment should not be a punishment. However, I see only one exception - when it is a game between adults.

That must be amazing. I wish I could get filled for misbehaving.

As the "Hippocratic oath" says and we all should remember, "Primum non nocere", "First do no harm".

And 'harm' is -very- different from 'hurt'.

Considering an enema is an extremely sensitive act to begin with , so on top of all that you add a dash of wonder and excitement to the mix and well , there is bound to be a sensual moment .

As long as _ NO _ permanent harm is done , then I would find nothing wrong . Keep in mind the sub needs to be aware that if he or she acts up and becomes bratty , then a punishment and a loving lesson in proper behavior might be needed .

Also , the top / dom needs have proven worthy of being a Dom / Mistress or Top and that their way is what is best .

I can only imagine that such a scenario would have a most worthy outcome !! ( please forgive the intended pun !! )

SO long as kindness and compassion are there , then yes !!

Later ,

T.

Punishment enemas are a natural followup to a good spanking. If a women's behavior warrants a good bare bottom spanking then a punishment enema is a second reminer for her to think twice about her being naughty. But a punishment enema is just that, for punishment.

But enemas should also be adminisered at other times, when a women needs to be cleaned out or just so she can enjoy it.

I have always seen the enema as "child-like" and naughty ... secretive ... playing doctor ... perhaps punishment like, but not punishment in the sense of B&D or SM