What are your thoughts about Punishment Enemas?

Not making a universal declaration here, this is just me and i see kinks and connection as very individual, not a generally applied method or idea.

That said...

my kinks are connected to real needs and desires, i despise 'role play.' To me (again, only speaking for myself here) "role play" is a denial of reality, it's acting. To me, "acting" is playing is not real.

i cannot imagine a relationship or scenario where i'd truly perceive myself as needing punishment from another person. "Discipline" that has roots in punishment seems fake to me as well, because i cannot imagine a relationship where i'd truly see another in a superior position, where i honestly see them as superior and me deserving of being punished by them. i know there are those who see themselves on either side of this slash, i don't.

Here's where it gets tricky lol.

i am a total bottom with some sub. i am deeply aroused and will bond to a Man Who uses what i perceive as "affectionate, lustful (even needful) degradation/humiliation." i qualify "affectionate/lustful/needful" because that is Their manifest reason that i connect to, not meanness, bullying, force.

For me, there's an apparent paradox, because i am simultaneously deeply aroused and nurtured, and also experience feelings of degradation and humiliation. my nurtured arousal deepens when He is purposely influencing those things in me with a combination of affectionate lust/need on His part. To me, the "affection" is born out of His gratitude that someone like me exists to nurture His lusts and needs. It's symbiotic, not what i see as imbalanced.

i see enemas in this context. For whatever reason/s, enemas can arouse me while also evoking feelings of degradation and humiliation when done as by a Man as described above. i don't feel punished though, i feel loved and nurtured and embarrassed, degraded and humiliated at the same time. If His intent is to 'make' me feel those things out of force or meanness, it doesn't happen. If His intent is to uncover and evoke those things, He is in control... and getting fed by His own power and control using those things in me.

There may be feelings that are often associated with punishment (humiliation, embarrassment, degradation), which adds to the mind fuck of it, but it's different.

The times have changed. I don't think children are given enemas as punishment these days. Society sees this as abuse...

@Aquarius this discussion is not about giving children enemas. The topic is about adults and punishment enemas, with consent, or personal experiences about ones own punishment enema experiences while growing up. Discussing children and kink/fetish on Zity.biz is not allowed unless it is in the context of ones personal experience.

I had a partner who believed that lying, cursing and other verbal transgressions were punishable with soapsuds enemas in the rear and mouthsoaping in the front. While I was never on the receiving end of this belief I know for a fact she did in fact practice what she believed; severity of the crime established the extent and application of the procedures.

I met a wonderful woman here and we've been talking for few days now and am VERY fond of her.

Much more so than just an E friend. I didn't plan it that way, it just happened. If we meet, I want everything to be sensual and comfortable for her. We will try some of her little kinks. She likes spanking & hair pulling but i don't think i could pull her hair. My momma raised me not to pull a girl's hair or throw sand (the latter for which I did get a punishment enema). 😁

This topic is about consenting adults involved in a dom/sub roleplay scenario using punishment enemas. It is not asking for comments about actual minors, whether it's personal memories or not. Those posts discussing personal memories, giving opinions on the right or wrong of punishing children have been removed or edited.

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I like to give and I like to receive punishment enemas. I do not do it everyday but from time to time it is a good change.

I wouldn't mind receiving and/or giving one consensually in a playful not too painful manner as long as both finally enjoy. With the necessary trust, sense and sensibility it's at least worth a try.

As a wife and sometimes A MOM to my wonderful husband of 40 years, the thought of punishing him by giving an enema is not in my nature.

However, there have been rare times when he was sick, and I told him in a very calm manner that he was going to get an enema. Either I was going to give it, or would he prefer that I call our doctor and she would send her nurse to do it. I think he actually believed me when I threatened to call our doctor!

Punishment enemas in an adult role play scenario can be quite fulfilling and perhaps even release some pent up emotions or aggression. An enema for attitude adjustment may well harken us to times and circumstances long past.

After all, wasn't/isn't discipline alledgedly done with love and to help make us better people and/or lovers?

For some folks, maybe an enema for punishment works, but I look at enemas as primarily erotic gifts. Could they be given to a partner who is out of sorts? Well yes, for attitude adjustment, perhaps, but still a gift, given good heartedly, maybe combined with a massage.

I'd love to receive several as soon as possible. Anyone near SE New Mexico care to do it?

The only "punishment" aspect would be in building the mind fuck for my submissive friend. The actual administration is done carefully and gently. I want it to be sensual, to control but not deny her pleasure.

Since I’m a member here I like enemas. However, I have a mistress whom I visit periodically. We begin sessions with normal conversation before moving to play. A spanking followed by punishment enema. But how can it be a punishment if I like it.

I guess it’s a mind game. Letting myself be taken under control and being spanked followed by the inevitable enema is a turn on. Being told, “I am going to give you an enema whether you like it or not.” makes it easy to go with it’s a punishment. Yeah it’s make believe, I know. But it’s fun, exciting and still a bit embarrassing to be exposed and vulnerable. A punishment enema? Oh nooo! Please no! Meanwhile the little voice in my head is shouting yes yes yes! Works for me.

And I get to visit mistress in a few days. I will receive a punishment enema. Oh no, how terrible!😁

@cnmtman This is where people get confused because of how they are using words, there is punishment and there is what some of call funishment(fun). There are those in relationships where there is punishment and is done as maintenance spankings, etc. because it is something they need and crave. It gives them relief, makes them feel loved, etc.

@Master_Dorson

Agree, but would add that perhaps in my case there’s a bit of maintenance. Why? The overwhelming feeling of peace and contentment I feel afterwords. I describe it as being put in the moment for a couple of hours. When I stand before this lady and she is in the process of taking down my pants all miscellaneous thoughts disappear. No thoughts of things I need to do, worries or concerning myself with life’s daily issues. Only- damn she’s pulling down my pants. When she begins spanking it’s near impossible to be concerned with anything else. So though it’s pleasurable it does seem that it could be regarded as somewhat of maintenance for the effect it has afterward. I maintain some sanity. What a great escape from my reality if only temporary. Refreshing and cleansing mentally and physically. (Especially cleansing- the enema)

Its a mixed bag as it were. A good enema is always a nice addition to a proper bare bottom spanking but a women should also appreciate and desire her enemas.

So punishment enemas are a good discipline but you don't want her to associate all her enemas as punishment as she should request them when they are needed.

Thinking about it perhaps the manner of expulsion can be used to separate the two types. If she is shy, making her spread open and expelling in the shower while you closely inspect the process would add a degree of punishment, while allowing her to expel in private would be reserved if she was a good girl and took every last drop without complaint.

To be honest however love to watch the expulsion.

Personally, I would never use an enema as punishment. But, when I was a kid, my Mother, gave me one, because I had asked for it! (That enema was the only punishment enema I ever got from her or anyone else)

I had ruined a neighbor’s floor by scratching into the tile “Mom, will you please give me a big, hot soapy enema”

His mother was a nurse and I thought she’d do it… one problem was my neighbor was a retarded gentleman, who couldn’t read..

Anyway, my Mom honored my request and boy was she mad.. actually, I enjoyed that enema more than most of the others she gave me.

But, as I said before… that one was the only one that she ever gave me.

In addition, she made me use my paper route money to replace the floor in the man’s room… ouch

For me taking a slight soapy warm enema of 2 liters is an effective and short lasting manner to cleanse the large intestine from all the waste deposed there: From the beginning of the enema flow to the last bowel movement will pass 15 minutes. So I don't understand why I should do this as a punishment.

The feeling of taking an enema should always be combined with relief, so in no case with any form of a restriction.

The punishment enema is an urban myth because everyone that got an enema that was meant for punishment secretly loved it !!

I had a female friend about ten years my senior who always encouraged me to think of her as "auntie" although we were not blood relations in any way. One memorable occasion some years ago she "caught" me masturbating over some anal porn. She announced that I was to receive a punishment enema as a result of my disgusting behaviour. As an added element of humiliation her tall redheaded friend (whose name I unforgivably forget) & who happened to be visiting at the time was to be present to witness my punishment. I was duly stripped naked & secured across the kitchen table with velcro straps while my aunt prepared the enema. Three quarts (a little more than I could comfortably take) just a couple of degrees warmer & with a little more soap than usual. My aunt lubricated my anus while her friend seated herself to get a good view. An inflatable nozzle was pushed in without ceremony making me yelp then whimper as the solution was allowed to flow freely & without stopping until the bag was empty giving me cramps. I was then released from the straps & made to stand in front of the two women. I was bright red with humiliation which wasn't helped by the fact that I had an erection like a tent pole. After a few minutes squirming & some lewd comments from both women I was told to go to the bathroom, expel, shower & dress. At no point was any attempt made to touch my hard-on but once on the toilet I wanked myself furiously. As my aunt's friend was leaving an hour later she did confide to me that the whole thing had made her so wet she'd nearly slipped off her stool!

NEVER!!

I am still waiting to have it happen to me. For the time being I self-administer and I do get some rather awesome orgasms

One memorable occasion some years ago she "caught" me masturbating over some anal porn. She announced that I was to receive a punishment enema as a result of my disgusting behaviour. As an added element of humiliation her tall redheaded friend (whose name I unforgivably forget) & who happened to be visiting at the time was to be present to witness my punishment.

Getting an enema for looking at anal porn.

Is it only me who thinks there is something humorously hypocritical about the 'punishment'? I'd say the 'auntie' was rewarding you and enjoying herself into the bargain. It was a real good excuse as excuses go ... ha ha

Getting an enema for looking at anal porn.

Is it only me who thinks there is something humorously hypocritical about the 'punishment'? I'd say the 'auntie' was rewarding you and enjoying herself into the bargain. It was a real good excuse as excuses go ... ha ha

Similar to throwing gasoline on a fire to put it out! 💥🔥