Do cramps enhance your enema experience?

Eric, I've tried everything from 0*C (32*F) water with ice floating in it to just vaguely cooler than body temperature. Real ice water hurts, but it also numbs the nerves and is less effective for me anyway. I find I'm more likely to experience orgasm-inducing cramps with water about 10* Celsius (50 *F). Yesterday I was doing just cold water from the tap which is pretty dang cold in January, but I didn't measure the temp. Probably sixtyish.

Diane,

Thanks for answering. I've never tried a cold or even cool one though I'm becoming more curious as time passes. My only related experience was once a Domme told me to put three ice pieces in my rectum. It felt so extremely cold that it was painful and I thought it could cause freeze damage to the tissue. I pushed them out, endured complaints from the Domme, and never did it again, so I can understand your feelings that icy water hurts as an enema. However, all my enemas for 50+ years have been at least neutral with perhaps only one or two accidentally cool enough to have me feel a just barely cool sensation as it touched my rectum. It was pretty pleasant, so I may try cool enemas again sometime. I just enjoy the feeling of warm water entering my rectum so much that I haven't tried it as yet.

Do you require actual cramps to be able to orgasm with enemas? As if the cramps trigger or are required to set off your orgasm? Or can you still masturbate or have sex and orgasm with a non-cramping enema just from the enema sensations? The latter is what I experience. I prefer enemas with no cramps or very mild ones but the multiple enema feelings from insertion to filling to pressure to distention somehow become so erotic that often I have to orgasm before I've filled completely with a full bag. No cramps required, great orgasm.

Thanks, and happy enema orgasms!

All the best,

Eric

When my ex wife an I had sexual intercourse, with one or both of us, holding a two quart salt and baking soda enema with a butt plug inserted, mild cramps helped enhance the experience. If she was holding and got cramps, her abdominal and rectal muscles tightened in response, causing her rectum to clampdown on the butt plug tightening her vagina muscles around (putting pressure on) my penis. When this happened, I could actually feel the butt plug in her rectum with my penis. If the cramps were strong enough, it caused her vagina to tighten down enough, so I could barely move my penis back and forth, if at all. If I was holding and got cramps, my abdominal and rectal muscles tighten in response, causing my rectum to clampdown on the butt plug putting even more pressure on my prostate, causing me to push my penis as deep into her vagina as possible. Occasionally, We each held a two quart enema with butt plugs during sexual intercourse. The up side to this was, the pleasure from both holding during intercourse was enhanced over only one holding, however, the down side was, the chance of an accident happening was greater.

We only engaged in this activity in the bathroom. And before someone asks, if we ever had an accident while engaged in this activity. The answer is, yes we did. However, we always cleaned ourselves out before hand, just in case there was an accident. Hence, when our first accident happened (before we had butt plugs), we only had a throw rug, bath towels, and the bathroom floor to clean up. Plus ourselves in the shower, where we finishing what we started, before the accident. The first accident was the motivation that prompted us to purchase a couple of butt plugs. Once we started using butt plugs, I don’t recall a major accident only some minor leaks.

I don't really feel like I've had a good enema if I don't have enema cramps while I'm expelling. I mostly take hot, frothy Ivory soap enemas and boy do they curl my toes! They make me very sexually aroused and have caused many fantastic orgasms (some rectal and some vaginal); however, sometimes I've cramped too hard and got nauseous or threw up or cried. So you have to be careful.

I sometimes miss my Mom's ministrations with the amber bag being raised and lowered. She would make the soapsuds so hot and strong that she knew I would cramp and be cleaned out good. But she also made her own enemas strong and crampy.

I don't really feel like I've had a good enema if I don't have enema cramps while I'm expelling. I mostly take hot, frothy Ivory soap enemas and boy do they curl my toes! They make me very sexually aroused and have caused many fantastic orgasms (some rectal and some vaginal); however, sometimes I've cramped too hard and got nauseous or threw up or cried. So you have to be careful.

I sometimes miss my Mom's ministrations with the amber bag being raised and lowered. She would make the soapsuds so hot and strong that she knew I would cramp and be cleaned out good. But she also made her own enemas strong and crampy.

MEG,

I love reading your enema orgasm posts, and you're definitely a braver one than I at least as far as painful cramps enemas go! Glad they're so good for you. I'd actually like a Domme if I can find another here, to challenge me a bit with gradually increasing amounts of Castile soap and maybe mild glycerin over a few enemas so she can watch me cramp more but gradually getting me used to it. Might be very erotic. No invasion of privacy intended or requested, but I must say I'd dearly love to watch and listen to one of your crampy soap enemas! And orgasms.

Have fun and keep your erotic posts coming..........

Eric

Regarding use of cold water for an enema - Sometimes when doing allot of hot enemas, my rectal opening swells up and I seem to have trouble expelling, so I use a small cold water enema hoping to shrink things so I can then expel the rest of the hot enema that still in me. It only works so-so.

I am not a fan of cramps. Sometimes they're appropriate and I've suffered through them or made others suffer through them, but I am not a fan.

No, I try to void them by deeply breathing, or stopping the flow for a few mins.

If I am getting or taking an enema I have to masturbate in order to get past the cramps. I am multi-orgasmic so the cramps do enhance my orgasms. Even warm water in my bag which is two quarts brings on cramps. So I don't have to do anything else actually.

@Moms_Egirl

Love your post... “hot frothy Ivory soap enemas. “ Just the way I love them.

Only if very mild and not associated with a different feeling of very low rectal urges to expel, which I really detest. Most of my self-enemas are designed to produce either no cramps or occasionally very minimal ones. To me, there's never been an association with or need for cramps to stimulate me to SN orgasm.

Eric

If cramps are more than mild, they do not enhance my enema experience. I currently have an enema once per week. I can remember receiving enemas at home from age five until age nineteen, and my most vivid memories are the painful cramping from a solution of warm water and chunks of Ivory Soap that were mixed together in a large bowl and then poured into enema bulb syringes or an enema bag. I would feel apprehensive when I walked into the bathroom and saw a jar of Vaseline, Ivory soap, and a large bowl. Did others receive warm water and Ivory soap enemas? Feel free to message me or chat with me if you would like to discuss enema experiences.

I personally don't like cramps. The enema should flow to the bottom as gently as possible. Then I have time to think erotic thoughts and perform sexual acts. If I have to constantly think about how to keep the bottom closed, then there is little eroticism in it. Safe nozzles also do not help completely in such cases, because it is difficult to transfer attention from the storm in the bottom to the genitals and the woman.

I'm not a fan of cramps ... love everything else about them but not the cramps.... insertion, water flowing in, and even the release.... love it all.

Any cramps all always welcome up my ass. Waiting for the right person to really make my ass work hard for relief. Home experimenters pm me.

Regarding use of cold water for an enema - Sometimes when doing allot of hot enemas, my rectal opening swells up and I seem to have trouble expelling, so I use a small cold water enema hoping to shrink things so I can then expel the rest of the hot enema that still in me. It only works so-so.

This happens to me alot to. My ass expands inside and i have to fuck it hard to loosen up.

I like cramps and I think I get a better clean out with cramps. I like to use Dr. Bronners Peppermint soap for the first enema. I don't measure, I just put a squirt or two in a two quart enema. That produces good cramps for me, and the beginning of a good clean out. I also like the feeling when the cramps are over.

To me, an enema isn't a good enema without bad stomach cramps. When you release alot of gas and poop, they eventually end. But oh, the feelings of your belly getting twisted with a bowel full of enema, the kind that makes you a little nauseous and cry out. Mama made sure I cramped and that I made all kinds of loud expelling noises and smells. At the start of the SSE, she always told me that she was going to really make my stomach cramp. She was right.

I have posted on other threads that I do try to avoid cramps. I think cramps are the most intense sensation an enema can create, but it's almost like you are turning up the volume on all the physical sensations of an enema to the point it becomes painful. Some like to get into that zone, while others stop short of it. My Goldlilocks zone is where the enema is producing a fullness feeling and a spasmatic urge to expel. The fullness feeling is something short of a cramp, but still creates a resonating feeling throughout my entire pelvic region, which expands the level of pleasure as I am about to orgasm. I have described an enema orgasm as being more expansive compared to a masturbating orgasm. It's like the difference between mono stereo and surround sound.

Some of us like to play our music loud and make it very intense, while others are more into soothing and relaxing listening. I guess I like my enemas to be soothing, relaxing and erotic without turning up the volume to 11.

@tabitha32: If I am getting or taking an enema I have to masturbate in order to get past the cramps.

You are right about masturbation alleviates cramps while taking an enema… when I'm not using a DBRN I will sometimes use a vibrator to get past the cramps an take my 2.5qt strong soapy enema. But I stop masturbating before I orgasm, so as not to lose interest in what I doing. I then like the cramp to set in once I'm holding/expelling the enema.

For me, cramps identify parts of my colon that need attention. If I concentrate on the exact location of the cramp (it takes some practice), I can get it to relax, and it opens up and allows the water to pass. It feels good when it does that, and yes @Tabitha32 , masturbating while that happens feels wickedly naughty! Even so, I feel like I'm helping a part of my body.

Well why argue with mom and grandma when they said, “a good enema is always going to become uncomfortable at some point, michael……so ”pant- pant like a puppy". Yes, cramps have to be part of the enema but I try to guage that by using a more mild soap solution and only a small amount of Dr. Bronner's. Here is my solution: 3 quarts of a very warm water; Ivory bar soap; baby shampoo; essential oil; baking soda. As long as it makes me full and have the need to “pant” without becoming nauseous then I feel I have made grandma and mom happy as their good little enema boy…. michael

Yes they do. Probably because mom believed it showed the enena was working. So as an adult the suffering adds to my arousal

Yes cramps where moms or my Aunts enemas to this day they are fun

Absolutely. It lets me know it’s working and I’m getting enough water as well

I love the cramping and it is part of my goal to receive cramping. I understand some people prefer soft calming enemas but for me personal crampy and slight pain is enjoyable. It reminds me what I'm doing and the more I have to hold it in and experience cramping the harder my orgasm is

@Nurse_Ema what solution do you use in your enema bag?

I think at least moderate cramps are part of a good enema. I use either ivory soap, neutrogena or castille soap - all of which create nice cramps for me. The cramps enhance the holding of the enema and make me well aware how full I am. The harder it is to hold the more intense the orgasm.

Mom and grandma both said that a good enema has to be uncomfortable at some point. Accordingly, the whisperings of that first faint “weak” feeling in my tummy that continues to build as the pressure increases is an essential element to my enemas

@EnemaAndIvory I have done the salt water which was meh no cramps. I did a suppository and then the water which again was mild cramps. But today I did lemon and water and omg it was beautiful. Perfect amount of cramping and uncomfortablness and fullness.

I picked up milk and molasses today so that is next on my list.

Nurse Ema,

How much lemon juice in how much enema water? Retained how long? Thanks,

Eric