(WOMEN) rimming: relaxing or erotic?

Ladies, when you are being rimmed, do you enjoy it because it relaxes you or because you find it erotic and sexually stimulating?

I’ve noted different reactions.

Among the 20 or so women who I’ve had the pleasure to rim, I’d say almost all enjoyed it because of the sexual stimulation, the erotic sensations both physical and mental. At least that’s what they shared with me, the ones who were willing and keen to talk about it. Quite a few never ever discussed it, just too shy I guess, but their moaning and deep breathing and panting and pushing their bottoms against my mouth gave them away every time.

But one woman I dated for about a year had a very different reason for enjoying me licking her *there*. She found that it relaxed her tremendously and put her in a sort of dream state which she loved. She was a tall, blond choir teacher who spent her day working in schools and churches, which I found very interesting. So she’d always be dressed quite conservatively when she’d come over after work. But those clothes usually came off quickly. She was very comfortable with her own body as I quickly discovered. As I explored her gorgeous backside one afternoon, I gently parted her cheeks because I wanted to look at her anus, I had never seen it before and was so curious. She didn’t flinch so I spread her wider and asked “is it okay if I look at you here?” “MMM HMM!” was her reply. Feeling emboldened I leaned in and softly kissed her bottom hole and then gently licked it with the tip of my tongue for a long time. Later I asked about it and she smiled and said how good it felt, how relaxed it made her. As I rimmed her she was rather passive, saying “MMMM” rather than moaning, and she never touched herself when I did it. She really did seem relaxed. One day she told me something interesting. She said being rimmed reminded her of her sister. Now THAT got my attention. But what she meant was that as kids they both discovered that they loved having their feet tickled, that it was pleasurable in a relaxing way. She said all through childhood and their teens when they’d watch TV, they’d lie on opposite ends of the couch and gently tickle each other’s feet because it was so relaxing and felt so good. She never hinted that it was anything sexual. Anyway, she said having her anus licked gave her the same sensation. I will say that I must have rimmed her 100+ times while we dated, and I always asked permission first, and she never said no. Sometimes she was naked, other times she’d just lower her pants a bit or lift her skirt. Interestingly, she refused to rim me (even if I’d just showered) but loved to fingerfuck me, which I learned in the shower one evening when she suddenly pushed her soapy finger deep in my anus without warning or asking. Fortunately, I loved it!

Last, just to mention, one woman I dated briefly (the first French woman I ever had sex with), absolutely hated rimming and forbid me from not only licking her there but also from touching or even looking at her anus ever again.

Interested to hear others opinions and experiences.