A couple questions:
1. HOW is the enema a punishment? Quantity? Solution? Nozzle type or size? Just that it's an enema?
2. Is the punishment real (forced), or is it something you secretly desire, but have to be forced to take? Do you tell the person punishing you that you "need this?" Or does the subject come up because they tell you that you've been bad?
3. How much are you given? Solution? Quantity? Nozzle type? Lube?
4. Is the person giving them to you a regular partner? Male or female? Do you switch, and give as well? Do you do this as part of roleplay with "others." (one timers, or a few times, but don't live together or see regularly).
5. Do you take enemas on your own, or ask for them from someone else? How does the punishment enema differ from the ones you take or are given when you want them / need them?
Thanks in advance to all who answer, and especially to @Enema_loving_mature_woman for the idea (I think her intent was different, but her latest post stimulated my thinking as a Dom who loves to give to all kinds of female receivers, but especially submissives who need / want them, or who need / want discipline).
Sorry, not a woman here (straight male switch), but my switch ex-wife Domme (female) used to love giving me large, long-retained enemas, while subjecting me to our other kinks at the same time to increase my arousal and submissiveness. I was usually the sub enema receiver, but sometimes she wanted a sexual enema so we switched places.
Answers:
1) Never a punishment, either in our D/s enemas or IRL. However, our D/s scenario was that she was totally in control of my enemas and other kinks and the more she did to me, the more aroused and satisfied she was. So she selected the volume, solution, speed and nozzle, usually saline, 2 enemas totaling about 3-4 quarts after restraining me, and latex DBC. Though technically not given or referred to as punishment, she'd often push my limits of volume and retention time and make me do chores after filling me. So the "punishment," really just one particular act she liked to inflict to make me feel submissive, helpless and humiliated. So the submissive act was just a big long enema.
2) my enemas were "forced," i.e. consensual, but something I really desired but given and acted as if it was an ordeal to let her enjoy watching me struggle to hold.) Never said "I need this" to her. Just part of her enjoyment of dominance to give it to me. Lots of "discussion," meaning her narrating how much she loved dominating me with enemas, and my moaning, groaning and begging which promptly ignored.
3) Volume 2 enemas but had to hold both together, totaling about 3-4 quarts, saline or water. If we'd been married longer, she probably would have started changing the solutions to make me more submissive, like soap and/or glycerin.
4) Always trusted switch Domme wife or GF, always female. Never with anyone else excepting a few enemas from a pro Domme long before my second marriage.
5) Yes, many enemas taken solo last 10 years, not much difference in solutions, except now I sometimes use Castile soap and/or glycerin. Shorter hold times solo, usually 30-60 minutes while enemas from my ex-wife were as long as she wanted, usually 3-4 hours. Occasionally she'd make me hold it overnight.
Great memories. More detail if anyone's curious.
Eric