When Did You First Realize You had a Medfet?

I was just wondering when did you first realized you had a medfet? Was it something that developed over time? I think for me it was 18 and getting a DRE by a very handsome 20 something med student.

Well, my medfet isn't for exams; it's for masks. It started probably at 8 or 9, but I can't remember the circumstances where I was first turned on by a girl patient in a mask. I can only say that it was a "black beauty" anesthesia mask. Fairly quickly, probably in my tweens, this mostly shifted over to seeing girl patients in protective masks, like surgical masks, N95's (see my username) or (in the case of Stanford Hospital) half mask cartridge respirators.

And I think I knew that I was turned on pretty early on, and that it wasn't some other emotion, but I wasn't aware of the word "fetish" until adulthood. Now, at 44, I embrace it.

Hello jp62837 and Thank You for the topic.

In June of 1971 I had a crushing injury on both hands. I was working at a Zayre store in the Hardware area. I was pulling a heavy wooden box off of a scaffold. I slipped backwards and held on to a piece of sharp edge angle iron with both hands. The box was about 100 pounds and it fell and hit my four fingers on each hand. The hands that were on the angle iron. I was bleeding badly. My boss called my husband. He came and took me to the hospital. I had fractured most of my fingers. I did not have stitches but I would not be able to use my hands for about three to four weeks.

I was a newly Wed 21 year old girl with no hands. It was all up to my husband to take care of me. And take care of me he did. He took four weeks off from school and work. He did everything from feeding me to wiping my bottom after going to the bathroom. He kept me clean and made sure he gave me all my pain killer and medications. He changed my Sanitary Napkins and he kept me perfectly clean. He helped me to the toilet to urinate and have my bowel movements. I was constipated from the pain killer so he slipped a finger in my bottom to lubricate me with Vaseline.

After about three weeks something began to happen to me. I was thinking about the nice warm baths my husband was giving me. The pampering of my bottom and around my vagina with his soft hands cleaning me, and how he gently dried my breasts and the rest of my body. I did not know it at that time but I was falling in love with all that.

On a Saturday morning I was sitting on the toilet trying to move my bowels. I called my husband for help. He got the Vaseline and knelt in front of me. He slipped his finger in my bottom and began to remove the stiff stool. He was so into helping me he did not realize that I was beginning to shutter inside. My head went to Never Never land and his finger in my bottom triggered a very odd, yet exciting feeling. To the point to where I started to shake and push my anal opening hard and deep against his finger. I cried out as I recall, "Oh push oh push deep I'm going to explode" I did not know that anal explosion was called an orgasm. I knew a vagina could do that but not my rectum.

Both of us fell in love with that. Medfet has been a big part of our lives since that day. The only thing that has happened over the years is, It Just Keeps Getting Better. There was always room for new things and enjoyment. It's been one helluva fine marriage and there is always room for new and exciting adventures. The human body is full of wonder and love!

Gwen or Loud Mouth, either fits! 🌹

I have always liked physical exams. I liked to be the centre point of someone’s attention. To be touched and examined. I didn’t realise i had a medical fetish untill i was 15, when i realised that not everyone enjoyed medical exams.

@jp62837 Was there a particular reason for the DRE when you were 18?

For me, jp62837 (post #1 ), I know that I was made excited my such thoughts even before puberty - at which time, though, they became particularly sexualised for me and I started slowly to realise that they were gay thoughts!

Maybe compare my post a few minutes ago on 'Vulnerability' (post #4 ).

- Ken

I believe it was a combination of experiences that led to the fetish. Surgeries and dental procedures as a child. Also my aunt was a hygienist. Just being vulnerable and young while having to rely on medical professionals that were strangers helped create the fetish. I did not start to really put everything together until I was a teenager, and then fully understood it by visiting sites like this one.

I’ve fantasized about other guys getting physical exams since about 10 but I never realized that other people had the same fetish until a few years later when I started searching physical exams on the internet. I didn’t know that it had a name until I found this site ( which has probably been about 12 years ago or so.

During my physical exam at age eleven, I began to feel butterflies in my stomach and a tingling sensation in my genitals as my female pediatrician examined my abdomen. It was more pronounced than years past. When she progressed to the genital exam, she maintained eye contact with me. Her hands were inside my underwear. I remember feeling both aroused and embarrassed. I realized that I was becoming erect. She continued to touch me and I went with the feeling. I became fully erect. When she pulled my underwear down, my fully erect penis popped out. She looked at my penis and smiled at me. She patted my stomach and finished the exam by stretching both my legs. My fully erect penis was on display.

In the weeks following the exam, I would become erect just thinking about what happened. I began to fantasize about my female classmates undergoing a similar exam. This became a recurring masturbation fantasy in high school and college. I definitely knew that I was aroused by exams, but didn't know that it was a fetish shared by others until I began searching for images and stories online.

When I was you I’d always played doctors and nurses rather than cops and robbers and other games like that but didn’t think anything of it. I’d just assumed I might want to be a doctor when I was older but that didn’t turn out to be correct.

It’s wasn’t until late teens that I stumbled across some “examination” porn and that hit the spot. From there my interest developed over time, quite slowly, and ultimately led to me wanting to receive an examination myself.

@jp62837 Was there a particular reason for the DRE when you were 18?

@MedFet_AL I honestly don’t remember. I do remember going home right afterward and masturbating.

It was after my exam at 13. That’s when I started to think about what the exams of my friends and people at school would be like. I had played doctor before that but I never really thought about exams outside of those play experiences before 13.

For me it probably all started from playing doctor as a kid. However, I don't think it was until in my teens that I realized it had probably become a fetish for me. I remember looking forward to any physical exam I had starting in my teens. However, that excitement that I felt then for real exams has really turned to more dread than anything else, since as one gets older one worries more and more what the doctor will find that could be serious trouble. However, now I just try to recapture my joy of exams through play exams as a compensation for no longer enjoying real exams as I once did.

When I was 10 plus old while watching goosebumps one of the episode about cloning where they measure the body and all that make me into something.

then when I am 13 while searching YouTube suddenly something about catheter appear and then I watched it and make me want to try it. so I took a cotton swab and put it in my penis. and gotten a infection.

Sensei1980 ,, Did she ever turn you over and take you rectal temp? And did you still like her if she gave you a shot in the but? lol

Difficult to say exactly. Looking back now I can say with some certainty that I had a medical fetish from as far back as 7 or 8, and certainly by the age of 12. I obviously didn’t label it as a ‘fetish’ at the time.

But the fact that my heart would race and an erection would inevitably appear when lining up for any kind of health screening exams in school strongly suggests my medfet was well underway by that age.

I was already aroused by doctors' visits as a child, but at that time I didn't even know it was sexual arousal. Realizing that this was medical fetish came much later, for a long part of my life I luckily rarely went to the doctor and hated it. I must have started researching about medfet at the beginning of internet. I think it was when I signed up for Zity that that was the real start and that I fully embraced it.

I had it my entire life. I always knew I was “different”, but mine applied to my fetish and not my gay sexuality.

I guess I have been fascinated by it for most of my life. It mainly started about the time that puberty roared in. I never really acted on it until recently, but with life and all things, I've had plenty of exposure.

Elaine

As a child I had some medical issues nothing too dangerous but had a very close call one time. Since then I always wondered and once I got high school out of the way I met a friend and he was also into some creasy things. Once we got to better know each other is when I realized I started to experiment. I still do to this day but not as crazy as back than.

When I started college. I would drive my girlfriend to some of her appointments which were twice a year, or when she needed an adjustment to her bc prescription.

She was too embarrassed to share the details about what happens in the room, and I was trying to be supportive with respect to her symptoms and treatment. So I hit the library to figure it out the missing pieces.

I couldn't get past the images, and the desire to play the role of a Gynecologist led to more research on the questions, common problems, techniques and instruments.

From time to time, I would pass an exam room on campus when the door was open and the stirrups where pulled for use. My imagination would go into overdrive.

A few years later, I met someone who shared my kink. I acquired all of the associated instruments and my wheels left the ground.

When I first saw my then gf get a physical for work. It was at a walk in clinic and she got an older male doc assigned. .just seeing her laying there on the table, while he had her shirt pulled up and listened around her chest with the stethoscope and then felt and tapped around her tan, flat abdomen; thats when it happened. wasnt too complicated.

I guess for me it was when I was around 13.

My mom got remarried to a guy when I was just 11 and we had moved to a new area. The new doctor that we went to seemed nice on the first visit but convinced my mom and stepdad that at age 11 I was a big girl now and that they didn’t need to be in the room with me. At age 11 I didn't know he should have had a nurse or other chaperone in the room and my mom taught me to listen to adults like the doctor, teachers or police officers. So as uncomfortable as his exams were I followed his instructions and did as I was told.

But that I’m older I realize how he abused me and groomed me for continued abuse. It was when I was around 13 (and we all know how our hormones are entering puberty) that I began to feel excitement during my visits. I then found reasons to go see the doctor to satisfy myself from like 13 to 16/17. And I want to keep experiencing and reliving those exams.

Missed the first week of senior year in high school because I got pneumonia right after recovering from getting my wisdom teeth taken out. Had like two male doctors and eventually after being able to go to school for a bit I got sick again. Well the doctor I got to see next was very nice and seemed touchy with me just asking me how I felt. The belly exam felt great to me that day and I realized how much I liked being examined by woman.

Also I had to get an x-ray that day and was almost seen naked by the female tech, a story I've told a few times here. I probably would of died of embarrassment back then if it actually happened but it's nice to think back about that now and wonder how i'd feel if it happened now.

It was retrospect after I learned what “arousal” was around the age of 16, lol. Me at the hospital? No thank you. The strange not-quite fear of some things though, combined with my bizarre interest in reading the wikipedia pages for various medical procedures though? Something was up.

But that I’m older I realize how he abused me and groomed me for continued abuse. It was when I was around 13 (and we all know how our hormones are entering puberty) that I began to feel excitement during my visits. I then found reasons to go see the doctor to satisfy myself from like 13 to 16/17. And I want to keep experiencing and reliving those exams.

Here's an existential question: what would be the difference between grooming and teaching? Yes, I know that grooming contains an element of power and control but that could be said of being made to go to school as well.

If you soon came to like the experiences and sought them out yourself and still wish to do so, how should the realization that you liked it all be described?

Here's an existential question: what would be the difference between grooming and teaching? Yes, I know that grooming contains an element of power and control but that could be said of being made to go to school as well.

If you soon came to like the experiences and sought them out yourself and still wish to do so, how should the realization that you liked it all be described?

I certainly hope teachers in schools are teaching you to allow yourself to be molested sexually by adults while you're a child. Almost grossed out by the fact you're having to ask this. Heck, we can't really know that they don't like it as a direct result, and that they wouldn't have a medical fetish if this grooming didn't occur.

Grooming has the abuser/ groomers desire and interest at heart, teaching has the student at heart.

Medfet derived from clinical examination is not grooming.

When I was in first grade our town had only one doctor. His daughter was in my class and I had a huge crush on her. The doctors office was in his house so as you walked in there were pictures of his daughter on the walls.

At that age I knew I really wanted to get with his daughter. I had never ejaculated, but if I rubbed my dick on the blankets I would get an incredible feeling throughout my body. I didn't understand it but I knew it was amazing. I also knew I wanted to be naked with her. Didn't understand anything about sex, but the thought of being in bed with her without our clothes on was thrilling to me.

I loved going to the doctor and imagining what if she would come into the exam room while I was exposed. What if he had to do an exam on his daughter and there was no where else to do it, so he had to do it in front of me. I had a rich fantasy life.

I know its sad that at that age I was already a perv. She was really really cute.

I started seriously getting into medfet about 10 years ago. I always was turned on by medical experiences since I was about 11 or 12 years older and had a first real physical exam for school with my pediatrician. The exam was always done while in my underwear. When it would come time for laying down and the abdominal exam, I would get butterflies. He would usually say he needed to look at my boy parts to make sure they were still there. Following that, he would look me in the eyes and say that he needed to check my “touchie” and would ask me to turn on my side. He would separate my cheeks and without warning, a finger would be inserted and twist around. When I was 16 he moved onto having me stand and pull my briefs all the way down. Would do the testicular exam and hernia check. He still insisted on rectal exam. When I was 18 and went for my final exam with him, I had realized I liked this physical exam thing. For this exam- the nurse gave me a paper gown and said “take all your clothes off for the dr. He will be right in”. I was instantly erect. I decided to take the chance and not wear underwear under the gown. Exam went normal and then came time for the genital exam. With out warning, while I was laying down, he lifted the gown from bottom up exposing me from waist down. He proceeded to check my scrotum and testicles. Then had me stand and remove the gown. He checked me for a hernia and then instructed me to lay my chest on the table for a quick poke in the behind. I was dripping with pre-cum when he was done And I was hooked on medfet.