What is it like being the doctor

Because I'm submissive, I've always been the patient. But sometimes I wonder what's going on in the doctor's head. Is it the power and control they have? Are they naturally dominate? Do they enjoy sexually what they do? (I mean in the context of playing doctor.) I'm trying to see the flip side of things because it really is a fascinating dynamic.

Easiest way to find out? Try it 😃

Like you, I was initially only interested in the submissive side of things - then I tried playing as the doctor, and discovered I loved being able to arouse and toy with my partner, engendering in them the same wonderful feelings I loved as a sub - so now I play both as a doctor and a patient. I'd never have imagined I would, but I'm so glad I tried.

.... what's going on in the doctor's head. Is it the power and control they have? Are they naturally dominate? Do they enjoy sexually what they do? (I mean in the context of playing doctor.)....

It can be any or all of the above. It also depends on the play partner, what she enjoys and how they can maximize the experience for both parties. With one submissive, it may simply be a power dynamic. For another one, it may be sexual. It may be both. Communication with your partner will help make it enjoyable for both of you. I enjoy both the control factor and with the right partner it can have a nice sexual overtone as well.

I have to echo what SomeRandomGuy said. I love being the patient and having my partner dominate me by ordering me what to do, when to undress etc. But equally I love being the doctor role where I can do similar things in reverse and dominating over my partner knowing how much she's enjoying me doing so and arousing her by me telling her what to strip off, saying what to do, going over her bare skin with the stethoscope etc. (and also loving listening to the sounds inside of her body myself).

Try being the doctor role and I'm sure that you'll enjoy it. 😃

I am able to be either, doctor or patient, dom or sub.

I think really naturally I’m a sub cause I love the lack of control, knowing that naughty, embarrassing things are going to be done to my naked body by this other person, and the exciting, electric sensations this sends through my body.

But there’s two reasons I also like to be the dom or doctor.

First, it’s understanding the sub’s mindset, knowing how good I am making the patient feel by doing such intimate, nasty, taboo things to her body. It’s more than just control, it’s controlling her happiness, her satisfaction, her living her fantasy.

Second, is purely selfish, cause it’s like living a fantasy, getting to be in the position to expose these private parts of a woman’s body, to see her most intimate areas, to examine, probe, spread, penetrate them. And we both know she must allow me to do it. And also, added benefit, to feel and hear her gutteral reactions to my hands exploring her in these naughty ways.

If you find someone who wants to be your patient and who understands your mindset, then it might be worth a try. Trust is key.

I can be either dom or sub, doctor or patient. Although I tend to be more submissive overall, in play I will take the dominant roll most times. I agree with what @RichardAsni said in their post and the other responses as well. For me it's a combination of knowing what I'm doing is making my patient feel a certain way, fulfilling his desires and fulfilling mine also. And as was mentioned, trust between both parties is crucial.