Finding a Dominatrix

OK guys, here's a simple question. What is the best way to find a dominatrix ? How can you be assured that your encounter will be discreet (don't really want the folks at work to find out 😃 ) What is considered legal or unlegal in most states ?

I'd really like to hear from guys who have experience with Domme's and would love to visit one someday in the future !!!

It is very simple.

Google BDSM dungeon or dominatrix along with your city and state.

EROS.com has professional domme connections by locations. Probably safe, but be careful

I have found mistresses and enema nurses online... i check their websites and call to make sure I can get what i want and that we seem compatible. I only had one bust over the years and all the rest were amazing. just save your nickels.

Caveat emptor…then venter inanis