Brother In The Room During Sister's Exam

Are there any of you who can offer a firsthand account of a time when a male sibling was allowed in the exam room during his sister's exam? How old were the two of you? Were either of you developed? Did the male sibling pay close attention to the exam? How did you feel to watch or be watched? What level of nudity was involved? This question is open to both males who witnessed an exam and females who had a male sibling witness their exam.

When I was examined with my sister. She had her underwear on. The doc would pull her underwear down to her ankles. Then she would spread her legs and the doc would spread open her labia. Then would ask her about her period. She is shaved.

Never had an exam with my sister but did with my brothers.

As a doctor, I've never done it, and can't imagine doing it, unless the brother was very young, like under 4 years of age.

I would always be in the exam room with my little sister until I was about 12 years old. The doctor always made me face the wall when her genitals were examined. He never made her look away when my genitals were examined, so I thought that wasn't fair but I never complained. I wish I had refused and pointed out the unfairness because my little sister got to see my penis stretched and measured, my testicles measured, and my foreskin retracted with a clear view from 3 feet away. I knew that the doctor spread her legs and labia based on a reflection but I didn't get to see it.

Only on a few occasions when she had her back and chest auscultated.

Not me in person but friends of mine. She was two years older than her brother and they where examined together. Most time in underpants. But they were also quite young.

When I was young my family went to a GP and we only went when ill or for regular vaccinations, not routine exams like kids now. I do recall one time that my younger sister and I were ill and were taken to the doctor. This was the early 60's I was 7 or 8 and my sister 2 years younger. Our mother took us to the exam room and after the doctor asked her some questions we were both sat on the exam table with shirts and pants off, just underwear. We bathed together so it wasn't a big deal to see each other in our underwear. The doctor listened to both of us with a stethoscope then asked his nurse to come in and take our temperatures. I was older so I was allowed to lay on the table while my sister was layed on Mom's lap. I watched as her undewear were taken down and the thermometer was inserted, while my Mom held the thermometer in my sister the nurse came to the table and the same happened to me. It wasn't the first time and I knew it was painless so I didn't cause a fuss. After the thermometer was removed I was allowerd to sit back up as the nurse left the room. A few minutes later the doctor came back in and spoke with my mother some more. I heard the dreadded word, SHOT. Back then ANY illness that merrited a trip to the doctor usually ended with a penecillin shot in the backside. That's when I started to protest. Mom used parent shame on me and told me I needed to be brave and set a good example for my little stster, even then machismo was a thing. The nurse came back in shortly and asked who was first. Mom indicated that I would go first so my already crying sister would see how brave her big brother was. I laid on my stomach and my underwear were once again lowered, I felt the alcohol being applied and then felt the injection. I'd like to say I very stoically endured it but as I recall I yelled and cried quite loudly but is was soon over. Then it was my sisters turn and she was not all all happy about it. She was having no part of laying on Mom's lap and cooperating. At that I was told to get off the table, my mother picked up and laid my sister on the table and held her while the nurse lowered her underwear and gave her her shot. She screamed and cried but to no avail, it happened and soon it was finished. We were dressed and went home with sore backsides.

Growing up, my sister (older) and I went together for our yearly physicals. My pediatrician always examined me first before my sister. It was a office policy that brothers went first then their sister physical. I was only present a few times for her physicals from start to finish. She undressed but kept on a tee shirt or “training bra” and her panties. For those times I could stay, I had to sit on the opposite side of the room facing my mom. I remember seeing him listening to her heart and lungs then having her lay on the exam table. After that, I only a partial view of him palpating her abdomen but the view was totally obstructed as he reached her panties. She would move her legs but I never saw any part of her genital exam.

As I mentioned before, then he began having me leave the room before starting my sister’s physical. At a certain age, she remained fully dressed and then undressed after I left the room. My opinion, completely a double standard between guys and their sisters. My sister saw me countless times in my underwear, naked and genital exams including a few erections. I remember my pediatrician say several times that “boys didn’t need privacy”.

When I was examined with my sister. She had her underwear on. The doc would pull her underwear down to her ankles. Then she would spread her legs and the doc would spread open her labia. Then would ask her about her period.

As younger children, my little sister and I often shared doctor appointments. I would be on the exam table, and she would be either on the counter or on our mother’s lap. I remember the nurse removing her rubber panties and undoing her diaper to check her genitals and to take her temperature. She also often got a shot, while I usually didn’t. Whenever I could look over and manage to see her with a thermometer in her butt too, it always made me feel a little better about my own predicament.

Joint visits stopped when I was probably age six, and she was four.

I also believe joint doctor visits helped develop my medfets. How could they not?

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As I mentioned before, then he began having me leave the room before starting my sister’s physical. At a certain age, she remained fully dressed and then undressed after I left the room. My opinion, completely a double standard between guys and their sisters. My sister saw me countless times in my underwear, naked and genital exams including a few erections. I remember my pediatrician say several times that “boys didn’t need privacy”.

“boys didn't need privacy” That seemed to be a common belief when I grew up too. Boys genitals hang out for all to see so let the girls see them. Girls genitals are hidden internally so we can't let boys see what's not there to be seen anyway.

I guess I was just lucky as I only had girls about my age for playmates until I began school. We often played in the lawn sprinkler at my house. We began with our cotton underpants on but as soon as they got wet they fell to our ankles and we kicked them off to keep from tripping. My mother came out a couple times to make us put them back on then she gave up and it was normal for us to play there naked. We did do the normal exploration of our differences and they always followed when I stepped behind the lilac bush to pee. They were absolutely fascinated with how I peed and I couldn't figure out where theirs came out but they did their best to let me see it. Although we were very comfortable playing out there naked the other rule applied in the house. It was OK for me to walk naked from the bath to my room to get dressed but God forbid I should see any girl taking a bath or taking that same walk.

Guess this is a good time to share about my sister’s pregnancy exam that I went too. I think I was 17 or 18 she was either 27 or 28 as we are 10 years apart. Maybe younger can’t remember honestly. She hadn’t ever had any type of gynecological exam before but now she was pregnant she had too. So it was the first exam. My mom said typically you don’t have to do anything but talk during the first exam but either way she wanted me to go with her and my sister to this exam because I needed to learn. Full nudity was involved. My sister didn’t know I had been to the gyno with my mom before. She didn’t question it or anything she just went along with me going thinking I had never been to anything like this before. So we get there but since my sister hadn’t ever had that type of exam the doctor said it was necessary. So the nurse came in and done her stuff. Then asked my sister to undress completely and put on the gown with opening facing the back. She asked my mom if I needed to go back to the waiting room my mom said no he is fine. So my sister begins getting naked piece by piece and I have my eyes on her the whole time. I felt kind of embarrassed for looking but I am pretty sure she knew I couldn’t help it being that age and curious. Plus I had realized my medical fetish when I had went with my mom before so that was that too. We haven’t ever spoke of it since but my mom told me afterwards if I had any questions feel free to ask her not my sister though. Only thing is me and my sister had to swear to my mom we would keep it private as my dad would freak out if he knew I went with my sister but especially if he found out about mom. I enjoyed it greatly but I enjoyed my moms more as hers was more hands on for me and she keeps hair down there whereas my sister is shaved.

So yes I’ve been to my sisters exam as well as my moms as most of you I’m sure have read about my moms on here. I don’t recall my sister ever coming to any of mine as a child though. I honestly haven’t been to a doctor since before middle school lol and that was to get middle school shots and that’s it. I had seen my sister naked once before when we were drying clothes and she changed her bra and underwear in front of me. Her breasts looked exactly the same at the exam as I remembered lol. Much bigger than my moms haha.

I dont have a sister but i believe most dont care at a young Age. It might Change during year 8/9/10. And in my pediatrics Office there was a double Standard between Boys and girls.

I see no valid reason for a brother being in the room while his sister is being examined. Maybe for young kids, if the Mother is also present, but not with older kids.

On a related topic, I was at a friend house one afternoon and his mom came in with one of those flat boxes, got out an enema syringe, filled it at the kitchen sink. I was told to go home because the elder brother had to help with giving an enema to his younger sister. Oh, to have been a fly on that wall!

When parents (mom) present and toll a certain age I cannot see any problem being in the exam room. Happened with me once.

And in my pediatrics Office there was a double Standard between Boys and girls.

@examined_teen what shows this double Standard? Do you have examples?

I had my exams with my sister from ages 10 to 17. She is three years younger. I had my genital exam done at the end of the exam after checking all other stuff. I had to undress to my underwear at the beginning of the exam. The pediatric would pull down my underwear to my ankles. I would have the hernia exam and my testicles examined laying down. My sister was sitting just feet away. After checking my testicles I had to turn my head to the side and cough for the hernia exam.

Then my sister had all the regular stuff done. Then asked to take her bra off for a breast exam. Then did the breast exam with eventually one arm up. Then she got to put her bra back on. Then the ped pulled her underwear down to her ankles. Then she had to spread her legs. Then the ped spread her labia open. Then other times the ped just peaked in her underwear. It varied from appointment to appointment.