Have you ever asked for a spanking?

I’ve asked a couple times. My wife. We don’t need much of an excuse to hand out some spankings. There’s people I would have absolutely loved to ask when I was an older teen and young adult but I never had the courage to do it.

Yes - just this week! My last partner was very much into being spanked and i was always the person who administered it but recently I have found a new spanking partner who came and gave me some spanking lessons and showed me how o cane properly. During the course of the session he asked me if i would like to be spanked and so i tried it and thought what have i been missing all theese years? so today I e mailed him and asked for a repeat session both ways and he agreed

Yes,when I was about 15 my dad informed me that I was owed a spanking for some infraction that I had committed then he kind of forgot about it! Several days later when I was very horny I reminded him of it and said I just wanted to get it over with,I even suggested ” in a sly way” to be spanked on my bare bottom which he had never done and mused that it would hurt more and I would learn my lesson! Over his lap I went and had a wicked hardon during the spanking. When I got up to pull up my pants my dick was sticking straight up and he said “quick,button up,don’t let your mother see that” It seemed to me like a special bonding moment at the time.

Now-a-days, I ask for spankings from my wife from time to time. But, the my first experiences with asking for spankings were when I was given a choice regarding my punishments, similar to what I have read in several posts in this thread and others. My dad would sometimes give me a choice between being grounded or a whipping with the strop. A teacher once gave me a choice between staying after school every day for a week (detentions) or a paddling. A babysitter once gave me a choice between receiving a hairbrush spanking over her lap, or having her call my parents about my naughty behavior (my dad probably would have told her to spank me anyway, and then he would have spanked me again when my parents arrived home from their trip). Once, when I was on a weekend camping retreat with the junior high school boys from my church youth group, the youth pastor gave me a choice of staying in my tent writing lines while the other boys enjoyed fun activities, or cutting a fresh switch from a tree in the forest and receiving a good thrashing in front of the other boys. This camping trip spanking happened because I did something dangerous while I was swimming in the river. I was only wearing my swimming trunks at the time, so when the pastor had me remove them to bare my bottom, I was completely naked outdoors in front of about 15 boys my age. As was almost always the case with me, I had an erection before, during, and after the thrashing. My junior high school PE coach always paddled boys immediately after we finished showering in the locker room (still naked and wet), so this wasn't an entirely new experience for me (some of the other boys also got erections). There had even been a few times when girls my age had seen me sporting a very hard penis while receiving a good tanning, so I wasn't too embarrassed to ask for the spanking.

Only adult spanking for pleasure.

Yes on my 62nd birthday I asked my wife to give me a birthday spanking, she reluctantly said okay but really had to encourage her to paddle me harder which she did but was real concerned about hurting me, over the years she has gotten somewhat over that and now any time I ask she will say “get the paddle and bend over”. She will still say after about 50 hard swats with a wooden paddle “ okay your ass is blood red that’s enough “

I can ask my wife all i want .

She will give me the a lecture on how weard she thinks i an but a spanking nope

Yes.

Yes.

No more words will be needed !! - thanks for that !!